#头条创作挑战赛 #
Children hold the mobile phone for a long time, play games addiction, parents persuade not only do not listen, but play more, which has to make parents sleep uneasy, anxious and irritable.
So how to guide children who are addicted to playing mobile phones correctly? Learn these 8 methods, let children consciously put down the mobile phone and devote themselves to learning.
First, see how the child feels
Tell the child: Mom knows that you don't want to just play with your phone, playing with your phone for a long time hurts your eyes and is quite tiring, and you are also hard, come and let your mother hug you.
When the child hears you say these words and feels that you see him, he can't help but collapse and cry, so that the child finds an outlet to release his emotions.
Second, discover children's curiosity and self-discipline
Tell your child: Mobile games are designed to be addictive, so it's not your fault that you love to play games, knowing that you are curious, and mom sometimes wants to play.
Just can play, but can not be immersed in it for a long time, if you can control to withdraw from the game within a certain period of time, it proves that it is very self-disciplined, you have both curiosity to play and self-discipline to withdraw from the game in time, which means that you are a big person in the future, and your mother has to learn from you.
Third, make rules with your child
Tell your child: Mobile phones can be played appropriately, but can we make a rule together about when to play and for how long?
Come, talk about your ideas, as long as it is reasonable, mom will respect your suggestion, and when it is formulated, we will abide by it together.
Fourth, the parent-child relationship is greater than the parent-child education
Ask the child: Baby, what games do you like to play? I want to play too, can you teach me?
When you ask your child for advice, he will feel that he has a sense of value, a sense of existence, and can be respected by you.
At the same time, by learning games with your child, you can also enter his heart, understand the child's true thoughts, and facilitate better parent-child communication.
Parent-child relationship is the premise of parent-child education, and parent-child relationship is greater than parent-child education.
Fifth, trust the child
Tell the child: Baby, I found that you are a child who can restrain and manage yourself, in the past, my mother was not worried about giving you the mobile phone, but now it seems that my mother is wrong.
Baby, you can manage your time and study, you are so good, mom has to learn from you!
Sixth, develop hobbies
Actively encourage children to develop hobbies, such as: playing basketball, watching movies, climbing, swimming, traveling, reading, etc., so that his life is colorful.
In this way, it not only distracts children from playing with mobile phones, but also broadens their horizons and improves the pattern.
Seventh, give high-quality companionship
Parents lead by example, go home and put down their mobile phones, relax themselves, participate in their children's play, chat, and immerse themselves in their children's innocent laughter.
Communicate and interact with children, give children high-quality companionship, and let children feel the true love of their parents. At the same time, they can also care for each other and help each other heal.
Eighth, talk less, listen more, and encourage more
Parents should nag less, listen more, encourage more, recognize more, accept their children's imperfections, let their children have enough security and self-confidence, and have the courage to take the initiative to put down their mobile phones to interact with the outside world.
Once the child's internal drive is stimulated, his learning momentum is irresistible, and his grades will rise upward.
There are reasons behind children's problems, parents see children, understand children, believe in children, give children a sincere hug, children's problems will be solved.
A child is a seed that needs fertile soil and enough water to thrive. Parents need to grow up themselves, nourish their children with appropriate love, and wait patiently for the flowers to bloom.