It has been more than forty days after giving birth to the baby, it is a normal birth, and it is 38+4 days born.
Remembering the situation that day, I was a little trance, and I found that I seemed to have forgotten the pain a little, and really answered the sentence: Well, the scar forgot the pain.
So before completely forgetting the pain of having a child, I decided to write down this experience, if my husband let me have a second child in the future, I will turn it out and show him, in case I want to have a second child myself, I have to take it out and read it well, stay calm and sober.
It's a bit too much, more than 3,000 words, save it for yourself and read it slowly.
That day was 38+3, I got up in the morning to cook rice balls to eat, and also P picture posted a circle of friends.
After taking a nap at noon, I suddenly wanted to take a bath, I went to Meimei's bath, and after taking a bath, I suddenly wanted to take a big belly photo, so I put on the previous skirt and took a few pictures, I didn't think that these photos were the last few photos of the baby in the stomach and me, hee, maybe the body was telling me that the baby was coming out, but I didn't realize it at the time.
Uh-huh, with more words, here is the text.
At night, I went to sleep at about 11 o'clock as before, and then in my sleep, suddenly my stomach hurt very much, woke me up with pain, my stomach was still tight, I snorted, my husband was still playing with the computer in the living room, he came in and asked me what was wrong, I said stomach hurt, you pull me up.
He helped me up and I went to sit on the toilet, the pain was already obvious, I wanted to poop, and I wanted to urinate, but I couldn't pull it out at all, I thought, this won't be a contraction, quickly wipe it with paper, Mom, see red! I told my husband that he was red, so he hurried to wake up his mother-in-law.
At this moment, my mood is very complicated, nervous, and calm, nervous that I have never experienced giving birth to a baby, fear is inevitable, calm is knowing that this day will come sooner or later, and the baby will come out sooner or later.
I quickly took an aunt towel to cushion, and then I saw that there was a lot of blood in the toilet, and I asked my husband to take a picture and let him record the time, it was after 11:50 p.m.
After packing our things, we went out with a suitcase and a waiting bag, and on the way to the taxi I began to have regular contractions, and I could still walk bently.
I watched other mothers share before, most of them started from the feeling of menstrual pain, and it hurt so much to me, which I didn't expect.
After more than 10 minutes we arrived at the hospital, and when we were at the entrance of the hospital, we contracted again, this time the pain was even stronger, my husband went to borrow a wheelchair to push me, and then the uneven place on the road could not be pushed.
He was relatively thin, taking advantage of the lack of contractions, I said I will go by myself and you hurry up to return the wheelchair, I will come down and rub forward, and my husband and mother-in-law are following behind with things.
Finally got to the obstetrics department, went to the guidance desk, I said the doctor I saw red stomach pain, they asked me how long it hurts? How often does it hurt? How many babies are there?
After I told them about the first child, they were obviously not nervous, and it was not strange to see me bent over in pain, and arranged me in a small room for fetal heart rate monitoring, and at first let me lie in bed, leaning on the quilt, and did it for more than 2 hours.
Before opening the finger:
During this period, the interval of stomach pain is getting shorter and shorter, and the stomach is tight, how to describe it, it seems that many sewing machines are piercing my stomach in all directions and angles, I can't lie down, so I let the nurse help me to sit on the stool next to me, sitting seems to be able to relieve a little, and later I learned that this stage is the stage before opening my fingers.
Finally, the fetal heart rate monitoring was done, and the doctor came to give me an internal examination, saying that you haven't opened this yet, this time is so desperate, so painful and not yet opened, how much pain at that moment, write here, the feeling of helplessness at that time is really afraid, but this is the appetizer, level 10 pain is about to wait for me.
Insert: Because during the 38-week prenatal examination, the outpatient doctor gave me a check just on the third day of 38 weeks, and I didn't think I would come to the hospital in the early morning, because there was no empty room at the beginning, the doctor could only put me in this small room, I couldn't stand the pain, I cried when it hurt, fortunately, this room is relatively closed, only me, otherwise I am afraid that others will hear me shouting and hit me.
Slowly the pain escalated, and I wanted to hit the wall, and I howled dryly and called the doctor, and the doctor came: "Ask me what's wrong? "The nonsense must be very painful, I said I want to fight painlessly, the doctor said no, you didn't open 3 fingers, you can't hit it, you hold on a little longer."
Well, I seem to see hope, 3 fingers can be painless, I can be painless, this belief supports me, I don't know when I have climbed into bed by myself, shrunk into a shrimp shape, contractions come I call, after contractions I will rest.
Open 3 fingers:
Usually homework is not done, do not know Ramaze breathing method, take advantage of the contraction gap, I will go to Baidu Ramaze breathing method, but the contraction pain does not give me the opportunity to see, at this time my mobile phone has not been able to move, look at the mobile phone is not clear, consciousness is blurred, but the pain is real, like a big truck crushing the stomach, pressing together, let you rest will come again, there is no resistance at all, and there is no way to alleviate it.
Slowly already have the feeling of wanting to stool, I asked the doctor to give me an internal examination, the doctor is still slow, she estimated that it was not so fast, and then came to the internal examination and found 3 fingers, I suddenly saw hope, said to the doctor, I want to fight painlessly, the doctor came to the sentence: "Not yet, it will take half an hour to fight." "Okay, then I'll wait another half hour.
After a few more minutes, I asked the doctor if it was painless, and another doctor said to me: "No, the anesthesiologist is very busy tonight, there is a pregnant woman who has a cesarean section, there is a patient who has appendicitis surgery, you must take care of this patient whose life is at stake, right?" ”what？ My life is also a matter of great importance.
She also praised me: "I see that you are quite able to endure, and you are also very strong, no matter how much you endure, it will hurt to give birth." She went away, leaving me alone to continue howling in the cot.
Open 6 fingers:
The intention of poop is getting stronger and stronger, every contraction will be accompanied by the intention of poop, it seems that I can't help but use force, the usual strategy tells me that the uterine mouth may be almost finished, I told the doctor, I want to stool, the doctor's internal examination looked at 6 fingers, let me not use force, my cervix is already a little swollen, a lot of blood, scared me, but I can't control it.
Finally, a doctor came to take care of me, and a number of doctors and nurses came at once, asking me all kinds of questions, how many brothers and sisters, how much weight gain, and also drew my blood when the contractions hurt the most, this pain is really drizzle compared to contractions.
My husband was also called in to fill in information, and I vaguely remember him holding my hand and saying that it was hard, let me listen to the doctor, don't use force now. I already lost the strength to talk to him in pain, and I still said that I didn't use my strength, I couldn't control it.
Open 10 fingers:
After this series of processes, I was alone in this small room again, the feeling of poop reached its peak, I asked the doctor to give an internal examination, and finally, the doctor said that I had opened 10 fingers, saw the light, and could go to the delivery room.
The doctor gave me a bunch of paper to sign, but I couldn't hold the pen steadily, so I finished signing, and then a nurse came to undress me and pants, change into a hospital gown, and push me into the delivery room with my bare lower body. Before entering the delivery room, I heard from the doctor that I prescribed my fingers so quickly, 3 fingers in half an hour, 6 fingers in half an hour, and 10 fingers in half an hour, but I felt that time passed so slowly.
Baby:
Finally at this stage, I can't care about the dignity of the image, and I climbed onto the delivery bed, yes, you read that right, very numb.
The legs were separated, the nurse shaved my hair, two midwives were there to teach, the stomach hurt hard, very magical, after opening ten fingers, the contraction pain is not so prominent, more is the feeling of wanting to stool, strongly want to pull the stool, a piece of old stool, will not be able to help but force, even if there is no experience, maybe this is the power of natural childbirth.
The doctor would occasionally come in to take a look, reach in with his hand and tinker, at this time he no longer felt pain, and there was no shame, and then he artificially broke the amniotic fluid, and the warm flow came out, and I still don't know what amniotic fluid looks like.
The doctor taught: "Use long force when the stomach hurts, look at the belly button eye, at most two to three times, if it doesn't hurt, you will rest, and the baby should also rest," it turns out that the baby is also trying his best to come to me.
Two midwives sat next to them, from time to time: "Come on! Awesome! Soon, fast!" When the doctor came in, they quickly stood up and came to me and continued: "Come on! It's great, it's fast, "It's mainly up to me to make my strength there."
This life was almost 2 hours old, and then the doctor came in and said, you have to push harder, the amniotic fluid is a little bad, and then I continued to exert force, slowly felt the swelling below, the baby's head came down.
Then two doctors also came in, rubbed a lot of iodophor under me, and inserted a urinary catheter, I didn't feel anything, put a green sterile cloth on my leg, I heard a doctor say what is protected or unprotected, and then gave me a needle below, and I really didn't feel pain.
Then I continued to use force a few times, I could feel the sound of cracking in all directions below, but it didn't hurt, hula la, the baby came out, the nurse reported the time at 5:57, they put the baby on my stomach, I still felt quite heavy a small one, and then weighed 3.17kg, and then showed me the baby, asked me the boy and girl, wow is a baby boy, all of a sudden wow cry out, the sound is not too loud.
I saw on Douyin, many mothers gave birth to children, and they would shed tears when they saw their children come out, but I was wiping the sweat on my face, and my whole body was sweaty, as if the sweat of the year was over at this time, I felt that the baby came out so relaxed, my stomach didn't hurt instantly, my brain was much clearer, sleepy, tired and hungry.
Then a doctor said to another that the placenta did not come out, you will come to take it out in a while, scared me, thinking that I will not experience manual peeling of the placenta, fortunately, after a while the doctor pressed my stomach, the placenta came out, the doctor also asked me if I wanted, I didn't dare to look at it, quickly said no. I seem to have experienced the soreness of my stomach and the pain of my stomach after a cesarean section.
Then there was the stitch, the doctor spit while suwing, my wound was too difficult to stitch, and I was frightened by the hemorrhoids I jumped out hard, saying that my hemorrhoids were very big, I said that I had done hemorrhoids surgery, she said which doctor did it, the level was too poor, so there was a chat without a match, and it took almost an hour.
Finally, the doctor gave me a drip, the whole delivery room was me and the baby, he was wrapped and placed on the table next to me, facing me to sleep, occasionally crying twice, I told him that the baby did not cry, he would not cry, very magical, the back is still eating small hands, very cute, blushing, small, eyes closed, head a little deformed. This minute I felt that I was too great and actually gave birth to a baby.
The whole labor process from pain to birth 6 hours, no painless, teared, no side cut, so very primitive and natural to give birth to the baby, can only sigh that it is too difficult to be a mother, then love yourself well, take the baby well, wish every pregnant mother a smooth birth, health and safety, come on.