She followed her mother's old path
Recently, Xiao S talked about the topic of marriage in the podcast program, she reminded unmarried women not to be brainwashed by their elders, or forced to find someone to marry casually.
She believes that marriage is no joke, and would rather be lonely than find one at random: "I would rather enjoy the freedom of being single, and it doesn't matter if I am lonely once in a while, and it is a terrible thing to get married randomly." ”
Most netizens agree with Xiao S's point of view, do not marry for the sake of getting married, rather than indiscriminate.
Recently, Xiao S talked a lot about the secrets of her marriage, and finally admitted that in order to give birth to a boy, she had used folk remedies, which triggered heated discussion among netizens.
She said that the third child was still a daughter, and her father-in-law even asked her husband if he had used a home remedy. During that time, Little S was very depressed and wrote a lot of diaries full of negative emotions. When her husband is away, she will hide in the toilet and cry.
Netizens feel that this behavior is quite ignorant, lacks scientific basis, and is likely to cause harm to the child's health.
The terrible thing is that the same experience happened to Little S's mother, who repeated her mother's mistakes.
As we all know, Little S and Big S also have an older sister, and Xu's mother also gave birth to three daughters.
The reason why Xiao S is called Xu Xidi and his nickname is Tingting is because Grandpa wants a grandson. Tingting means "female stop", don't have another daughter, "Xi Di" hopes to have another male doll.
Xu's mother recalled that at that time, her in-laws desperately wanted her to have three children. As a result, the doctor told her that it was a girl, and Xu's mother broke down and cried, saying: "I don't want me not, I am pregnant in October, why did I have a daughter again."
And when Xiao S hears the story of Xu's mother "don't want her", she will joke and say: "You see your third daughter (grown up) is more contentious."
Little S, who has been plagued by the idea of son preference from childhood to adulthood, also succumbed to this pedantic concept after marrying someone himself.
She herself, the program team, and the guests used to like to take the matter of giving birth to a boy, to play with all kinds of terriers, and create program effects.
Little S is very divided, will say very satisfied with the three daughters, does not want boys.
Ouyang Nana which pot does not open which pot, asked Xiao S if he wants to have a son? Little S said she didn't want to, even if she saw big S give birth to a lovely son, she didn't want to have another one.
But occasionally, he reveals his true thoughts and really wants to have a boy.
She dared to joke that when she encountered the bet of giving birth to a boy, she instigated it.
Sometimes Little S will lose his measure because of the problem of son preference,
At that time, Fu Juan took the children to the show, and then Xiao S said to four-year-old Ouyang Didi, your mother gave birth to you in order to have a younger brother.
Fu Juan retorted that this was Xiao S's idea, not her.
Even Cai Kangyong couldn't look at it, saying why did Little S leave a shadow in the child's heart.
The bold little S in front of the camera, in fact, the concept of marriage is conservative and traditional, and he knows that he cannot escape from pua
At that time, the fat master invested by the little S in-law was exposed to "internal trading", causing a series of storms.
As a result, The little S husband in turn threw all the responsibility to his wife, saying that it was because of the popularity of little S that it would make such a big fuss. In this regard, Little S could only crouch in the toilet and cry.
Her daughters all thought that their parents would divorce, but Little S insisted that they would not divorce: "I will hold him, the kind that goes to death with him."
Does anyone think that Little S has been PUA for a lifetime and that her marital insights are not convincing?
On the other hand, her words are heartfelt words, using her own example to keep everyone away from the depths of the water.
Little S's marriage does have reference value, don't flash marriage because you have reached the so-called age to get married, meet a seemingly OK person.
At the age of 27, Xiao S married Xu Yajun Mike, who was 8 years older than himself, and the two could be described as flash marriage, from falling in love to getting married, and then to the birth of the first child with only one year span.
And it was Xiao S who chased after his husband, when the media said that his husband's condition was still good, he was an ABC, graduated from the architecture department of Columbia University, and engaged in the financial industry.
Met Mike, just the age of Xiao S 26, 27 years old want to get married, she has had 3 relationships before, one is the first love, one is a vigorous 4-year relationship with Huang Ziling, and the other is with ABC boyfriend Eric, the two have talked for more than 1 year.
After the first two rather tired relationships, Little S and Mike hit it off and entered into marriage.
At that time, the marriage atmosphere of female stars was quite terrible, and during the love between Big S and Zaizai, it has always been said that her old cow eats tender grass, when DaS was only about thirty years old, the media said every day that she forced the marriage of Zaizai, resulting in a breakup.
In 2018, Xiao S admitted in an interview that he regretted not knowing more boys, and got married too early at the age of 27, "In terms of feelings, I am still quite reserved and conservative."
Xiao S lives soberly and confusedly, seemingly seeing a lot of life principles and the true meaning of marriage, but still trapped in it, what do you think about her contradictory marriage?