Do you accept such a marriage? The two have lived apart for a long time, at most once a month, and have not even seen each other for more than a year during the epidemic, each living in their own circle and occasionally getting together.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, such a marriage state seems a little difficult to understand, after all, in the traditional concept of marriage, two people rely on each other and take care of each other, and the relationship between the two places is difficult to maintain, and even many people are in love from a distance, the other party can not hold back the loneliness and cheating or empathy, after all, this state is a test for both physiology and psychology.
In the entertainment industry, Zhang Weijian and Zhang Qian are in this state of marriage.
Zhang Weijian once revealed that he and his wife Zhang Qian have always chosen to live separately after marriage, one in Hong Kong and the other in Beijing.
As for why he did this, Zhang Qian himself did not respond, Zhang Weijian explained that he is not a patriarchal person, he understands that Zhang Qian's life circle is in Beijing, so he does not want her to give up her life circle, he will come to see his wife once a month at most, and then keep in touch by phone to understand what the other party is doing every day.
Judging from this paragraph, Zhang Weijian seems to be very considerate, understanding that his wife may be inconvenient to live in a strange place, but once he understands Zhang Weijian's own growth, he will find that this is not a kind of thoughtfulness given to him by Zhang Qian?
Zhang Weijian was born in Hong Kong in 1965, and when he was 15 years old, his parents were emotionally discordant and divorced. Zhang Weijian started working at the age of 17, providing for his family's food, clothing, housing and transportation to provide for his brother's education. Later, by chance, he was helped by his brother Leslie Cheung.
By the way, at this year's concert for the 20th anniversary of Leslie Cheung's death, Zhang Weijian also appeared in the performance.
At that time, Zhang Weijian participated in the competition under the recommendation and began to contact the entertainment industry, and then worked as a cold bench in TVB for eight years, and could only play soy sauce and run tricks, and finally his career improved in the 90s.
It is because it is very difficult along the way, Zhang Weijian lacks a sense of security in his character, and he has not been married for more than ten years in love with Zhang Qian, although Zhang Qian urged marriage and wanted to have a home, but Zhang Weijian always avoided, and the two broke up for a while.
Until 2009, the two finally got married after getting back together, and unfortunately, the two also experienced the pain of the death of their children.
It is said that the two liked children very much and became pregnant not long after marriage, but the child miscarried at 8 months old, and it also affected Zhang Qian's fertility, which hit the two very hard.
Later, Zhang Weijian said in an interview that in order to help Zhang Qian get out of the haze of miscarriage, he suspended his work to take care of him wholeheartedly, and as a result, he neglected himself because of this, resulting in an insoluble knot.
Since then, Zhang Qian has gradually withdrawn from the entertainment industry, Zhang Weijian has developed in both places, most of the time in Hong Kong, busy with work and filming, the two have been married for more than 20 years, childless under their knees, and live apart for a long time, how much it is embarrassing to watch, on each other's social platforms, almost do not see each other's figures.
After the epidemic, Zhang Weijian stayed in Hong Kong to take care of his mother, and did not see Zhang Qian for more than a year, and did not reunite until March 2021.
It was also during that time that Zhang Qian's social account appeared Zhang Weijian's figure, the two went out to eat and live together, Zhang Qian also got up early to make soup for each other, as usual affection, Zhang Qian's face also smiled.
After that, Zhang Weijian continued to return to Hong Kong to work, but I don't know how long the two haven't seen each other, anyway, Zhang Qian's recent life content is cat daily and life sharing, and even because of boredom began to pick up the ink paintings he learned back then, began to use painting to spend his daily life, Hong Kong media also used "semi-retired life" to describe Zhang Qian.
In fact, after filming "The Condor Heroes" in 2014, Zhang Qian completely chose Xiying, she would be angry with netizens because of her blessed body in the early years, and even worked hard, but in recent years it seems that she also wants to open, no longer embarrassing herself, her hair is cut shorter and shorter, and her state is getting more and more rounded.
49-year-old Zhang Qian now lives comfortably, raising cats to tease dogs and painting, without worrying about too many things, and not having to wash her hands and make soup for her husband every day, which is actually quite good.
Everyone's life is a choice, but also a way to live, perhaps in the eyes of the outside world, Zhang Qian compromised more, allowing Zhang Weijian to live his own life, but this is actually a helpless move. I hope that whether it is Zhang Qian or Zhang Weijian, both of them can protect it well.
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![It was too thrilling, Zhang Weijian had an accident during the rehearsal of the concert, and the piano fell in mid-air and was pressed[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)