Is the aunt cruel, or is the child unreasonable?
The child kicked the ball and hit the aunt's stomach, the aunt went down with a set of combination punches, the child's hearing was reduced, and he was sent to the hospital, what happened?
1. What happened
It happened on May 26 in Cangzhou, Hebei Province, where several children were playing football in the community.
There was also a retired elderly couple, the child may not have controlled the force, the kicking ball hit the aunt of the two, causing the aunt's stomach to ache.
The child saw that he had broken into trouble, and hurriedly walked over to apologize to the aunt who was hit, saying that he blamed himself and wanted to give the aunt 200 yuan to let her go to the doctor.
I don't know if it hurt to be hit by the ball, or the child's words annoyed her, and the aunt slapped the child twice, and then twisted her face and knocked her head in a wild blast.
Several children who played together, who had seen such a fierce grandmother, were frightened, some took pictures with their mobile phones, and some were in a hurry to call the police.
During the process of the child being beaten, the wife next to the aunt remained indifferent, allowing the aunt to beat the child without stopping.
The owner of the same community saw that the child was beaten like this, and hurriedly spoke out to stop it, hoping that she would spare the child for the sake of the residents of the community.
The crazy aunt didn't buy it at all, and the owner hurried to find the child's mother, which pulled the child back.
Subsequently, the child's mother called the police.
At this time, the beating aunt and wife were anxious, and they asked around the community about the child's residence, ready to come to the door to apologize and ask for forgiveness.
But the child's mother said she would not accept it, and the mother complained that the child had not slept well for several days because of the beatings by the aunt, and his hearing was impaired.
As soon as this incident happened and spread on the Internet, it caused controversy among everyone.
2. There are many differences among netizens
Some netizens said that it is wrong to hit people anyway.
After the ball hit the aunt, the child has taken the initiative to apologize, and is even willing to compensate for the medical expenses of 200 yuan, if the aunt does not agree, you can find the child's parents to solve it, do not be angry with a young child, beat the young and ignorant child at will.
Some netizens said, is there any problem with the child's tone in the process of communicating with the aunt?
How the child and the aunt communicated at that time, we really don't know.
Even if there is a problem in the child's tone, after the ball hits the aunt, the child makes a bad speech, looking for the police and the child's parents is the solution, there is really no need to extremize the matter.
In addition, some netizens accused Aunt of being a person with grandchildren and should not set such an example.
Change to their own children kicking football and hitting themselves, the aunt is definitely not such a face, maybe she will have a smile to comfort her.
Some old people do things very double-standard, when teaching children at home, benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith are fooled, but outside they are not moral, uncivilized, all based on likes and dislikes.
3. Views on the matter
First, children kicking football and hitting their aunts are sometimes unavoidable.
It is not controversial that such a big child is when he is naughty, and when he plays football, it is not light or heavy, and it is possible to hurt the aunt.
But when the aunt came over to apologize, it was obvious that the way she handled it was wrong.
Regardless of whether the aunt wants to compensate or lose her temper, you should give priority to the child's parents and communicate with the child's parents.
Beating the child privately, the wind evaluation was immediately reversed, she was originally a victim, because beating the child turned the perpetrator, neither morally nor legally, there is no support.
Second, when the aunt beat the child, his wife did not stop it.
According to media reports, both husband and wife are retired employees, in simple terms, both should be educated, compared with other elderly people of the same age, should know the law.
But the behavior of this old couple, at a glance, you can know that it is not a family that does not enter the house, but if the uncle can dissuade it halfway, it will also cause the current situation.
Third, the impact of this matter on children is really great.
According to the child's mother, the child has lost his ears and cannot sleep well at night because of this.
One possibility is that what the mother said is true, and the aunt beat the child hard, which caused the hearing of the child's ears to drop a lot, and the future hearing recovery may be relatively slow.
Another possibility is that when the aunt teaches the child, she leaves some strength, and the child's hearing loss is only short-lived, and it may recover after a period of rest.
But no matter how strong the aunt beats the child, the impact on the child's psychology must be great, in the face of the aunt's beating, it is likely to leave a psychological shadow, and it is far more difficult to repair the child's psychological trauma than to restore hearing.
The methods used by the aunt to beat the child will bring different treatment outcomes, and it is also the key to whether the child's parents can forgive the aunt.
4. Prediction of the subsequent development of things
The child was beaten, her mother must be angry, the child's mother's anger has not subsided, it must be a little difficult to reconcile.
If the aunt's strength is not large, and the child rests for a period of time, the body recovers, and the child's sleep state is also improved, and when the child's mother's anger subsides, it should not be a big problem to reconcile.
After all, in the same community, if you look up and don't look down, your face will be torn off.
If the aunt had a heavy hand at that time, the child had been deaf for a long time because of this matter, and as long as the child's hearing could not be restored, most of the psychological trauma would have recovered slowly, and it would be a little difficult for the aunt to get the forgiveness of the child's mother.
In this situation, it is certainly not a simple apology that can be settled, not only to apologize, but also to pay compensation, and the amount of compensation must also reach the satisfaction of the child's mother.
Epilogue:
At any time, don't do it easily, even if it is yourself who is provoked by others first, and you are the first to hit yourself, as long as you fight back, it may be defined as beating each other.
It's the same as the situation of the aunt hitting the child, when returning the hand, once the emotions come up, the refreshing feeling brought by dopamine and endophenolphthalein pushes the hand back, how can you say stop and stop!
In fact, many people understand a truth, doing it means taking money, and sometimes it is still bankrupt to take money!