Stealing chickens does not lead to erosion of rice, and the lady loses and breaks the army. Nowadays, it is simply appropriate to use these two sentences to describe Big S. Zhang Lan was bumping in the storm of her son's marriage breakdown! In fact, the general public, parents, why not? In the park, he met an old man, affectionately lonely, and the past was a scene in front of his eyes.
为儿孙，牺牲奉献所有
He, in old age, has worked hard for his children all his life, and several children and grandchildren were brought up by him from infants! When he was young, he could also remarry, but he couldn't step over, firstly, the concept of young children at that time did not accept, and secondly, he measured left and right and felt inappropriate, entered the door, there were many contradictions, followed each other, the children were not all adults, gone, he was afraid that slowly blood feelings were estranged! Would rather be single!
为儿孙和睦，吞下泪水
Eternal children first, he is behind, he broke his heart for his son and daughter-in-law, and in his old age, he is even more lonely, who can feel his suffering? When his son started a family, he was afraid that his children would divorce and let his young grandchildren be hurt, because #children's marriage# swallowed a lot of inexplicable grievances alone, especially the daughter-in-law who met him messed around, and the in-laws and the big son were even more messy.
Cowardly, luring wolves into the house
From the beginning, he knew that the in-laws family had a low character, the reputation of the ancestors, the addiction to gambling and aggressiveness, his wife and he looked at each other, they knew that it was a violent temper, he resolutely disagreed, and the son who was still in the rebellious period did not listen to the advice and stubbornly wanted to marry. At that time, my wife was seriously ill, the younger one was still in elementary school, a large family opened their mouths to eat, and they had to borrow money everywhere to save their lives for the overload of seriously ill families! He said bitterly, one fifty-one ten to tell the other family's specific face, really unable to bear, the family can't afford it!
Unprincipled for children and grandchildren is the root of wild wolves' unscrupulousness
Helpless, the woman's family is like dodder, tightly entangled with her son, dead or alive to marry in, don't want anything, one poor and two white, is iron heart to marry! The son is also immature, holding idealism, to be filial to his parents, to consider his parents, and to fulfill the good wishes of a person who is seriously ill to see a family in his lifetime! It just so happens that the other party wants to marry dead or alive, one does not want money, the other is willing, if you want to die or live, you have to enter the door! Although he is worried, but can his son how to reluctantly accept, in any case, the choice is in the hands of his son, he is an adult, and he is willing to each other, he can only passively accept, as long as his son is happy!
How can evil be a good match?
The woman married in, and immediately her attitude changed, all kinds of pickiness! On the wedding night, I had a quarrel and fight with my son! His heart was dripping blood, and he could only listen, how? Young people's affairs can't be combined! Who knows, it is not only a dominatrix who marries in, but the dominatrix's family, like a group of fleeing large sons, marrying a daughter, and a group of people living in righteously. It's already difficult, internal and external difficulties, his own affairs can't be cope, he still has to serve a group of Yasha! Serve and be picky, do well or not!
Some people are born to be stars!
How is it good to be so noisy? The son started another but passed, but still can't! The various acts of Dominatrix who married in to find fault and make trouble, like a dead star, struck a hard blow to the heart of a person who was seriously ill in bed, and not long after entering the door, his lover left in a hurry!
Fire star, it is a once-in-a-millennium evil!
The Mother Yasha's family is even more powerful, and they can't wait to let their son sever relations with his original family immediately, and from now on! But it is also necessary to rob from his old man, the house, and all kinds of material and concrete labor services that the dominatrix, visible and invisible, thinks he should provide! Because the son is the eldest, the youngest is still young, and he has to bear some urgent debts at that time, which makes the mother Yasha angry, looking for his stubble every day, kicking the door and smashing the window every day!
Good and cowardly people can't understand the logic of messing around with bullies!
In those days, he didn't know how he got over, he couldn't understand, did the Dominatrix family's brain get into water? Obviously know that there are seriously ill patients in other people's homes, obviously know that there are underage children below, obviously people's parents have said all kinds of specific situations clearly, resolutely disagree, your mother Yasha's family has to squeeze their heads like this, they have to squeeze into other people's homes, and also find matchmakers to pretend to be expensive and sensible to marry in, come, accept the facts and live well, what to toss?
Look at the angelic face of your grandson, endure!
Perhaps, this is the so-called sinful fate! Especially the birth of the eldest grandson, that dominatrix turned her life into anger and anger at the gap between her fantasy and anger, and vented all her emotions on that innocent child, and can stuff the child through the crack of the door like a mouse, and the beast is not as good! Maybe it's intermittent mania! Once the husband and wife had a conflict, and the Mother Yasha family came to beat his son, he made up his mind to let his son leave, but look at the two grandchildren in the swaddling, think about the other party's mood when the mood eases slightly, it will not be hysterical moments, as an old man, thinking about the young grandson, even if the mother Yasha is not good, it is always better than the stepmother, when the old always have to forgive, wipe the tears clean! What is your own anger? Put it down! Put it down! The son can accept it, the grandson has a mother, for the sake of the children, let it be aggrieved and swallowed!
Aggrieved, swallow it!
Aggrieved, swallow it! Swallow it! One swallow is decades! Fortunately, the grandchildren are older! The son and daughter-in-law are so troubled that they have no strength to make trouble, and then they are noisy and noisy, there is no capital to quarrel, he himself is aggrieved and does not suffer and suffers, what is it? The dominatrix has strong PUA ability, while reasoning, PUA every day, instigating some brainless children and grandchildren have opinions on him, and the children who are brought up by themselves do not have enough judgment, what can he do? How to see how to see love, love filial piety is not filial piety, casual, children and grandchildren are healthy and healthy, safe and happy, happy and happy, and whether they are close to him or not, what is the opinion, it is a yarn? What is a grievance? What is it!!! For the sake of children and grandchildren, swallow it!
Lured the wolf into the house, endured the evil, and hurt the innocent!
But he didn't know that with his cognitive level, he didn't realize at all that behind the endless compromise for the sake of his son's family, in the harsh environment of the dominatrix's long-term shrew-like quarrel, she could digest it as an adult, and the underage child, as a small child, had borne the pain and misfortune of losing her relatives, and she repeatedly and infinitely compatible with several parties of the dominatrix that her sons led into the door, making that child more sensitive and vulnerable from a young age. Those dominatrix regarded that child as an enemy and made it difficult in every way! He protected his children and grandchildren under his knees, but ignored and could not take into account the huge impact and damage that young child had suffered!
Love, he cares about one and the other.
In old age, he brought up the children of the children above, he remembered that he still had a small one, and used everything he had to make up for his past lack, but found that he could not make up for it in any way, he wanted to use the majesty of the patriarchal system or traditional preaching to excuse himself, so that the child understood him and understood his brother! But he didn't know that it was precisely because this child was kind, understood his suffering, and understood his brother's helplessness, because he had been nagging in his ears every day since he was a child, and the child was wronged and injured!
Just want to say that regardless of men and women, marriage should be cautious!
This old man, with his good thoughts, fulfilled his children and grandchildren's family without a wife, but he bore everything! The vicious daughter-in-law of the original family, under his patience or persuasion, may finally wake up, or maybe she can't make trouble! The grandchildren are older, healthy and happy, this is the wish of the old man! One of his youngest children became a victim!
Who is wrong? The sons' choice?
Perhaps it is ignorance, limited cognitive level and the constraints of traditional concepts! When you reach the age, you have to talk about marriage and marriage, if you don't follow the routine, you will be pointed at, but I thought that with some people who are full of slots, it will bring more problems, not much happiness, but the misfortune caused by it is all the way!
But what if you had another chance to choose?
He will still sacrifice himself fearlessly to complete his children and grandchildren! This is his innate belief!