Rumors about her have revived, and she, who was once seen as "light" by the whole network, has she lost?

Recently, an incredible melon broke out in the entertainment industry, and Gillian gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus.

And the person who fell into the illegitimate child turmoil with her is Qin Fen, a good friend of Gillian and the rich second generation of the Shanghai Emperor. They have a very good relationship in private, meet to play ball, behave intimately, and have interaction on Weibo, and Gillian has personally publicly sent him blessings, which has caused netizens to frequently speculate whether it is a romantic relationship.

But Gillian after seeing this melon, couldn't help but end up refuting the rumors: you can go as a screenwriter.

But in the rumors of Gillian's "birth turmoil", Tata saw two winds of public opinion.

One is sympathy, feeling that her journey has been very difficult, from the upheaval and displacement in the young family, to the later "nude photos door" incident, and then divorced, etc., growing up is very difficult.

The other is naked sarcasm:

Twenty years after her debut, from the "Jade Female Sect Leader" to the "Ten Thousand Mocking" Lust Girl, what has she experienced? But whether it is praise, sympathy, or ridicule, Gillian, who lives in the spotlight, has not lost!

01 Young experience

Since she was a child, she has had a little more trials and setbacks than her peers.

Her father died when she was just over a year old. Her mother was only 19 years old at the time, and her life had to go on, and then her mother remarried, taking care of her more flawlessly, and her childhood was spent in the homes of her grandmother, aunt, and uncle, and seven kindergartens alone.

After all, life under the fence is not at ease with her own home, so at a very young age, she can read the faces of adults, but she also gets the most important person in her life. In the test session of a show, Gillian was asked to write 5-10 of the most important people in her life on paper, and she wrote down her cousin. She said that she grew up with her cousin, and her parents did not take on the role of caregivers, and their sisterhood was very deep.

Not only that, Gillian also has a grandfather who loves her. Grandpa would play with her, would carry her on his shoulders to do "flying" games, would take her to buy good food, and she received a lot of care from Grandpa.

These people made Gillian feel a lot of warmth and love in childhood, and let her understand that there are not only ups and downs in life, but also the joy and emotion brought by meeting every warm person, grandpa is like this, cousin is also like this, accompany grandpa to grow old, grow up with cousin, they have become the most irreplaceable people in their lives.

02 The Peak Falls

A host once asked Gillian why she chose to enter the entertainment industry.

Gillian replied simply: Because I want to support my family.

There are no dreams, no fame, only the most practical reality - the need for money, the need for life.

After graduating from university, he worked part-time as a model. Because of her outstanding appearance, she was soon signed by the emperor and debuted with Asa under the name of the group Twins, which opened their heyday.

Just debuted, only released a 5-song mini album, but sold out. Within two years, he appeared in the Red Hall, setting a record for the "youngest artist" in the Red Hall, and won most of the awards in the Hong Kong music scene.

As long as they appear, it will inevitably cause a commotion among fans, and in the Spring Festival of the year of their debut, the Hong Kong police did not allow twins to appear, and it can be said that they were half red.

2008 was their peak year.

In January of that year, the twins became the first diva of Lectra as a group to win the "Asia-Pacific Most Popular Hong Kong Female Singer" award. On the podium, Gillian and Asa hugged and cried, it is indeed not easy to become popular in the Hong Kong music scene with such fierce competition for many years.

But half a month later, overwhelming private photos spread on the Internet, pulling the twins into the abyss overnight, and made Gillian pay a huge price.

The film "Mei Lanfang", which won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Feature Film, deleted all her scenes; The movie "Hibiscus Out of the Water" starring her was postponed to 2010; "The Emperor" announced Gillian's retirement for a year, and the twins were temporarily disbanded.

And Gillian, who was deeply caught in the vortex of public opinion, once wanted to kill herself. Other people's computers and mobile phones are full of videos and photos of themselves, she said:

At that time, I didn't go out for a month or two, I didn't open the curtains, my family didn't let me watch the news, and I cried every day. When walking on the road, I didn't dare to look at others and felt ashamed.

But once the suicide is taken, the problem cannot be solved.

But if I do die, my problems will fall on the people around me, and many people who care about me will be very sad. So I quickly dismissed the idea.

Bright stars fall from the altar, crowds are crowded, and they are eating melons. Gillian stood up, she appeared in the public eye, wearing long hair and a plain gray sweater jacket, under the focused flash, she said: "I used to be silly and naïve"

With her image shattered, this sentence became a public relations disaster, and even became a laughing stock for sarcasm. People called her a "slut who doesn't know how to behave" and "teaches bad kids." Until the Weibo of blessings and joy posted on the day of her wedding, there was still a filthy word underneath.

TVB held a disaster relief activity, Gillian and Asa sang on stage, and that night, the TV station received more than 300 complaints, and the audience said that Gillian should not be allowed to come out.

During those dim and dark days, she charged herself a lot. Learn English, act, dance. When there was no schedule, she went to study drama and act in drama.

She said, "I will face it after crying, I will not run away".

03 Start over

One year after the leaked nude photos scandal.

She came back and said in an interview with reporters:

"I'm determined to start over and I want to really take my dignity back." I don't want to lock myself up or see people's lives. ”

After her comeback, her resources are much worse than before.

But Gillian is quietly turning to the "beating women" route.

Pelvic previa, scoliosis...

The successive action scenes have left her with many scars, some even permanent injuries.

But she also said: I can also climb back from a fall.

But in the face of these, there was no dodging in her eyes, but she was more calm and calm.

After her comeback, her drama path has become more open.

She began experimenting with various roles and starring in various TV series.

In 16 years, Gillian collaborated with Ge You in "The History of the Demise of Romance", she played a famous girl who pulled a gun for love, painted exquisite makeup for her loved one, and was finally shot to death. The eyes, emotions, and Gillian are very well in place, and the determination and sadness in the eyes make people unconsciously substitute. This drama made Gillian shortlisted for the Chinese Film Media Award for Best Supporting Actress.

She is no longer a little girl song that sings "Love is Bigger", she will sing about tough women in difficult circumstances, giving people strength and making people nirvana. The 32-year-old Gillian said: The older people are, the more life experience they have, the richer the things they will perform, and their speech and demeanor will be different.

Even if Gillian, who has endured so many storms, does she still believe in love when asked by a reporter?

She said she believed from beginning to end, even when there was no one behind her.

Her courage and self-confidence are admirable. At the age of 37, with the blessings of relatives and friends, under the purple flowers and dreamy lights, Gillian became a beautiful bride.

But just a year later, she freely returned to her single state.

In a variety show, her ex-husband once said that he once brought her food, and she turned the brine taste and said that there was no large intestine, and it was not a brine at all.

Xiao S next to him was surprised, why didn't he tell him directly that he needed to buy a large intestine.

Gillian replied, "Just to test whether he has observation." ”

She is no longer the little girl who would be accommodating and aggrieved before, and after going through the storm, she has clearly known what she really needs?

You no longer need to get recognition from other people's eyes, get understanding from other people's moods, see the behavior, and almost already know the result.

Such a gillian will not lose.

04 Next Jing Tian

Gillian's "nude photos door" incident is not only reminiscent of the Jing Tian incident.

Zhang Jike's gambling debts were exposed in turn, and after being on the hot search, the fuse finally led to Jing Tian, and a "private photo" of the big melon exploded.

Jing Tian's private photos were used by her ex-boyfriend to pay off gambling debts, and she was also threatened and intimidated by her creditor.

In the end, she chose to call the police and sent the threatened creditors to the bureau.

After the fermentation of the Zhang Jike incident, Jing Tian rarely appeared. But under the lens of the media, Jing Tian, who has never liked wearing sunglasses, put on a trench coat and sunglasses, covering up, and she is very dodging from the camera.

In the face of such a big sweet, netizens expressed great distress.

So, under Jing Tian's social platform, I saw a lot of warm comments.

One of the comments was: Jing Tian don't be afraid! Behind you stand thousands of women! All support you to protect you!

Not only girls, but also many excellent boys are silently supporting her.

When her intimate photos were leaked on the Internet, people with a curious mentality said to make a copy, and some boys would stand up and shout reprimands.

The public opinion environment is slowly getting better.

There will be no next Edison Chen, some are just Zhang Jike, who is waiting for trial!

The girl who said in front of the camera that she was silly and naïve will no longer be ridiculed and ridiculed by everyone, because our concepts are also slowly updating and slowly improving.

They don't need sympathy or fear ridicule, they need our praise, they are not wrong! And you won't lose! It will only bloom even more amazingly!