In this new era, basically many children are taken care of by the elderly, which has also become a normal phenomenon. Because young people are busy with work and rushing, the care of children is left to the elderly.
With the help of older people taking care of their children, their children are not as stressed as much. They can free up more time to work, and for this can improve the living conditions of the family. However, there are also certain advantages and disadvantages for the elderly with children, and how many families have caused family conflicts because of these.
The "new type of bringing a baby" method has quietly emerged, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become harmonious, and the family has become happy
Many people, including seniors themselves, take helping to care for their grandchildren for granted. Some elderly people, although they want to live their lives, still grit their teeth and insist for the sake of their children.
I believe that at the entrance of the kindergarten, most of the children are picked up by grandparents, and many elderly people will get together to chat about home, and the topic of children is also very hot. are talking about their grandchildren. When the elderly become the main force with children, often daughters-in-law will have some complaints.
When it comes to this, some elderly people feel very aggrieved. As a daughter-in-law's perspective, they feel that the elderly do not take good care of their children, eat unevenly, or spend too much time looking at their children's mobile phones, do not interact with children, do not take them out to play, etc. After all, now that the new era is new, many people take their babies according to the Internet, and the elderly are out of touch with the present and are prone to problems. The older generation has a more outdated concept of parenting. This led to problems between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law.
The new way of bringing children fully reflects the lifestyle and family values of the younger generation, and has certain benefits for the whole family. The mother-in-law is tired without shouting, and the daughter-in-law is also happy. In this atmosphere, children can grow up excellently. This way can show mutual care and help between family members, which is a commendable trend. But at the same time, we also need to recognize that this approach cannot completely replace homeschooling. Parents still need to invest more and give more to help their children grow and develop better. In the future, we need to make better use of existing resources and social environment, so that children can enjoy a high-quality growth environment and better education.
What are the benefits of the rise of a new way of bringing babies?
1. It does not affect the work of young people
The elderly take care of their children in a "9-to-5" manner, which can well complete the handover with young parents, and in this case, young people can also bring up their children without resignation. Nowadays, many women quit their jobs after pregnancy and childbirth, resulting in a career gap of several years, which is very regrettable. With the help of the elderly, young people can continue to struggle in their careers, so that the whole family becomes more harmonious.
2. Know how to be grateful and reduce the burden on the elderly
In the past, children were completely entrusted to the care of the elderly, and parents had little time to accompany them. Over time, the relationship between the child and the parents gradually becomes estranged. The adoption of new parenting styles is conducive to promoting parent-child relationships and involving parents in the child's development. After reducing the time spent with children, the elderly can also have more time to rest and relax, and take care of their children without delaying their own eating, drinking, and playing.
3. Give each other space and privacy, and do not interfere with each other's lives
After the elderly get up early, they can freely arrange activities, do not need to call their children to eat, and finally have a holiday. Young people who are used to a busy workday will definitely want to rest and be lazy, and they understand this. Of course, they also need to respect the life of the elderly, try to keep quiet at night, and avoid poor rest for the elderly.
The advantages and disadvantages of the new parenting model are obvious, but it solves many practical problems that exist in the family. Living under the same roof inevitably leads to friction between two generations, which can easily lead to emotional breakdowns over time. In order to maintain harmonious family relationships and minimize conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, both the elderly and the young should be more considerate of each other and empathize. In the future, the new model of caring for children will become the mainstream of society, and the elderly will become more and more relaxed.
Summary: Seniors should do what they can to help their children. At the same time, young parents should not be too demanding. It's also nice to be able to help a little and have your own independent space. Parents are the first responsible for educating their children and cannot be pushed to the elderly.
Gratitude and contentment bring peace of mind, respect for the old and love for the young, inherit good family traditions, and help each other. Whether it is old or young, everyone should not be too tired, live a relaxed and happy life, and live a calm and beautiful life.