In recent years, the trend of public opinion has become popular and "fussy", and Li Chen, who said in the latest issue of "Running Man" that "girls are a burden", was unfortunately recruited.
Although the big black bull quickly apologized on Weibo, saying that he would be cautious in his words and actions after that, the controversy caused by this did not stop. People's discussion of this matter has long gone beyond "condemning Li Chen or crying out for Li Chen" itself.
It is not that a public apology can satisfy everyone, and there is another voice circulating on the Internet - "In the game of physical strength, most women really do not have an advantage, is there a problem with acknowledging the macro and objective differences between the sexes?" ”
For example, in middle school physical education class, boys run 1000m and girls run 800m, and the difference of 200m is set based on the natural difference in physical strength between men and women.
But privately, this is not a reason to call "girls a burden".
First of all, cumbersome is a derogatory term!
It's really rude to label people negatively at the beginning, right?
It's like I changed from a school in the township to a school in the city. I used to live in a poor backcountry, I haven't sat on the subway, I haven't played in the playground, and I haven't visited a large bookstore, so I may indeed have a shallow vision, and my overall words and deeds are more dirty, but you can't just call me "hillbilly" because of this, right? This is discouraged from my enthusiasm to integrate into my new environment, right?
Directly calling girls a burden is the same reason, they may indeed be weaker, but may not want to be lazy in their hearts, do not want to rely on people, but also want to fight hard, but you directly give people a basin of cold water on their heads, it will inevitably affect their enthusiasm for struggle, could have achieved 80 points, but only achieved 60 points, it seems to be really a burden, and finally highlights your own strength as a cow.
So excuse me, is the phrase "women are burdensome" objectively describing the facts, or is it inadvertently preconceived and using prophecy to lead to results?
You know, man is an animal that can be easily hinted atto, and many girls have heard it when they are in school - "At first, girls have good grades, and when they get to high school, boys will come later." In reality, there are many examples of "it is true", but is there really some kind of scientific necessity logic, or did the two sides make a subconscious choice after receiving repeated hints?
Objective gender differences are difficult to change, but we can still choose between "strengthening the weak and encouraging the weak".
On the other hand, general macroscopic differences do not obliterate exceptions between individuals.
That is to say, the overall upper limit of a girl's physical strength may be lower than that of a man, but if you take any pair of men and women out, the physical fitness of a girl may not be weaker than that of that boy. Therefore, a man who says "girls are a burden" without any research is somewhat self-satisfied with his gender advantage.
In fact, most men will have this sense of gender superiority deep down, don't believe it, you point to a short and thin boy, say that he is a burden, he is likely to be offended and angry, right?
I remember that there was a program where the guest was female pilot Song Yin, who was also the first generation of female search and rescue captains, and her work gave her not only a heroic appearance, but also various difficulties and risks in practice. Then one of the male experts who was also a guest (I forget which specialist) began to "pity the jade", and Balabala said a lot, to the effect that - "Such a dangerous job should be done to us men, and you cannot be allowed to suffer this sin." ”
Just, seemingly distressed about each other, in fact, in essence and "girls don't fight too hard, just do easy work" is a truth, hidden demeaning and inducing, in an attempt to use gentle shackles to make them automatically give up the qualifications to challenge and fight, obediently living in a subsidiary position far away from core resources.
Especially the phrase "we should let men on", chicken thieves and arrogance at a glance.
As the saying goes, "the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility", people and girls have been heavily evaluated, can be well qualified for the job and have made outstanding achievements in the post, and you, short stature, big belly, myopic spectacle lenses large and bright, look not young, why do you think that just because of your gender male, you can charge for professionals?
Yes, not all women have the same physical qualities as Song Yin, but there is also a gap between you and male pilots, right?
Gender advantage is not absolute, instead of involuntarily dividing you and me by stereotypes, it is better to return to specific environments and pay attention to specific people and specific selves. "They" cannot represent her, and "they" cannot generalize him.
The above is my personal opinion, casually saying "women are a burden", is with subconscious condescension, that is, exudes a sense of gender superiority, is implied contempt and disrespect for the female group. Only when the "commonplace" is brought out can a new "convention" gradually take shape, and if you want to get rid of the old and make a new one, you must go through "overkill" and "fuss".
Then, I also want to hear everyone's point of view, if you think "over-interpretation" please deduct 1, if you feel that "Li Chen is wronged", please deduct 2, and please say your reasons. Come on, come on, the comment section is up!