Recently, Guo Jingjing shared photos of her traveling to Xi'an with her 3 children on social platforms, from these photos, it is not difficult to see that Guo Jingjing accompanied her 3 children on the high-speed train, visited the Terracotta Army of the Mausoleum of the First Qin Emperor, and climbed Mount Hua.
As soon as these photos were released, they were praised by countless netizens, and netizens praised Guo Jingjing's parenting is very set, not only accompanying children to read ten thousand books, but also taking them on a journey of thousands of miles.
The most important thing is that they still walk the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, so that after tourism, even patriotic education is done by the way.
It stands to reason that Guo Jingjing, as a wealthy daughter-in-law, will definitely be particularly concerned about the education of her children, and she also hopes that her children can become talents so that she can inherit the family inheritance, but she did not encourage them to catch up and surpass their peers.
On the contrary, she often takes her children to participate in various extracurricular activities, bicycles, rice planting, etc., which shows that she is deliberately allowing her children to have a happy and stable childhood.
But not all parents can think like Guo Jingjing, some parents rely on their own good family conditions, have to let their children win at the starting line, catch up with their peers, and preferably become "prodigies".
In 2012, a parent who called himself "Eagle Dad" attracted the attention of the whole society because he used "advanced education" on his 4-year-old son and forced his son to run naked in the snow.
Now that 11 years have passed, I don't know how this child who has been "advanced education" is doing? Have you ever become a "child prodigy"?
In fact, the story of "Eagle Dad" educating his son was originally a story full of fatherly love, "Eagle Dad" named He Liesheng, a post-60s generation who worked as a physics teacher for 7 years in his early years, but then he switched careers to become a businessman.
During his time at sea, he also had a time when he became poor overnight, but in the end, with a strong will and a character that dares to think and fight, he successfully climbed from the trough to the peak, and the company he was in charge of was said to have assets of more than 100 million when it was brilliant.
However, when he went to the business sea, his personal problems dragged on again and again, and in 2008, at the age of 40, he finally became a father, but the birth of his son did not bring him joy.
Because the son was born prematurely, the wife gave birth to her son after only 7 months of pregnancy, which caused the son to be very weak when he was first born, and soon after, the doctor told He Liesheng a bad news.
It turned out that the son who was born less than 4 pounds was not only as simple as being skinny, he was likely to become dementia or cerebral palsy in the future, and this news frightened He Liesheng at once, but he was not intimidated, but began to find a way to solve the matter.
He Liesheng named his son "He Yide" in the hope that he could be just right, virtuous and so on, but how could he take on this heavy responsibility when he was born inadequate? He Liesheng had to use "extreme" means.
At that time, He Liesheng thought of using eagles to train eagles to fly to change his son's current situation, in his opinion, only by forcing his son to a desperate situation can his son burst out to his maximum potential, and this potential may be able to help his son overcome the difficulties of congenital deficiencies.
So, when He Yide was 3 months old, He Liesheng put him in a pool with a temperature of only 25 degrees to stimulate his body's immune system, and who knew that after a few months, his physical condition really improved slightly.
It was the success of the first step that made He Liesheng more and more bold, and he became more and more strict with his young son, and when He Yide first learned to walk, he took his son on foot, and when he was 2 years old, he even took his son to climb the Purple Mountain in Nanjing.
Of course, in addition to physical exercise, there must be academic cultivation, after all, He Liesheng was a teacher before, and what he is best at is cultivating children's learning ability.
Soon after his son was born, he played Mozart's piano music on a loop for his son, and even the room where his son lived was plastered with various famous paintings, all in order to improve his son's ability to discern beauty.
When his son was older, he also arranged a lot of 10 learning contents for his son such as emotional quotient, IQ, and even adverse quotient and financial quotient, and his son's life was fully arranged by him.
Under his strict education, his son's Chile not only returned to normal, but also caught up with a group of peers, and He Yide could know more than 3,000 Chinese characters before he was 3 years old.
However, the outside world knew He Yide, a "prodigy", not after seeing his literacy ability, but after seeing his "cold resistance".
During the Spring Festival of 2012, He Liesheng brought his family to New York for a vacation, and when he was bored on the plane, he suddenly saw an article in the book about Japanese schools that would take "cold training" for students.
The article roughly describes the process of "hardiness training", which is to let students wear short-sleeved shorts outdoors in winter, which helps improve students' physical fitness.
Seeing this, He Liesheng naturally couldn't sit still, he was eager to use this method on his almost 4-year-old son, and wanted to see if this method was effective.
So after the plane landed, he just let his son rest for a while, then began to train his son for cold, he only let his son wear a pair of sports shorts, and took his son to the outdoor temperature as low as minus 13 degrees, and let his son run naked on the snow.
No matter how He Yide cried and begged for a hug, He Liesheng was not soft at all, as if he didn't see it, he continued to let his son run naked in the snow, and during this period, He Liesheng did not forget to record his son's brave moments with the DV in his hand.
It was through this video that we met He Yide, the "naked running brother", and of course, we also met He Liesheng, the "eagle father" who was extremely ruthless to his son.
At first, after watching this video, netizens felt that He Liesheng's education was too extreme, and He Yide was still young, so he should not be put in such a cold environment to exercise.
And when we deeply understand He Yide's premature birth experience, and know that he was asserted by doctors to have dementia after birth, we begin to understand what He Liesheng did, after all, he did this to get his son's body on track.
But what happened next exceeded everyone's expectations, it turned out that He Liesheng did not just want his son to return to normal, but wanted his son to become a talent quickly under his "advanced education".
In He Liesheng's concept, the school's examination-oriented education is still too slow, almost 35 years old to graduate with a doctorate, if a person relegates to the second line at the age of 50, then he only has 15 years of struggle, which is obviously not enough.
Under the influence of this concept, he began to personally design an "accelerated" version of his son's life, waking up at 6:45 a.m. until going to bed at 8:30 p.m. every day, he arranged a very tight learning content for his son.
He also developed an exclusive curriculum for his son, which is densely packed, not only the study arrangements of various cultural classes, but also many sports courses such as taekwondo and martial arts classes, which shows that He Liesheng wants his son to develop in an all-round way, rather than become a "nerd" who can only take exams.
Under his father's arrangement, Ho Yide's life seems to be very fulfilling, but in fact it is a little chaotic, sometimes he will play in kindergarten with children of the same age in the morning, but in the afternoon, he will return home and start learning the curriculum for elementary school students.
Of course, He Yide's "speeding" learning has also achieved certain results, and his intelligence has not only not developed in the direction of dementia, but also reached the level of elementary school at the age of 3.
After that, we saw a He Yide who showed extraordinary strength in all aspects, in addition to running naked in the snow at the age of 4, he also participated in sailing races alone at the age of 4.
By the following year, he even set a world record by flying an airplane over the Beijing Wildlife Park.
But the most shocking thing is that at the age of 8, He Yide actually signed up for the self-study exam of Nanjing University, although it is not an undergraduate, just a specialty, but for an 8-year-old child, it is also an extremely difficult task, and he was also admitted.
It was also at this time that we began to notice that He Yide's life was becoming more and more wrong, that is, in the year he applied for NTU, his father He Liesheng actually registered a training institution called "Eagle Papa Public School".
The institution wants to follow the course arrangement of "naked running brother" He Yide, and "eagle father" He Liesheng personally arranges the course, and sometimes teaches it himself, striving to cultivate students who participate in the course into prodigies like He Yide.
Of course, this kind of training institution, can only be small class teaching, the fee is extremely high, it is reported that the monthly tuition has reached a staggering 10420 yuan, but He Yide such a "living signboard" to promote, naturally many students signed up.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, although the training institution strictly followed He Yide's previous "Ten Business Course", and also held some summer camps, and even reproduced the "snow naked running" activity.
But not every child is He Yide, many of them are not suitable for the curriculum, especially some punitive activities, such as playing the hand board, or not earning enough "star coins" to prevent eating, etc., all drive this group of children to want to escape these courses.
Finally, in 2018, an article "Escape from Eagle Daddy" appeared on the Internet to expose the various faults of "Eagle Daddy Public School", and then the relevant institutions launched an investigation into it, and "Eagle Daddy School" has since disappeared in the rivers and lakes.
Although the "Eagle Father School" has disappeared, the controversy that accompanied He Liesheng's father and son has not disappeared, but has intensified, in fact, after He Yide was able to write his autobiography himself at the age of 6, the Internet was full of doubts about their father and son.
After all, a 6-year-old child can be brilliant and logical, but he certainly can't remember what happened when he was just born, so He Yide can complete the autobiography that was translated into 65 Chinese, and his father He Liesheng must have helped.
Secondly, when He Yide went to primary school and when he graduated from primary school is still a mystery, initially, He Liesheng hoped that his son could complete the primary school curriculum at the age of 6, but it is said that this goal was not completed, and it is reported that He Yide graduated from primary school in 2017, that is, when he was 9 years old.
But wasn't he already taking the self-study exam at Nanjing University at that time? Later, it was also reported that although He Yide took several years to graduate from elementary school, he completed the junior high school and high school courses in just 3 months.
Therefore, he was able to speed up and start his life of studying at NTU, and in December 2019, he obtained a college diploma from NTU, and these doubtful information also made He Yide's resume full of mystery.
However, in the summer of 2020, a program called "The First Battle to the End" unveiled Ho Yide's legendary experience, and in his introduction, he did not emphasize the elementary school part, only stating that he was admitted to NTU at the age of 8.
What is even more confusing is that he obviously only took the self-study exam of NTU, everyone can take the exam, and he is still a junior college, but his resume does not show the undergraduate part at all, and directly says that he is preparing for graduate school and doctorate.
Of course, it is understandable to only emphasize his excellent parts on the show, but the controversy has also become stronger, and everyone has begun to care about whether He Yide can really be admitted to graduate school and doctorate.
Just when some netizens were waiting to see He Yide "slap in the face", he brought one good news after another, in September 2021, he completed 12 courses of MBA from Vulcan University in Spain.
Three months later, he received a PhD acceptance from the University of São Paulo in the Philippines, when He Yide was only 13 years old, so he became the youngest doctoral student in the university's history.
And this is not the greatest glory of He Yide, because in February this year, He Yide even received an inbound notice from the postdoctoral fellow at Cambridge University in the United Kingdom.
From this series of achievements, it is not difficult to see that He Yide has overcome the doubts of netizens about him with facts, but many netizens do not buy it, after all, his life is too rare and not suitable for vigorous publicity.
In fact, in the early years, when He Yide was just famous, many media interviewed He Liesheng and He Yide father and son, and He Liesheng did not directly answer the question of "whether his son is happy" that everyone was most concerned about, but only kept asking "Is he not happy", and also explained that "the son is not a fish, and knows the joy of fish".
And the same question, we can find a clear answer in He Yide's answer, he once said that he is unhappy more often, and also bluntly said that he hopes that his father can be gentle with him.
As for the many courses he learned at a young age that "beyond the scope of age cognition", He Yide actually complained, he once said that those books were very thick, and he did not understand a lot of the content on them.
It can be seen that He Yide is not the kind of talented prodigy, he just accelerated the speed of completing his studies under his father's strict education, he is just a special case, not worth promoting, which is also the biggest controversial point on him.
Fortunately, his sister Han Han, who is 4 years younger than He Yide, did not replicate his life, and after learning that his daughter did not want to stay at home and study like his son, he made a compromise and allowed Han Han to live the same life as his peers.
As spectators, we should also put aside our accusations, after all, as bystanders, we see very limited facts, maybe He Yide is really suitable, and gradually get used to the courses that his father tailored for him.
Although life is always his own, his father can accompany him for a while, and can also advise him for his future, but he has never been able to accompany him to the end, but as long as he really has strength, he will not be afraid of a person to deal with the tribulations in life.
Besides, now He Yide is only 15 years old, even if he keeps trying and making mistakes, he still has the opportunity to keep standing up, what we can do is to look down on his achievements, even if he is unknown in the future, it is just that he chooses to return to normal.