Today, following the topic of yesterday's chapter 16, I am a special entrepreneurial partner in my life – wife!
Today, following the topic of yesterday's sixteenth chapter, I will continue to talk about the unique entrepreneurial partner in my life – wife!
Everyone has a wife, how to make your wife follow you with a dead heart, pay for you, selflessly dedicate to your home, in fact, this topic is worth studying, but I am not a love expert, nor is it an "old mother uncle", I can only share with you my own personal experience and feelings. Men's career is important, but sometimes the lover and family is your ultimate destination, when you are not happy, when the career is not smooth, sometimes there is a cold and fever, even the world of seven years and eighty can not move, the family and the lover at home are the last guarantee of your life. So, men, especially men in entrepreneurship, remember, cherish to cherish your lover, you and her are the indispensable center of your family.
Most women, when they have a loved one, will do their best to give selflessly. Because women are born weak, otherwise there would be no women's federation in Ye, have you ever heard of the men's union? Women's selfless dedication a lot of times is based on admiration and looking for the second half of life, men are sometimes their heaven, so protecting your woman is the most basic obligation of men.
The above words can be regarded as a little life feeling in my past twenty years with the official little wife of the Li family. Let's continue with yesterday's topic.
I was with my wife for about half a year or so, and she became pregnant, but at that time our career was not stable, and after consulting with her, we went to the Oriental Hospital to beat up the child. Until now, she often says that if she had left her child behind, it would be time to go to college! Sometimes I really want to add that you were a child at the time, wasn't that a child having a baby?
(This is the place where I used to live when I was a child, located in Daqiaozhuang Village, Wangzhuang Town, Xinye County, Nanyang City, Henan Province, about five years ago, because the new rural transformation was demolished and moved to the modern community planned by the town government. My daughter has been living and studying in Shanghai and rarely sees the place where I lived as a child, so poor that on a rainy day, the muddy water on the road can flood her entire feet. I actually only let her know, where am I from? Where are you going? I hope she can cherish everything now! ）
Later, after more than a year of getting along, we found that our personalities were too similar, the two people had a very bad temper, often quarreled, and even quarreled with each other, did not let each other go, and even quarreled in the end to break up, but in the end they were not separated. At that time, I was young, my temper was very hot, and I said that it was a common thing to break up, but when I really wanted to break up, I was reluctant because there were too many precious memories in it, which was probably the fate that was not over. In fact, my ideal partner is that my personality can complement me, so as to make up for the other person's personality defects, for example, rigidity and flexibility are the best. But both of us are rigid.
We have a certain emotional foundation, although the early stage of entrepreneurship is very hard, but very practical, two people support each other, have more trust. After a few years, in 2005, she unfortunately got shot again, the second pregnancy, when the business has been more than four years, not too stable, to the hospital for examination, the doctor said, she had beaten a fetus before, and then beat off, it is possible that she can not have children later, and our parents can only give birth after consultation. At that time, we were not married, and we belonged to the unmarried and childbearing. Later, after making up 3,000 yuan, I reluctantly managed to get married, which is considered to be a marriage for Fengzi. When I got married, my wife's belly was already slowly growing, and the child was five months old. On the eleventh of this year, we did a happy event in her hometown in Anhui Province, and got a license, when I said to this wife who was eight years younger than me, now that our business is not stable, the marriage will be a little simple, and we will have money later, and I will double my goodness to you. In fact, although my wife is young, she is also very sensible and able to endure hardships, which is difficult for ordinary women to do. There are two things I remember particularly well, the first thing when the express delivery is about to do, we charged customers express delivery fees of more than 100,000 yuan, that time also wanted to buy a house, at that time to Zhoupu also saw several sets of new houses, the down payment was just enough. I discussed with my wife that if I bought a house and paid the down payment, I would have no money to start a business. Later, my wife obediently supported me to continue to start a business. Later, that is, in 2008, we transformed into a pet brand, when the first brand we founded on the pet, just began to be tight on funds, in Pudong Sanlin City rented a 120 square meter house, both as a warehouse, but also office, but also live in it, the standard three-in-one.
This is the first generation of pet pet shower gel, listed in 2008, older pet lovers should often see in pet stores, and later after three brand upgrades, it is now the pet Adams
2011 poster on pet Adams
I remember one night, more than 400 boxes of goods came, almost 6 tons. We lived on the fourth floor, and we had to unload the goods from the van and put them in front of the residential building, and then put them on the trailer, pull them into the passenger elevator, and then unload them on the fourth floor and then unload them into the house. Because they are all heavy goods, a trailer can only put seven or eight boxes of goods, so that more than fifty round-trip should be able to be moved. But the trailer was really not angry, and after three or five rounds, it was scrapped and the wheels were crushed. At that time, my daughter was two or three years old, we had to take care of our sleeping daughter, there were many mosquitoes in the summer, and I was afraid that my daughter would wake up and not see her parents would be scared or even run around or even cry, after all, in the community, it was late at night, which would affect the neighbors' rest. I said to my wife, you move a recliner downstairs to sit, look at your daughter, by the way look at the goods, I move slowly, top to the night without sleeping, for a longer time. But she didn't want to see me working so hard alone, so she said that she was downstairs while watching her daughter and goods, while moving to the elevator box by box, I moved into the elevator and moved to the house. In this way, from one o'clock in the morning to seven or eight o'clock in the morning, finally moved, people are tired, but at that time it felt very fulfilling, after several years of sharing weal and woe, the feelings were more solid, which is now what many young couples lack, couples have a long period of common suffering together, the feelings are naturally solid.
(This photo was taken on April 1, 2008, my daughter is two years old and two months old, and the crush in the back is your sister-in-law, which is my wife.) At that time, I rented a 128-square-meter rough house in Sanlin City, Pudong, which was a warehouse and an office, and it was also a dormitory, a restaurant, and my daughter's playground, because I had just transformed from express delivery to make pet supplies, which was quite frugal. Our pet business also started here. ）
At that time, I often took my wife out to play, and sometimes I took her with me on business trips, and women naturally liked to play. Once went to Fuzhou to meet a supplier Lin Jie, Lin Jie and her current husband are married for the second time, and it seems that they are not very happy. When eating, Sister Lin said that the husband and wife were still the original match. At that time, I thought she was talking about her own feelings, but then I saw her staring at me, I probably understood, it is estimated that 80% of my wife as a lover, it is no wonder, after all, it is eight years younger than me. I said that it was the original match, such as a fake replacement, but Sister Lin only responded in a coping style, and it seemed that she did not believe it in her heart. Some people say that the difference of three years now is a generation gap, we are eight years apart, close to three generation gaps, but I am afraid that it is a generation river... But these are not important, what is important is that two people truly love each other, preferring to be exposed to each other without reservation, rather than wanting to have a wall in the middle. Now couples of the same age in our community, many of them sleep in separate rooms or beds, go to their respective classes during the day, eat at night, and go back to their respective rooms, often no more than three sentences a day. It seems that each of them is quite free and does not interfere with each other, but I think there are many problems, lack of communication, lack of husband and wife feelings, and there will be rifts over time, especially at our age.
(In the 2011 May Day Golden Week, I went to Beijing to visit the beijing general agent of my self-created brand, mr. Zhang, who is very powerful, and I also called her Aunt Zhang.) By the way, I took my wife and children to Beijing for a few days, at this time my brand has covered more than 200 cities in China, and at that time your sister-in-law has become much more mature and sexy. ）
(I forgot whether this one was near Tiananmen Square or Near Wangfujing, because the pixels of the mobile phone at that time were not high, and the photos were not as clear as the mobile phones take now.) The standard smoker who smoked a cigarette is in the bottom, and this beautiful crush in the back is your sister-in-law, this small one needless to say, the crystallization of our love – my daughter was a child. ）
Nowadays, my wife has been following me for almost twenty years, we have gone from a small courier company, to the later self-created first pet brand, and now we have our own set of houses and factories that we bought, and we also have daughters and sons, which basically realized my life goal of just arriving at the Shaanxi Road fruit shop in 1997, although it came a little late, but it was finally realized, which thanks to my little wife, who has been silently supporting me for nearly twenty years, without complaint or regret.
(This is in 2016, our family went to Taicang Shaxi Ancient Town to play, my wife took a fancy to the house of Country Garden, so she bought a three-bedroom set.) The fourth one on the left is my daughter, who participates in the activities of country garden sales office. These developers are very good at doing these activities and know how to capture the hearts of customers. This house finally did not have the opportunity to move in, just handed over in 2018, because we bought the factory building with tight funds, and sold this second suite after discussing with our wife, making 500,000 yuan in two years. ）
Having said so much, it is not to say how lucky I am to marry such a sensible woman, in fact, this is not the point, the focus is that there is no difference between two people setting up a family together and looking for a partner to start a business, you need to trust each other and tide over the difficulties, the first two words are entrepreneurship, if you start a family, you need to add two more words, heart to heart, do not give up!
(This is the factory building I bought myself, signed a contract in November 2017, started construction in 2018, and delivered in 2019.) Among them, 2018 was a year of soaring industrial plants, that year, the price and rent basically doubled, we also caught up, just a few months ahead, in fact, the spring festival before and after the spring festival three or four months of time difference. However, the price rise of six million in a few months is also the first time I have encountered it. I had studied the 2017-2035 plan issued by the Shanghai Municipal Government in 2016, and I only knew that with the deepening of environmental governance, the old and dilapidated factories would be demolished, and the rent of the factory buildings would rise. ）
What your significant other is like, welcome to share.
I am Elder George, an entrepreneurial veteran of nearly two decades, not a love expert. However, as a person who has come over, if you encounter problems in life or entrepreneurship, you may be able to help you. Tomorrow after ten o'clock, please continue to watch the entrepreneurship notes chapter 18: the years when I opened a courier company.