In fact, everyone has different views on cross-border marriage, and some people think that it is very romantic, because two people from different countries can come together, which is actually quite difficult, and some people can't accept it, because after all, people who are not a country will have great differences in thinking and habits.
Although the number of cross-border marriages is on the rise, it is still relatively niche, after all, not all people have the opportunity to contact foreigners, and if they have the opportunity, they also have to consider the differences of each country. In Finland the Chinese warned: it is better not to marry a Finnish girl, otherwise you will bear the consequences.
Why is that? Finland actually has more beautiful women, so why can't you marry Finnish girls? In fact, because the ideological concepts of people in the two countries are much different, especially in the concept of marriage, Chinese after marriage, they will hope that there is no gap between the two people, and it is best that there are no secrets.
Finland is different, Finns will hope that no matter when, there is a distance, even after marriage, you can have your own private space, this is not only Finns are like this, many countries are actually more particular about having a private space.
Therefore, if the Finn and Chinese get married, there is often a relatively large dispute between the two people's definition of private space, which will cause contradictions between the two parties, and Chinese men may feel that their wives are hiding something, and Finnish girls will feel that Chinese men are too broad.
And this will often only be reflected in a relatively large amount after marriage, after all, before marriage, Chinese will actually maintain a certain distance, and after marriage it is not the same, so it is still necessary to be cautious, after all, if you really can't get along after marriage, the final result is divorce, and the time and feelings paid before will be a harm to both parties, and the character in the bones is actually difficult to change.