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"Weng Fan is God's last gift to me."
When the two were married for ten years, Yang Zhenning said this in front of the media.
When the two first got married, Yang Zhenning was 82 years old and Weng Fan was 28 years old.
Such a huge age difference, after the news of their marriage came out, shocked the world.
Is there love between the two?
Many people have a big question mark in their hearts.
In the eyes of many people, their marriage is just a matter of taking what they need.
Now 18 years have passed, Weng Fan has walked through and stood and walked into the confusion.
The only thing that remains unchanged is her relationship with Yang Zhenning.
The two have been through ups and downs, supporting each other, and telling everyone with practical actions: We are fine.
Yang Zhenning's father was a mathematician named Yang Wuzhi.
His attainment in mathematics was high and he had a huge influence on Hua Luogeng's growth.
In 1945, Yang Zhenning went to the United States.
At that time, he had just received the Gengzi Indemnity Scholarship, and then chose the University of Chicago for a Ph.D.
At that time, Yang Zhenning was shining, and even dismissed Einstein's paper.
Of course, he has a proud capital, and when he first graduated, because of his excellent grades, he got the opportunity to work at the Princeton Institute for Advanced Study.
There he met Du Zhili, a girl from a famous family.
In fact, as early as in China, the two met at Southwest United University, when Yang Zhenning was a professor and Du Zhili was a student.
At that time, Du Zhili admired Yang Zhenning very much, but due to their teacher-student relationship, Du Zhili did not show it.
After meeting again at an American restaurant, Du's excitement was palpable.
But Yang Zhenning didn't react, because he couldn't remember who his student was.
After introducing themselves, the two began to chat.
This conversation sparked, and they gradually came together.
After a year of getting along, Yang Zhenning and Du Zhili tied the knot.
In the second year after marriage, their eldest son was born, and Yang Zhenning also climbed to the peak of his career.
After entering the research institute, he quickly met his good partner Li Zhengdao.
Two young people who also love physics have been doing research silently.
In 1957, their efforts finally paid off.
That year, they successfully won the Nobel Prize for Physicists with the theory of "non-conservation of cosmic designation".
Yang Zhenning used his achievements to prove to everyone that he was arrogant, but by no means conceited.
In order to thank his wife for her support all the time, Yang Zhenning specially brought Du Zhili to the Nobel Prize stage and shared his happiness and joy with the world.
In 1995, Yang Zhenning and Du Zhili participated in the "World Chinese Physics Conference".
At that time, they were guided by Weng Fan, who had just entered the university.
Du Zhili seemed to see his younger self on Weng Fan's body, so his impression of this girl was particularly good.
Before leaving, she left her contact information to Weng Fan, hoping that she could go to the United States for graduate school in the future.
However, Weng Fan did not choose to continue his studies after graduating from university, but found a golf course to work.
While working, she met a wealthy man from Hong Kong, quit her job after getting married, and became a full-time wife.
But soon her married life disappointed her to the extreme, and she chose to divorce after two years in the face of her controlling husband.
At that time, she remembered Du Zhili's words: you must continue your studies and go to the United States for graduate school in the future to improve yourself.
Because these are the best wealth, they will lead people to the right path.
Although he did not go to the United States, Weng Fan decided to improve himself and was admitted to the Department of Translation of Guangdong University of Foreign Studies at the age of 26 and became a graduate student.
In October 2003, after learning that Du Zhili had died of illness, Weng Fan sent an email to comfort Yang Zhenning and tell him not to be too sad.
Because Weng Fan and Du Zhili are very similar, Yang Zhenning feels that she is very kind.
After that, he regarded Weng Fan as the object of confiding, and he would tell Weng Fan everything in his life by email or phone.
In February 2004, Yang Zhenning took the initiative to invite Weng Fan, and the two met at Sun Yat-sen University.
Although he hadn't seen him for eight years, Yang Zhenning was as healthy and talkative as ever, which Weng Fan really didn't expect.
After all, before meeting, she still thought about whether to help him.
Yang Zhenning took Weng Fan to Shiao to ride a bicycle together, chatting and walking together, which made Weng Fan suddenly feel that the years were quiet.
With Yang Zhenning, her heart is full of security.
After Du Zhili's death, Yang Zhenning's mood was very low.
But because of Weng Fan, his world has light again, and unnaturally, he finds that he can't do without this girl.
Not long after that, Yang Zhenning once again proposed to go to Shiao Village with Weng Fan.
Although it rained a little that day, it seemed that the sky was not beautiful, but it just became the lubricant of their feelings.
Because the road was a little slippery, the two held hands together while walking.
It wasn't until she walked far away that Weng Fan let go of her hand, and she looked at Yang Zhenning a little shy and nervously, although she didn't know what the other party thought, but she was very happy in her heart.
After that, the relationship between the two became more and more intimate, and Yang Zhenning missed Weng Fan too much.
Another invitation was issued on National Day, and the two went to Beihai to play together for a long time.
Yang Zhenning gave a camera to Weng Fan, and the two took a lot of photos and had a lot of fun.
The tour made both understand each other's hearts.
Soon Yang Zhenning dialed Weng Fan's phone, frankly expressed his intentions, and proposed to Weng Fan.
Weng Fan was blindfolded at that time, and she felt that she was surrounded by a great happiness.
But perhaps because she was too excited, she didn't know how to answer for a while, and only said the phrase "everyone else has flowers when they get married".
This naturally meant that the marriage proposal was successful, and Yang Zhenning smiled like a child and told Weng Fan to "go back and make up".
Weng Fan took Yang Zhenning to meet his parents, and the father was very open-minded, and he was very proud of his daughter's choice.
After receiving the support of their families, Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning received their certificates and officially married each other.
After the news came out, the outside world was shocked, and the doubts continued.
But Yang Zhenning's children were full of gratitude to Weng Fan and sent their blessings as soon as possible.
Especially the boss Yang Guangnuo, he said this to Weng Fan:
We know that this choice will put you under a lot of criticism, you are a kind girl, and we are all grateful to you.
Yang Zhenning's younger brother was even more praised for Weng Fan, saying that Weng Fan was willing to accompany his brother through his old age, and he was really sensible, after all, she was so young.
After the two got married, Weng Fan lived in Yang Zhenning's "mansion".
Because Yang Zhenning has to go to bed at nine o'clock every night, and she is used to staying up late, in order not to affect Yang Zhenning's rest, she proposed to sleep in separate rooms.
Weng Fan worked hard to adapt to Yang Zhenning's life, she would get up early every morning to prepare breakfast for Yang Zhenning, even if there was a nanny at home, she still felt more at ease with what she made with her own hands.
She also went out of her way to learn how to make nourishing soup, often changing patterns to replenish Yang Zhenning's body.
She used to stay up late, and she used to like to drink coffee.
But after getting married, she also began to pay attention to health, changing coffee to milk and tea.
Because she knows that only if she has a good body, can she better take care of Yang Zhenning.
Of course, good living habits have also benefited her a lot, and the whole person has become healthier and more natural, full of vitality.
Love is mutual, and Yang Zhenning's care and love for Weng Fan is also a lot.
When the two stayed in the hotel, Yang Zhenning would hide in the toilet and read the newspaper, just worried that it would affect Weng Fan's rest.
In 2010, Yang Zhenning suddenly fell into a coma one day.
Colleagues hurriedly sent him to the hospital, looking at Yang Zhenning, who was full of nonsense and had a high fever, everyone was at a loss for a while.
It wasn't until Weng Fan hurriedly arrived that everyone breathed a sigh of relief and instantly felt that they had the backbone of the main heart.
During that time, Weng Fan always accompanied Yang Zhenyu and took good care of him.
From washing her face and changing clothes to feeding, she is almost hands-on and very attentive.
Yang Zhenning's three children are all abroad, and when they returned home, the family of five traveled to the Three Gorges Dam together, leaving a family photo there.
After Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan got married, they donated their entire net worth of $2 million to Tsinghua University.
In 2011, Weng Fan was admitted to Tsinghua University majoring in architectural history and continued his doctoral studies.
She used her leisure time to add Yang Zhenning's daily records to her own concepts, and compiled two books "Dawn Collection" and "Morning Light Collection", hoping to let more people know Yang Zhenning.
In 2018, Yang Zhenning was 98 years old.
They donated more than 2,000 objects in the studio, including manuscripts, videos, calligraphy and paintings, to Tsinghua University, where they established the Yang Zhenning Reference Room.
This also means that after Yang Zhenning's hundred years, Weng Fan will not get any of his inheritance.
The only thing they could not have was their married residence, the right to reside in the master's residence.
In August 2019, Yang Zhenning attended the centennial celebration of Nankai University. It can be seen that Yang Zhenning's physical condition is not very good, especially it is not very convenient to walk, and Weng Fan has always supported him.
But he was in good spirits, and the two held hands together throughout the process.
Weng Fan is like Yang Zhenning's shadow, inseparable from Yang Zhenning.
In the blink of an eye, the two have been married for 18 years, and Yang Zhenning has also become a centenarian.
Although he needs to walk on crutches, his spirit is still good, and he also pays attention to his appearance, whether it is hairstyle or clothes are very neat.
When the two got married, many people were frightened by their 54-year age difference, thinking that they would not be happy, let alone go to the end.
But it turns out that Yang Zhenning's statement that happiness has nothing to do with age is really true.
He is so much older than Weng Fan, so he naturally worries about what Weng Fan will do after he leaves.
He said that he was very entangled, if it was young Yang Zhenning, he would definitely not want Weng Fan to remarry, but if it was an old Yang Zhenning, he would say to Weng Fan: When I leave this world in the future, you can get married again.
He didn't want to have a child with Weng Fan, he just didn't want to drag Weng Fan's future, hoping that she could have a good home in the future.
In 18 years, Weng Fan grew from a 28-year-old girl to a 46-year-old woman.
She used her youth to prove to everyone that marrying Yang Zhenning was her most correct choice, and also let everyone know what true love is.
Maybe many people don't understand Weng Fan, but their love doesn't need to be explained to anyone.
For Weng Fan, being able to accompany Yang Zhenning on the last journey of his life and being able to have a real love with Yang Zhenning is an extremely happy thing, which is enough for a lifetime.