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Tourism is a very desirable thing, because tourism can not only feel the atmosphere that you can't feel on a daily basis, but also make people feel better. But a beautiful thing may also become terrible because of some small things, can not pin good hopes on doing something, the most important element is often the person itself, only when the person is good, the scenery will be beautiful.
A few years after her retirement, 64-year-old sister Liu was envious of the photos of her friends going out on a trip, and decided to take her family out for a trip. The daughter-in-law told the news to the in-laws who were alone at home for the elderly, and as a result, the in-laws had to follow, and there were many conflicts along the way, less than a week after departure, Sister Liu's originally good family of four became one, leaving Sister Liu alone.
64-year-old sister Liu said:
Reading and working accounted for most of my life, either studying hard or working lifelessly, and finally ushered in my own retirement life, and I also have a pension of more than 2,000 every month. The retirement life is indeed very good, but it is also very ordinary, I have never enjoyed any blessings in this life, I always feel that I have the urge to do something big, but I have never had the opportunity, or I am firmly locked in life.
The wife died, had a son, was married, and had grandchildren. When I gave birth to my grandson, my son and daughter-in-law needed my help, so I moved directly to my son's house, got along well with my son's family of three, and did not move back to the old house.
As my grandson grew up, I also relaxed, I didn't need to do anything, I went to square dancing on weekdays, and at first I liked to dance, and there would be many people watching when I danced, and I got some recognition and satisfaction.
No matter what I do, as long as it exceeds a certain number and frequency, I will get bored, and for a while I kind of don't want to go dancing, so I stopped for a while, and then I went again, and the sisters I knew were not dancing, and I didn't go if I was bored.
Later, it was popular to have picnics, meet a few good sisters, go to the park, spread a cloth on the green and soft grass, sit on the spot, chat, and eat a small snack, which is really good.
Sometimes I also go shopping with my sisters, buy clothes and skirts, and then find some Internet celebrity check-in spots to take photos or something. That's all the days, and it didn't take long for me to get bored and feel bored. Until one day when we went to chat on the grass, a sister took out photos of her son taking her abroad, proudly showed off, and told us a lot of very interesting things during the trip, describing the scenery that had only been seen on TV, which made everyone smile.
I smiled and was very envious in my heart. Maybe everyone thinks that travel is a common thing nowadays, but in my opinion, no matter where you go, it is really worth showing off.
Looking back on my life, don't say anything about traveling abroad, I haven't even been out of the province, and tourism is a rare thing to do. It's not that there is no money to travel, it's just that life is too complicated, first studying and working, then taking care of parents, and then raising sons, there is no time and energy to think about traveling, and now it is really sad to think about it.
When I went home that night, I told my son about my sister's son taking her to play abroad, and inadvertently said a lot of envious words, and at the same time lamented that I had never even been out of the province. Other people's sons can take their mother abroad for travel, my son doesn't need to take me abroad, just take me to play in the nearby provinces, I thought to myself.
At that time, my son and daughter-in-law often quarreled, so I said: "Son, or let's go out to play with the family of four, you can also relax and relax, take advantage of the grandson's holiday, and let the baby grandson see the world." The daughter-in-law suddenly interjected: "Mom, who doesn't want to travel, but there are a lot of living expenses, and the family can't free up money to go out to play." ”
I understood what my daughter-in-law meant, "It's okay, mom has money, mom takes you there, you can just show the way along the way." "My eyes exude longing and yearning for travel, anyway, there are more than 2,000 a month, it doesn't matter if I save some flowers before."
My son also supported me, saying that it happened that the relationship at home had been tense recently, and I could go out to relax and ease the relationship, but I didn't expect that this trip turned out to be a different one.
The journey was confirmed by a family of four, and I was so happy that I hadn't fallen asleep for days, always looking forward to going out and having fun. The night before departure, my father-in-law, who had lost his wife in the early years, suddenly came to the door and brought a bunch of things, I thought that my daughter-in-law called us to guard the house, but I didn't expect to go with us.
My father-in-law said that he wanted to go with us, he had never traveled, and he also wanted to play together, and said that it was more lively to have one more person. What a lively ah, my heart suddenly tugged, how much does a trip and one person cost! Originally planned to refuse, but the daughter-in-law spoke first: "Mom, my father is also pitiful, he raised me so big, and he has never gone out to play, just along the way, you also have more topics." It's okay, I'll take out my dad's money. "It's funny that I actually believed the last most important word.
If you have to go, go anyway, the daughter-in-law said she would give it, I thought so at the time. Soon our family of four, plus my in-laws, set off.
After playing for two days along the way, it was clear that the money of the in-laws and daughter-in-law came out, but the daughter-in-law did not pay much in the past two days, because the purchase of things was five copies at once, and it was said that I spent money, so I could only pay in full, and the daughter-in-law did not mention this.
I was not happy, and I complained to my son in private, and my son comforted me that my daughter-in-law had no money herself, so let me be considerate.
Say that there is no money, when visiting a certain ancient city, I went in and bought more than 10,000 gold bracelets for my in-laws. At this time, my son and I were stunned, only to see that after buying it, my son angrily looked for his daughter-in-law to theorize, and the two quarreled on the street. I hurried to persuade my son, forget it, it is not easy for my father-in-law.
Later, my daughter-in-law also bought me a pearl necklace at a special price, and in order not to let the husband and wife quarrel, I pretended to like it. But at night, there was still noise in the room where they were staying. Only two key sentences were heard: "The money is all spent by my mother, what the hell!" "She came herself!" Presumably my son is fighting for me.
In less than a few days of travel, the two did not speak, and within a few days they said that they would go home, and the argument mentioned that they wanted to divorce, I was frightened, and hurried to dissuade, but to no avail.
On this worrying tour, we went home together within a few days. The angry daughter-in-law took her grandson and in-laws back home, but did not return for several days, and my son gradually became irritable with me, saying that he blamed me for forcibly going on a trip, which made the family smoky and miasmatic. I was also very uncomfortable, so I promised to say to my son: "If it weren't for my in-laws, I had to follow..." My son roared: "Don't say any more!" Very annoying! ”
I silently and simply collected my things and went back to the old house. I went home in ashes, and when my friend asked me to visit the park, he asked me to tell me interesting stories along the way. My eyes darkened, there was nothing interesting, and I regretted traveling. I sighed deeply and said helplessly, "This trip, my in-laws have to follow, and a good family of four will change into a mouthful."