Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Ye Ziyao
The latest season of "Sister Lang" started broadcasting and saw Sun Yue.
She is 50 years old this year, and she is in such a refreshing state. As soon as she appeared, her sisters sang "Peace to You" in unison.
On the first stage, she chose a more difficult singing and dancing, "Let's Come Together". In other words, the elementary school performance did not escape this song, please raise your hand.
I remember that Sun Yue said in an interview before that she prefers to try and challenge, otherwise she would be able to sing "Peace to You" for 30 years.
Introducing herself, she said that everyone would just call me "Sister Yue" (the oldest of the sisters this generation is Qu Ying, 52 years old), her eyes are squinted, and the arc of her smile is the same as that of more than twenty years ago.
Backstage preparation, Sun Yue is like a very "tiger" newcomer: "Oh, you still have to play the board, right?!" ”
When asked what kind of team member she wanted to choose, she said bluntly: "Good personality, don't do it." ”
But the sentence that touched me the most was that she was asked why she came back at 50?
She said that because her son had grown up.
Sun Yue, I haven't seen you for a long time.
Last year's music variety show "Time Concert" suddenly returned to the public's field of vision because it was on the hot search. Everyone marveled at her unchanging face and remarkable clothes for many years.
It was also at that time that I learned that she took the initiative to leave the music scene for 8 years for her son and "disappeared" on the stage of major parties.
Her son had asthma when he was six years old, and seeing his son coughing badly every day, Sun Yue returned to the family and became a full-time mother to accompany her son.
Her son is now a 16-year-old teenager, and she is finally relieved to "go out of the mountain". Her son persuaded her: "Mom, when I grow up, do what you like!" ”
Almost 30 years ago, my impression of Sun Yue's early childhood was that this female singer was not beautiful, but her appearance rate was really high.
I remember that there was a TV program in our hometown called Dian Ge Channel, and the high-frequency on-demand "I Wish You Peace" often appeared on TV. The female singers of that period also included Na Ying, Mao Amin, Han Hong, and Tian Zhen.
It is said that behind Sun Yue's famous song, there is also an inspirational story with a very "independent woman" temperament.
At that time, this song was the ending song of the TV series "Urban Christmas Eve", and Na Ying sang it, there was no fire. Sun Yue listened to it, felt that it was very suitable for herself, and wanted to sing.
In order to obtain the copyright and promote it successfully, she borrowed 120,000 yuan with her parents, brother and relatives and friends, bought the copyright, and filmed MTV. This amount of money was not a small amount at the time. Sun Yue "gambled" and won.
"There was only one outlet for the song, MTV. I want to shoot the best, I borrow money to shoot, and I will pay it back after borrowing. If the song doesn't catch fire, I'll go to the cabaret and sing it. (From Southern People Weekly)
In the singing world at that time, Sun Yue turned into the "singing and dancing" track and became the first generation of female singers in the mainland.
She went to South Korea to shoot commercials, came across Korean dance music, and bought the rights covers, including "Happy Guide" adapted from the cool dragon band "Bow Mighty Chabala".
Yes, it's the band before Big S's current husband. The two have also performed on the same stage.
In the days when the Korean Wave came, Sun Yue also cooperated with Lee Jung-hyun, the originator of the Hallyu.
The cheerful style, avant-garde shape, and word-of-mouth classic songs have allowed Sun Yue to gain a firm foothold in the music scene.
He has performed in Japan, participated in Sino-Korean concerts, been a spokesperson for Korean tourism, and even held three concerts in Las Vegas.
In 2004, Sun Yue met her husband Wu Feizhou, the owner of a technology company with a net worth of more than 100 million.
Got married and had children, she did what she wanted, and she did not stop her career and went home to her husband and children. Her husband also supports her career, will be a low-key audience, and appear at the concert scene.
What really let her go was her son's illness.
At the age of 43, Sun Yue fully left the stage and moved his family to Shanghai to accompany his son; Behind the scenes, he started a new media company.
She lived what seemed like "good years" – "most of her time was spent living and nurturing." ”
Life is good, and the parenting of female stars is not lacking in helpers, but even so, from Sun Yue's three words, you can capture the difficulties of being a mother over the years.
When she came back last year, it was her partner who asked her "if you want to come out and relax and play".
It's too real, isn't it?! How difficult is it to bring a baby at work!
Beauvoir had long since said that "there is hardly any work more tormented by Sisyphus than the eternally repetitive chores of housework." ”
I understand Sun Yue incomparably that becoming a mother means that all instincts will point to the fear of the child's "suffering", and any little bit of illness and torment of the child that is not considered major to outsiders is the "long season, hopeless torment" of this mother.
In marriage, if raising children requires giving up personal career development, the reality is that even if there are stars all over the country, there is no husband behind them to force them to withdraw from the circle, and even have the support of their husbands, most of the people who actively or passively make concessions are still women.
There is a scene that truly portrays the joy of Sun Yue's self-return. That day, after her performance on the first stage, she stood there alone and said excitedly: "Or I'll do it again, I haven't sung enough." ”
This Sister Lang, several sisters have become mothers.
Lu Jingshan took the baby to record the show, the child is just six months old, she is breastfeeding. As soon as I got off the stage here, I ran to the baby over there. Coaxing the crying daughter to say, "Mom has done her best".
Even though she was trained and beaten like a boy by Xi Wu's father as a child, as a wife and mother, she still has to face life issues with how to balance work and be a good new mother.
Cai Shaofen, who has a baby at home, said that she was also hesitant to go on the show, and first asked for the child's opinion, and it was her eldest daughter who encouraged her to participate.