Text | Ming Yue
After sending a number of Weibo messages in the early morning announcing to the people of the whole country that "it is not enough," Hong Xin said that he would not divorce again.
With a bizarrely typeset Chinese Simplified apology letter posted, it seems inevitable that she will go further and further down the path of the "stupid woman" predicted by Li Ka-hin years ago.
Hong Xin, who was born in 71, is also in his early 50s this year.
The big sister of this age, carrying an ignorant family, is still struggling to perform on the small stage of the county.
I was too harsh on her and always felt embarrassed.
Female celebrities are the most anticipated women.
They have amazing beauty, heavenly skills, and easy financial opportunities.
It should be the state of everyone's mouth, "you are so good at mixing, what kind of object cannot be found, what kind of life cannot be lived".
But the reality is that after removing the halo, many female stars are just making simple choices for ordinary women in the narrow situation of ordinary women.
Hong Xin and Zhong Liti have always been compared with char siu fen and Yi Nengjing in recent years.
Without him, the experiences of the four of them are too similar.
They all debuted in the heyday of entertainment and industry in Hong Kong and Taiwan, accumulated rich works and fame by relying on the assembly line of the entertainment industry, and developed north around the millennium.
While getting many job opportunities with mysterious nostalgia filters, they also gained young husbands who have a childhood goddess complex for them.
Of course, there are many troubles.
As soon as I got married, I was constantly promoted, and I began to talk about my mother-in-law on variety shows, and the past was mentioned from time to time, and comparisons with similar ones were inevitable.
Now the difference between the situation of the first two and the last two is embarrassing.
Hong Xin and Zhong Liti are obviously more constrained by self and environmental conditions.
What puzzles me the most about the two of them is to change the children's surnames back and forth, and they don't change their surnames.
Zhong Liti was married three times, and when she was with her first Belgian ex-husband, she was still very young and probably confused.
After marriage, he once quit the entertainment industry and returned to Canada to give birth to his eldest daughter, Yasmine.
After the divorce, she returned to the Hong Kong and Taiwan entertainment industry and remarried Taiwanese musician Yan Zheng.
gave birth to two younger daughters, and changed the surname of the mixed-race eldest daughter to Yan Shuqin.
This Yan Zheng has not been very smooth, and he can't stand the marriage of strong women and weak men.
As soon as the youngest daughter Cayla was born, the two collapsed.
I remember a few years ago, there was a popular "winner in life", that is, the younger the girl who gets married and has children, the more the winner.
At that time, countless women posted photos on the Internet, all of them were children who had already played soy sauce, and I was still a young hot girl in her twenties.
When this matter reached the point where it could not be ended, someone sent out a photo of Zhong Liti with her three daughters.
Although she is not young, she is in excellent condition and brings three babies lively and cute with the power of one person.
People sighed that "this is called the winner of life", and directly ended the game.
This single-parent family of four stands out, has many topics, and gets a lot of opportunities to be on variety shows.
Zhong Liti took the koala to the parent-child show, and then went on the love variety show, and the show specially arranged two daughters to accompany her to take wedding photos.
She met the current one on the relationship, and quickly completed the marriage within a year.
Although her husband is still inferior to her this time, he cares about her at the beginning.
She got married for the third time and finally fulfilled her wish to wear a wedding dress, and her Weibo avatar is still a wedding dress.
Sure enough, this time all three daughters changed their surnames to Zhang.
Hong Xin was also very young when she first married a wealthy businessman surnamed Huang, and the two had no children.
After that, she fell in love with Mo Shaocong at first sight in the crew, she became his little henchman, and gave birth to a son out of wedlock.
Once released a bold statement - my mother can raise four children alone, why can't I?
The child's surname, of course, is Mo, even if they are separated during pregnancy.
Even for many years, it seems that Mo Shaocong has little contact with them.
In 2017, Mo Shaocong suddenly posted a challenge on Weibo, saying that Hong Xin had been hacking him for many years.
Post two photos of the child as a baby as the "truth" to prove that he did not deny his son.
At that time, Hong Xin had been married for seven or eight years, and the children had long since changed their surname to Zhang.
The woman was inexplicable about this, pointing out that the other party was using the child.
He blew himself up that he had no contact information at all, and he still sent a private message to his child on Weibo.
He had nothing to say, he was really bored with himself.
Recently, the acting work of the two Hong Kong women is very rare, and it takes traffic and topics to go to the Internet celebrity road, and marriage life is often on the hot search intentionally or unintentionally.
Their children are also growing up, and some are still gaining momentum to debut.
Always make people can't help but beat the drum in their hearts, what if, in case of divorce again, is this going to change the name again?
It is not necessary for a person to change his name several times because of the change in his mother's marriage when he is growing up, or if he has grown up.
This is a difficult thing to hear, it is a letter to the father - "My child recognizes you as a father."
To be tolerant, it is probably "since men care about this, and it's not a big deal, I can be satisfied and satisfied."
To be honest, I don't think other original families should have the surname dad in the first place.
It's just a habit of traditional society - like the birth of the marriage system, the child's surname is to facilitate the inheritance of the father's property, and also to bind the man's productivity into a family.
The status quo is different, and they are even more different.
Divorced, not together, if you want to change it, it is also to give the child's surname Zhong and Hong ah.
Zhong Hong and the two ladies actually have a matrilineal family.
They are the main supporters of family productivity and social status, and they are also the main responsible for the birth and upbringing of children.
They have changed partners, but the children are always bound to them wherever they go.
If their children want to debut, they will definitely be "Zhong Liti's daughter" and "Hong Xin's son."
Even Yu Enli was talked about several times out of line style, and he was not called "Yi Nengjing's son".
One thought I'm afraid to talk about is that many first-married families that are still in marriage are equally matrilineal in nature.
Excluding the interference of traditional language (what "I will give birth to a child for your old X's family" and so on), in fact, children are all born by women for themselves.
Many of them in marriages are experiencing widowed parenting, and most of them are mothers with children after divorce.
And men can have children and have a home because of women.
Otherwise, they only have a job, a job that they already have to do.
Zhong Hong's two big sisters either don't understand this fact, they just obey inertia.
When the relationship is good, I can't wait to prove that I am a family by all means.
The fastest way is to give the child the surname Daddy, like other families.
It's strange, Yi Nengjing looks so in love with the brain, and she loves Qin Hao every day, but she just won't think about this kind of thing.
Part of the reason, of course, is that Harlem himself is a powerful man who is more responsible for his children than those men.
It may also be that Yi attaches more importance to the attributes of the child as an independent person, and does not have to let the changes in the relationship between parents bring him too many changes.
She has always been not very obedient to social brainwashing, just like she said that she only liked handsome guys and talents since she was a child, and she has never been cold to the so-called giants.
I believe her.
As an Internet celebrity in the star class, Yi Nengjing's words are many and dense.
This kind of thin desire for expression, the side effect is easy to offend people, but the advantage is that she is often combing herself and summarizing life.
The same female stars who became famous at a young age, Zhong Liti and Hong Xin always felt quite naïve, and they could not see a strong self-awareness and self-perseverance.
It's like Zhong Liti Hongxin, and Yi Nengjing Char Roast Fen, the husbands they were looking for in the mainland seem to be similar.
They are all not yet famous, their social status and earning power are not as good as women's, and they have a little bit of "pride automatically generated because they are men".
The conditions are similar, but what is the difference between people? How do they see that?
Of course, there are traces of everything.
In his early years, Qin Hao picked dramas fiercely, "only earning hundreds of thousands a year, and he also had to bear his own publicity expenses."
But he has always been making literary films, and the person who has nominated the Cannes actor four times has a pursuit of artistic creation.
Now people that, it is a dimensionality reduction strike.
At the beginning, there was only one opportunity for commercialization, and the high social value could be realized immediately.
It just so happens that this opportunity can be provided by Yi Nengjing.
Zhang Jin was originally a martial artist, but when he met Char Siu Fen, he was already filming.
Judging from his current report card, he is stunned to say how much light he has stained his wife, but not so much.
Even if it is stained with light, it is because people themselves have skills and have a deep accumulation in one field.
After the lonely martial arts movie, his path is relatively narrow, but there is a skill, and this job can be served for a long time.
There are many Hong Kong and Taiwan seniors in the same direction, who can not only transform into martial arts instructors when they get older, but also play some teacher roles that others can't play.
They know which bowl of rice they serve, and they can sink their hearts into polishing their eating skills, which began before Mrs. "Gao Pan".
Working together after marriage to become a solid dual-income family is the best ending for each other.
Zhong Hong's two husbands have not established irreplaceability in their own industry.
Most human beings have limited abilities and are very common and understandable.
But if you don't know which bowl of rice you serve, and you have to follow your chicken if you marry another noodle as an adult, it is a self-inflicted crime.
They are looking for a partner, they are looking for someone to join the family, not to take the baby to integrate into another extended family.
(I hope other single girls also have this awareness)
There is no need for that, and the high and low do not match.
Although Zhong Liti's husband works, the variety show will not give her face after marriage.
But at least now I live broadcast with her every day, and the live broadcast room is opened under Zhong Liti's name.
He was making money for the family.
If he really wants a divorce, it is his loss.
Hong Xin is worth thinking about, does she bring her own traffic, and she still has to work for others with her children?
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