Ben Liu's age, and when he retires, ordinary people have already taken their grandchildren to enjoy the joy of old age, but the most low-key "Grand Slam actress" Chen Jin has passed a different 60 years old.
She has a regular partner, but insists on not marrying and sterling all her life, and now she is about to enter the age of flower armor, does she regret it?
Speaking of Chen Jin's name, some people may not be familiar with it, but when you release her works and characters, you will be surprised: "It turned out to be her!" ”
When she was young, she had such excellent works as "Mountains Don't Turn Water" and "Ebb and Flow", won the best actress such as Feitian, Magnolia, and Huabiao Awards in one fell swoop, and won the Best Actress Award Slam in mainland film and television.
In recent years, she has rarely played the heroine, but there are also people like the lord of Pingning County in "Do You Know", Su's mother in "It's All Good", Dr. Zhao's mother in "Ode to Joy", Ye Wenjie in "The Three-Body Problem"... These are quality characters that impress the audience.
Chen Jin debuted in 1990 and has insisted on 33 years, another thing she insists on is: do not get married and have children, and now she is almost 60 years old and she is still unmarried.
Chen Jin is very repulsive to intimacy, which may be related to his original family and experience.
Chen Jin and his brother Chen Zhun were born in a compound in Shandong, their father was a university professor and their mother was a drama actor. When their parents were young, they were busy and rarely paid attention to their siblings, and when they were a little older, they sent them directly to the nursery school, so they were often ostracized by the big yard: "The two of us are like marginal characters in the compound." ”
No matter how old it is, Chen Jin and his brother made an appointment that neither of them would get married and take care of each other in the future. When Chen Jin's career was rising, he also directly expressed his attitude in the face of his parents' urging to marry: "There is no need, I will not get married, I can take care of myself alone." ”
Even if one person is overwhelmed, the brother may make a promise: "I can take care of you until you are old." ”
Chen Jin is particularly strict with himself, and he will definitely stick to the end when he makes up his mind. For example, she signed up for Shandong Art Academy without her parents, and she worked very hard after being admitted to it. In order to delve into the role, she can stay up until two or three o'clock in the morning, and the teacher can't go back.
For example, during college, she did not control her mouth, gained a lot of weight, affected photogenic, and ate a lot of directors' closed-door soup, so she made up her mind to eat the actor's bowl of rice and put down another "bowl of rice" on her lips.
The male has Andy Lau who has maintained his figure for 30 years without drinking ice water and 10 years without eating rice; The female has Chen Jin for 20 years without eating staple foods such as rice, and only eats one peach a day.
Even when not filming, she only drinks a cup of black coffee and peaches, such a diet caused the exclamation of the actors in the same crew, Chen Jin felt that it didn't matter.
Chen Jin is also very trustworthy about the agreement with her brother, she does not think that she did not get married when it was time to get married, and did not have children when it was time to have children, there was nothing to be ashamed of, and there was no psychological burden: "I think it is very natural." ”
The brothers and sisters did not want to get married, which hurt the parents at home, but in the end, they also found that the two could not persuade them to return, so they went with them.
Maybe Chen Jin herself did not expect that she, who was determined not to get married, would enter a person in her heart - Wu Gang, the "unproven lover" who would be with her for 20 years later.
In 2003, Chen Jin and Wu Gang met while filming "17 Days of Life and Death", when Wu Gang had only divorced his original partner who had been married for 15 years, and not long after he exposed the scandal with Chen Jin, Chen Jin also fell into the "involvement" question.
For these rumors, Chen Jin and Wu Gang did not respond, just when everyone thought that the two had no intersection, paparazzi photographed two people walking closely together in recent years, and Wu Gang skillfully put his wallet into Chen Jin's handbag, like a pair of old husbands and wives.
Everyone knew that the two had been silently accompanying each other for more than 20 years.
Judging from the results, although Chen Jin and Wu Gang fell in love, they only stopped there, because there was no news of the marriage between the two in these years.
It should be that after falling in love, Chen Jin still insists on not being married and sterile, and Wu Gang, who has experienced a failed marriage, also agrees with her choice. Although the two do not have the marriage letter as proof, they have been together longer than most couples in the entertainment industry.
After that, Chen Jin did not deny that he had a "lover", but he still thought that he and he were two independent individuals, and he did not dare to count on each other when he was old.
It may be that when the age comes, Chen Jin began to have the concept of "getting old" and caring about life and death. From the age of 58, she began to fear death, often waking up in her sleep because she was "dying of old age".
During that time, Chen Jin was taking care of her 88-year-old father, which she described as "breaking down every day." She began to think of her old age and was afraid that if she had Alzheimer's, what would she do?
Think about it, Chen Jin's father is old and sick, at least there are Chen Jin and her brother around to take care of, so who can I count on when I have no children and no daughters?
According to this interview, netizens speculated whether Chen Jin regretted his previous decision to "not marry and have no children"?
It turns out that Chen Jin has no regrets, she is just a common worry that some people have in old age. If she gets married and has children, there may be other worries: Will the children fight for the competition? Will you care about her when you are old? Will I be sent to a nursing home?
What's more, Chen Jin is also willing to imagine what "if", if he does not become an actor, if he is married, if he has children... "Don't infer this, how tired and brain-consuming", this is how this life develops, then take this path.
So until now, Chen Jin still insists on his previous choice, the marriage certificate is not important, people's hearts, human nature, and sincerity are things worth looking for.
Chen Jin likes to say that "freedom is standing alone." She was soberly aware that no matter whether you have a family or children, a person will always be with himself for the rest of his life.
Now Chen Jin's life is also very simple and leisurely, she and Wu Gang do not have the constraints of marriage, but they have been together for many years; With no children and no daughters, Chen Jin occasionally films, insisting on hobbies while saving pension capital for himself; Without children as a bond, she goes hiking and climbing in her free time, and has a healthy routine...
Like people drinking water, they know themselves warmth and cold. Chen Jin's 60-year-old is indeed different, but she has also lived the ideal life she wants, this road may not be suitable for the public, but it is a different scenery she chose for herself.