#头条创作挑战赛 #
In life, when kindergarten teachers let parents register for registration information, many parents will carefully check the registration content, generally speaking, the registration form is some common information about name, telephone number and address, some of which will require parents to fill in their occupation.
In response to the "occupation" column, many parents have protested, in their opinion, the parent's occupation has nothing to do with the teaching of kindergarten teachers, and if the school has to figure out the parent's occupation, then the parents have reason to suspect that the school will treat students differently because of this.
Since many parents think that filling out the occupation is the school's privacy, so many kindergartens have removed this item from the enrollment form, but many teachers will still learn about the occupation of students' parents in other ways.
Not long ago, I swiped a video posted by a kindergarten teacher on the Internet.
Originally, I just wanted to record an interesting classroom life, but I didn't expect that this video immediately triggered many netizens to watch, and the interaction between teachers and children was the same, which not only did not make people feel warm and interesting, but encountered many netizens' complaints and boycotts.
In the video, the teacher asks the children to line up and then come to him one by one to answer the questions.
The teacher asks each child the same question, that is: What does your dad do?
To this, the children's answers were very crisp, some said to drive an excavator, some said doctors, and some said to drive a delivery ...
During the whole process, the teacher's attitude was very gentle, and the children's answers were also very positive, but because the topic of parental occupation was considered to be inquiring into privacy, many netizens complained about the teacher in the comment area, and some even frankly said that the teacher asked this question with "bad intentions".
In this regard, the teacher was also very aggrieved to help himself explain: Why am I not malicious, I want the child to understand the hard work of parents.
However, the teacher's explanation did not get the understanding of netizens, most of them said that parents' profession is privacy, and kindergartens have no right to probe parents' privacy through various methods.
There are also people who think that it is good for parents to pay on time every semester when their children go to kindergarten, and they do not understand why kindergartens inquire about the work of parents, and if teachers want to know the child's family education, they can contact parents individually, rather than asking about the parents' occupation in public.
Hot discussion among netizens:
Why ask children this question? No matter what profession or income, none of us owe the school a penny. ”
Don't understand, don't agree, let the child say what the father does, the child can know that the father is hard? What logic! ”
In fact, there is nothing to say about occupation, I am afraid that some teachers will treat children differently because of this.
Why are more and more parents opposed to announcing their profession to schools?
1. Fear that children will be treated differently
Although we believe that the vast majority of teachers have professional ethics, it is not ruled out that individual teachers will be more snobbish in teaching, they will sort the occupations of their parents in order of high and low, and then show different attitudes towards different children.
2. Do not want to expose privacy
Parents' professions are indeed personal privacy, especially with the progress of society, careers are becoming more and more diversified, many parents do not want their profession to be known by outsiders, so they are very resistant to teachers inquiring about their profession without any reason.
3. Do not want to cause the child to be vain or inferior
Children do not have a strong idea of their parents' careers when they are very young, but after entering elementary school, as the child's mind matures, they may compare their parents with each other.
Some children will be proud that their parents are doctors and teachers, and some children will have an inferiority complex because their parents are engaged in relatively hard physical work or unemployed, so in order not to cause their children to be vain or inferior. Many parents are resistant to disclosing this privacy to schools.
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