In ancient times, in exchange for the temporary tranquility of the country, the princesses could only endure grief and marry away from their father and mother.
Now that technology is developed, going abroad is just a matter of a plane ticket, so many actresses in the entertainment industry have happily embarked on the road to distant marriage.
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However, sometimes the moon abroad looks quite round, but is the life of marrying a foreigner really as good as imagined?
Audiences who love movies must like "Lust and Caution" starring Tang Wei, after all, the artistic moisture of this film is very moist.
Born in a family of calligraphy and painting in Hangzhou, Tang Wei is full of artistic "bacteria", and her beautiful and literary appearance has allowed her to be discovered by the agency and open her superstar road.
In 2010, Tang Wei filmed "Late Autumn" in South Korea, and the scandal with the actor Hyun Bin flew all over the sky, which fiercely promoted the movie.
But what the melon-eating masses don't know is that the truth behind the hype is that Tang Wei is in love with South Korean director Kim Tae-yong.
Director Jin does have a good talent, and his first work "High School Monster Talk 2" won the Best New Director Award in one fell swoop, and he won numerous awards in the later period.
However, Director Jin, who was drawing wires with Tang Wei in secret at that time, was actually still married, and did not divorce his ex-wife until the following year.
Although the two officially announced their relationship in 2013, because of the rumors of "secret dating for two years", Tang Wei was once accused by the public of "three".
It was not until 2014 that the two entered the marriage hall to quell public anger.
After marriage, Mrs. Jin gave birth to a daughter and gradually faded out of the entertainment industry, but the melon-eating masses still did not forget her, and they squatted on the news of "marriage change" every day.
And the goddess returns to the countryside and shows the sweet farmer life after marriage from time to time.
Then, on the grounds of "not adapting to the living environment", Tang Wei returned to China alone with his daughter to settle down, separated from her husband, and a marketing number broke the rumors that the two had a marriage change.
And the two have not yet divorced, and they will still post happy family photos every New Year's holiday, and they live a very leisurely life.
Lin Zhiling, the immortal goddess who has the title of "the first beauty in Taiwan Province", has always been the focus of online "matchmakers".
Just because Zhiling's sister is different from the Taiwan entertainment industry, some female artists who are bent on marrying into wealthy families.
She has a warm temperament like water, and her temperament is elegant and dignified, but her inexplicable love road is bumpy, which makes fans feel distressed.
She always believed in love, and traced the road of love all the way to the age of 45, and finally walked into the grave of marriage with 38-year-old Ryohei Kurosawa in 2019.
The editor just wants to say at the moment: "It's really cheap you boy".
In the unwilling blessings of netizens, Zhiling finally married love, and in 2022, she gave birth to her son safely at the age of 48.
However, in just 4 years since he got married, Ryohei Kurosawa has been repeatedly exposed to cheating, domestic violence and other behaviors.
Another "insider" revealed that Lin Zhiling, who suffered domestic violence, had instructed relatives and friends around her not to spread it out in order to protect her husband's reputation.
The rumor that "Lin Zhiling and his wife have long been secretly divorced" has not been interrupted for many years.
Recently, many Lin Zhiling's raw pictures have been exposed, and the skin condition of the former goddess looks very bad, her eyes are dull, and the dark circles are obvious.
I don't know if it's the hard work of taking care of the children, or because of the torture of marriage.
However, Lin Zhiling, who is about to be 50 years old, can still maintain her current beauty, which is already very rare, and the title of "Goddess of Frozen Age" is well deserved.
I hope that the love that Zhiling has always believed in and guards can really bring her ideal happiness.
Compared with the "confusing" marriage status of the previous two, Hu Jing, who is also married abroad, is much simpler, because her happiness is not mixed with a little impurity.
Hu Jing debuted at the age of 20 and was named the "goddess of costume", the young girl did not swell, always indulged in career, and did not have time to think about personal problems.
At the age of 27, at Er Dongsheng's party, he met Zhu Zhaoxiang, a Malaysian billionaire 12 years older than him.
Mr. Zhu fell in love with this great beauty at first sight and launched a "burning money" pursuit.
In the face of the open door of wealth, Hu Jing did not rush forward, but spent 3 years to test Zhu Zhaoxiang: if we still love each other after three years, we can get married.
So in 2008, Mr. Zhu proved with his actions that the overbearing presidents who are infatuated in online novels are real.
He held a grand wedding of the century for his beloved wife at the most expensive golf course in Kuala Lumpur, setting a new record for the highest spending at a wedding banquet in Malaysia.
The next year, Hu Jing gave birth to a son, and the middle-aged Zhu Zhaoxiang almost spoiled the mother and son.
In 2010, Hu Jing and his wife were canonized by the Malaysian royal family as "Dattain" and "Dato", probably similar to the title of "Lady of Commandment", and Hu Jing also became the first Chinese in Malaysia to receive the title of "Natin".
Now Hu Jing's life is simply not too dashing, whether it is wanting to be a Kuo wife at home, or coming back to filming to have a good time, her husband has no full support, Hu Jing must have saved the universe in her last life.
Nowadays, in this environment where the whole network is instilling "marriage is not worth it" chicken soup, only Qi Wei and his wife can single-handedly rekindle the trust and desire of many netizens for marriage.
Her husband Lee Seung-hyun is an American Korean star, proficient in singing and dancing RAP basketball, and has strong business ability.
When the two collaborated on the filming of "Another Me in the World", they sparked with lightning, and when they were hot-headed, the two began a secret relationship.
But Qi Wei didn't expect that Li Chengxuan was in the late stage of love brain.
Just dating for more than half a year, Li Chengxuan couldn't hold back first, and in the variety show "Star Diving Cube", he secretly put a big melon with a 7V gesture to completely expose the relationship between the two.
For a time, the hot search was the news officially announced by the two, and the matter was so big, it was really difficult to end without getting married.
So in September 2014, the two held a wedding at the Caesars Palace Hotel in Las Vegas, USA, and gave birth to the palm pearl little LUCY in January of the following year.
Wait, it seems that something is wrong.
In 2022, his wife was pregnant with a second child, and Brother Li announced to the world: the second child, whether male or female, will have the mother's surname.
So at the end of the year, the youngest son Seven was born.
Although Lee Seung-hyun is Korean, because he grew up in the United States, he was not contaminated with the bad habits of "male superiority and female inferiority" and "inheritance" in South Korea.
He really loved his daughter carved out of a template with his wife, and did not care that his son took his mother's surname.
After marriage, when faced with the choice between career and family, Lee Seung-hyun resolutely gave up his great future and was willing to become a househusband, just so that his beloved wife could pursue his career without scruples.
I personally do not support Lee Seung-hyun doing this because I don't have such a husband.
Happy marriages are always similar, but unhappy marriages have their own tricks.
In 1986, Inner Mongolian singer Wei Wei entered the stage of the "Second National Young Singer TV Grand Prix".
With the excellent results of the second place in the professional group and popular singing, he officially debuted and became a well-known singer.
After his debut, he has been sung to this day with a song "Dedication of Love".
Six years later, Wei Wei met Michael Smith, a Swedish pianist visiting China.
At that time, Michael was a man with a family, but Wei Wei ignored the worldly vision and was willing to give birth to a son for Michael as a lover.
The novel wants to say, this is like my love brain girlfriend.
Michael soon divorced his ex-wife and married Wei Wei, and the couple settled in Sweden and continued to conceive two sons and spent a happy time together.
However, how can a man with a previous record of cheating in marriage easily settle down and keep to himself, and soon reveal the inferior nature of violence.
In the ninth year after marriage, Wei Wei divorced because he could not bear her husband's domestic violence, and led his three sons back to China to start a new life.
Wei Wei, who completely lost confidence in marriage, focused on children and career.
Fortunately, the children were very competitive, two went to Peking University academically, and the other became a well-known boxer.
Now 60 years old, Wei Wei still hasn't remarried, I don't know if I can find my own happiness in old age?
In 1995, Lu Yu left CCTV to continue her studies in the United States, and during her study abroad she made a foreign boyfriend, and it didn't take long for her to get married quickly.
The next year, Lu Yu happily returned to China with his foreign husband to settle down, and successfully entered Phoenix Satellite TV, and Lu Yu had unlimited scenery with a double harvest of career and family.
But the glamour is superficial, and soon Lu Yu found that her husband not only has a strong desire to control, but also has violent tendencies.
Lu Yu's small arms and legs can withstand the abuse of her husband.
But even Lu Yu, who had a higher education, chose to endure at that time, until her husband had a new lover outside, so he chose to divorce.
This marriage caused a very serious psychological shadow for her, even if she later reunited with her first love boyfriend Zhu Lei and married again, Lu Yu lost the ability to maintain and manage a family, and eventually ended in divorce.
Now 53 years old, Lu Yu is still skeptical about marriage and lives alone.
Therefore, there are only 0 and countless times of domestic violence, and in the face of domestic violence, victims must learn to stop losses in time.
In contrast, Yuan Li, who married a foreigner for the second time, was much luckier.
At the age of 26, Yuan Li won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actress with the role of Ouyang Lanlan in "Never Blind", and quickly became popular throughout the country.
Although he has strong business ability, his personality is notoriously strange, not so much a big grin, but a madness.
At the age of 35, she married Zhao Ling at the beginning of the year and left at the end of the year, which is very in line with her perverse character.
In 2011, I met Canadian Lin Bowen, and after only 3 months of dating, I went to Canada to get married.
The marriage lasted for 4 years, and although Yuan Li got along with his foreign husband quite well, the different values cultivated by the regional environment were soon exposed.
Different from the concept of "husbands should take care of their wives" in traditional Chinese culture, foreigners have always pursued freedom and independence in the concept of education.
Therefore, her husband often ignores Yuan Li's personal emotions, in her opinion, the two are like roommates who live together, and the AA form of marriage makes Yuan Li fall into self-doubt.
Until Yuan Li had an accidental miscarriage after becoming pregnant, in the face of her husband's frequent accusations, Yuan
Li knew that this life could not go on, so he divorced his husband in 2015.
This time the cross-border love experience card made Yuan Li realize how much cultural differences affect the details of life, and she understood that foreigners are not suitable for her.
In 2019, Yuan Li secretly married a poet named Liang Taiping, and has lived a low-key life without conflict ever since.
Other people's cross-border love is because of love, but Li Qinqin marries a foreigner because "the moon in a foreign country is relatively round"?
In 1963, Li Qinqin was born in Beijing, she has been from a privileged family since she was a child, and she has always dreamed of becoming an actor in the future.
It's a pity that Li Qinqin failed the college entrance examination and failed to enter the class as she wished, so she could only run to the crew to boldly recommend herself, and the result really made her mix with the heroine of "Beijing Story".
Just officially debuted, caught up with the enthusiasm for going abroad after opening up, so I also rushed to Japan to study in the trend, wanting to gild myself.
As soon as he arrived abroad, Li Qinqin fell in love with the foreign air uncontrollably, and soon married a reporter surnamed Yamane.
When the old father heard about this, he ran away directly and threatened to break the girl's leg.
But after marriage, Mrs. Yamane, because of the relationship between the two at work, often got together less and separated more, and it didn't take long to be sweet, and the relationship faded.
After the birth of his son, Li Qinqin was so busy that he hit the back of his head, and his relatives and friends could not help him.
Gradually, the exhausted Li Qinqin decided to end the six-year marriage and turn her husband into an ex-husband, who died in a traffic accident shortly after.
Li Qinqin returned to China with his children, returned to filming, and soon met Peter the American who did business in China.
Peter has a strong desire for control, and after the two got married, he once did not allow his wife to go out at will, and even had to check his wife's consumption bills every day, monitoring his wife every hour and every second.
Li Qinqin, who couldn't bear it, had to rejoice in her husband again.
Since then, Li Qinqin has never remarried, and is still single until he is over fifty today.
It stands to reason that according to Sister Li's conditions, it should not be a problem to find an old man with low protection and good legs and feet, but Li Qinqin has a hardcore mate selection condition: it must be a foreigner.
"I like foreigners because they are simple and generally do not carry nonsense"
Not bragging, not calculating, not dying to save face, in Li Qinqin's eyes is the characteristic of foreigners.
We don't know where this is the characteristics of big data.
In short, since Li Qinqin threatened to "resolutely not marry Chinese men", then we do not understand, and we can only respect and bless.
With the development of the times, people from all over the world have gradually become a family living in the same global village, so it is not unusual to marry a foreigner in a transnational relationship.
In any country, in any color, in any race, there are good people of good kindness, and there are also vicious gangsters.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, we should keep our eyes open and choose a partner that suits us more than nationality.