"Unity of Dai and Dai" is the most accurate summary of Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao by Li Yanzhai. This "unity" is not only a complement to the reality of the two people, but also the truth of the past life of the two people. This article will talk about reality, what is the gap between Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao!
As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and everyone in the world has shortcomings. Just like Xue Baochao and Lin Daiyu's "unity" is perfect, there must be deficiencies in separation.
The Xue Baochao that Lin Daiyu possessed did not have, and the Lin Daiyu that Xue Baochao possessed was insufficient. This is an objective reality.
Life always has regrets, either within itself or externally.
This article does not mention the advantages and disadvantages of Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao, listing so many conditions one by one, readers have long known it. I want to talk about why Xue Baochao, as the representative of the virtuous wife, is "inferior" to Lin Daiyu, so valued by Jia Mu and Jia Zheng.
There are many people who have found many clues, pointing out that Jia Mu and Jia Zheng have not tried to recognize Xue Baochao, nor have they tried to accept Lin Daiyu. But in fact, Lin Daiyu is the choice of the two family members of Rong Guofu. Only because of rong guofu's abandonment of wu congwen's transformation, in addition to Li Feng, Lin Daiyu also needed to add more.
On the other hand, Xue Baochao did not propose to be a businessman, and there was also the influence of the Wang family behind it. The future of Rong Guofu cannot be controlled by the "royal family woman". This is an obvious fact.
When Cao Xueqin said "mother locust", she was not mocking Grandma Liu! Instead, it is pointed out that the Wang family borrows the marriage of daughters to emulate the ambition of the "mother locust" to control the Jia family!
The gap between Xue Baochao and Lin Daiyu is simply in Liu Grandma's praise and Jia Mu's criticism. The author has already hinted.
Liu Grandma entered the Rongguo Mansion for the second time, and Jia Mu took her to visit the Grand View Garden, and the first stop was Xiaoxiang Hall.
Grandma Liu was full of admiration for Lin Daiyu's room, praising, "This embroidery room that looks like a lady is even better than the superior study." ”
If you combine the seventeenth Jia Zheng's evaluation of Xiaoxiangguan, "If you can read under this window under the moon, you will not waste your life", you can understand the advantages of Lin Daiyu's birth in Xiangmendi.
The Lin family attaches great importance to education, Lin Ruhai only has one daughter, please get a tutor or a jinshi, as the prefect of Jia Yu Village.
Jia Yu Village's character is not good, and there is learning. He enlightened Lin Daiyu, who had "read" the Four Books before he was seven years old. Note that this "read" means to be integrated, not only memorized, but also understood and elaborated. It's amazing.
On the other hand, Jia Baoyu was eleven or twelve years old and could not recite the "Four Books", and the teacher was angry with him and resigned.
Such a Jia family, is there no need for Lin Daiyu's "such" daughter-in-law?
The three generations of good daughters-in-law Wang, not the daughter-in-law has done anything earth-shattering, but can subtly affect the family lintel and atmosphere.
Just like Li Feng, without her forging ahead and unswervingly. How can Jia Lan regain his gold list title after raiding his home and rise again!
The Jia family of the second duke of Ning Rong was gone, and there was still the Jia family of Jia Lan. As long as there are people, the incense inheritance is there. This is Li Feng's great achievement. It is also the true meaning of "new green and green to add raccoon, good cloud fragrance to protect the celery people".
Lin Daiyu's origin and upbringing are on par with Li Feng, and with her and Li Feng on a par, the Jia family is afraid of what to raid.
Note: There is no need to talk about Lin Daiyu's weak body here. Ancient marriages did not fully consider these. Even if Lin Daiyu couldn't give birth to children, there were other concubines. But it was her duty to raise it. The inheritance is also like this from generation to generation.
On the other hand, Xue Baochao, Jia Mu was greatly dissatisfied with the layout of the Garden. Criticism: "Can't do it." Although he is convenient, if he comes to a relative, it does not look like it; the second is that the young girls, the room is so pure, it is also taboo... Although their sisters did not dare to compare with those ladies, they should not be very out of line. There are ready-made things, why not put them? ”
Jammu criticized on the point. Xue Baochao is excellent, and Lin Daiyu is not as good as her many times. Even her knowledge and mind are inferior to her. However, Xue Baochao is like a deliberately shaped "artificial product", which will always inadvertently reflect the deficiency, seemingly insignificant, but in fact fatal.
In terms of her room furnishings, her preferences expose many shortcomings.
First, the taste is not high. Xue Baochao must have taste, but her personality suppressed her style. She doesn't like to fiddle with flowers and powder, which doesn't mean it doesn't matter.
Xue Baochao's personality will inevitably affect his descendants. This is wrong!
Second, the pursuit is not enough. Xue Baochao can dislike "flowers and powders", but taking his "dislike" as a standard of behavior is the taboo of the family.
If Aunt Xue didn't like to manage her son, could Xue Pan learn badly?
Looking at Jia Lan again, Li Feng never let him attend the Grand View Garden party, so he was consistent.
Third, the etiquette is incomplete. Xue Baochao lived in the Jia family and respected the rules and etiquette of others. Her room was dull and tasteless, completely inconsistent with the standards of the Jia family, reflecting Xue Baochao's lack of upbringing and "selfishness". The so-called "Ren is ruthless and moving", nothing more.
From these three points, Xue Baochao has become the "chicken rib" of the Jia family. On that day, Jia Zheng commented that the garden was "tasteless" and then "interesting". It is reflected in Xue Baochao's fundamental inadequacy.
Looking back at Lin Daiyu's old green window screen, the color of Xiaoxiang Hall is seriously related to the color, and it is not the housekeeper Wang Xifeng who hit the face, when the family Lady Wang inherited from the Lack of Cultivation of the Wang Family!
The daughter of the Wang family is flawed, and Xue Baochao has her mother to inherit the Wang family's upbringing, although she has studied hard herself, in the end, she is "too late".
Jammu criticizes her room for her fatal inadequacy. And Liu Grandma praised Lin Daiyu's learning, which was passed down by the Lin family for generations.
One is the fatal flaw in Xue Baochao's upbringing, and the other is that Lin Daiyu insists on the family inheritance for several generations, without thinking about who is more suitable for the Jia family and the real gap between the two of them.
Looking at the individual, Bao Dai does not distinguish between Xuan Xuan, and even Bao Chao still wins. Looking at the background, Xue Baochao was defeated, and Lin Daiyu won without a fight.
Inheritance is never a personal matter, but it is unattainable! The daughter of the Wang family did not understand, so Madame Wang did not understand, and her daughter Jia Yuanchun could not understand it.
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