Not long ago, the world-renowned Paris Fashion Week opened hotly.
Unexpectedly, while earning enough eyeballs with the realistic version of "the emperor's new clothes", it also refreshed my generation's understanding of fashion.
Unexpectedly, the curtain ended before Paris Fashion Week, and the audience's nosebleeds have not yet dried.
The Oscar Vanity Fair party took turns to stage the fancy fashion routine of "blinding the eyes", and people couldn't help but exclaim that this was simply in the same vein.
Nowadays, there is no normal piece of clothing displayed by models on the catwalk at fashion events, and the reputation is poor in the international line.
Netizens complained:
"Who is this dress designed for?"
"Is it about people or clothes?"
"It felt a bit insulting"
"I feel disrespectful to women"...
What kind of clothes have caused netizens to be so restless?
01
The "emperor's new clothes" have broken through the bottom line of human nature.
"Big cousin" Liu Wen and He Cong, two supermodels, almost all rely on "showing flesh" when they walk the catwalk.
A so-called dress, the lower body is tightly wrapped, the upper body is almost completely exposed, it is impossible to see.
Due to the "cool" dress, the designer was ridiculed and boycotted by netizens, and even the two supermodels were implicated.
The eldest cousin also symbolically has two crossed strips of cloth on her chest, which is estimated that in addition to decoration, it is more for not showing points.
He Cong's is even more exaggerated, almost his upper body is completely exposed.
She only embellished her waist with fur, and in order to cover her shame, she had to cover the important part of her chest with her hands the whole time. If this is not careful, will it not be seen in front of everyone?
The catwalk dresses of the two supermodels were scolded on the hot search in China, and netizens questioned the model show: "Will anyone really wear it?" ”
It turns out that some people actually wear it like this.
At the Oscars party on March 13, actress Hunter Saffer wore a pure white feather long dress. I have to say that the hem of the dress is the same as that of the eldest cousin.
The difference is that Hunter Saffer's entire upper body has only one feather attached across his plump and round chest, and the feathers are not visible beyond it.
No wonder it will be joked by netizens about "a long skirt with a leaf", this comment is simply to the point.
Although the audience felt that this dress was outrageous, they couldn't help but be attracted by her high appearance and graceful figure.
In fact, she is a transgender American star who underwent sex reassignment surgery in high school.
In this way, with her personality, it is not difficult to understand why she would boldly try the "emperor's new clothes".
That being said, beauty does not mean good clothes. Shouldn't "beauty" be based on respect for women?
It is said that people rely on clothing, but how many people really approve of such dress?
The "flesh-exposed" models will only make the audience in the audience think, and the focus is on the model's "beautiful and delicious" figure.
No wonder netizens will speculate whether this "chest and breast" style is specially designed for men to see, suspected of deliberately creating "sexual gaze".
Fashion does not have to be dressed much less, even if you pursue art, you must be humane.
It gives people the feeling that these almost fully exposed models are not walking the catwalk, as if they are treated as commodities in the showroom, and are "thought of" by more people, what does this mean women as?
How many women in China dare to run on the street with their upper bodies naked and their hands covering their chests? Most of them will be scolded as "snake essence disease".
To put it bluntly, clothes are originally a fig leaf, "naked" like this, it loses its essence, and the most popular ones are probably only those lewd men.
And what is the concrete feeling of this embarrassing and uncomfortable "sexual gaze" for women?
02
"Sexual gaze" refers more to "male gaze".
It is that some men maliciously spy on women without knowing or reluctantly. It is a kind of "gaze" and "appreciation" beyond the normal range, and they will also make up all kinds of dirty thoughts in their brains.
When women are seen as sexual objects and forced to become objects for men to please, their own wishes are not respected at all.
This is a form of patriarchal centrality and the expression of desire, enjoying the pleasure of peeping at women through various media and channels. Under this asymmetrical perspective, women's lives are greatly harmed.
In the past, we were always secretive about the topic of "sex".
But now, driven by interests, those naked "sexual gazes" have long been above morality with desire, which is the most terrifying existence.
This gaze is especially successful in the entertainment industry, and many actresses have suffered great trauma physically and mentally.
For example, Yu Shuxin, who was on fire because of "Canglan Decision", recently a group of indecent photos directly rushed to the hot search.
In the photo, Yu Shuxin has black hair and half kneels on the ground, her eyes are confused, and a pink suspender with black silk is perfectly combined with the fur shawl on her body, showing her enchanting figure. On the side, the words "Night Beautiful Leisure Club" are impressively printed.
She has always taken the "small work" route, and she is really popular.
Subsequently, more indecent versions of photos were frequently released.
Looking at these photos, I really thought that Yu Shuxin was sitting on the stage.
But with her net worth and fame, it is logically impossible, and for the reason, careful netizens quickly found out the source of the picture.
After comparison, this set of photos is a photo book by Yu Shuxin, and the perpetrator used it as material after editing the picture, in order to seek personal gain.
In fact, as early as before the incident, Yu Shuxin's new set of photos was surprised by many fans, which is just a benefit given to fans by idou.
As the pictures spread everywhere, various offensive rumors, insults, and slanders followed, which had a great impact on Yu Shuxin herself.
"When the popular traffic flowers take such a revealing photo"
"Rub the edges, this... Is it suitable? Emoji pose, gee"
Yu Shuxin's studio immediately attracted attention and issued an article claiming that this group of photos was indeed a malicious P picture, which seriously violated Ms. Yu Shuxin's right to reputation and portrait. The producers were urged to remove it as soon as possible, and expressed their firm zero tolerance for infringement.
However, after the statement, various negative discussions about Yu Shuxin continued to emerge.
Some people criticized her for nothing more than wanting to please male fans, "shoot more, the album can sell, and submit resumes to men."
"Under the guise of freedom, rub the edges".
Others deviated from the topic and commented on her with "short and ugly fat".
With such a sharp personal attack, I am afraid that even the parties did not expect to cause a commotion because of a photo.
As everyone knows, the unwarranted "slut insult" is just to bring people to a dead end, and its harm can be imagined.
The list of such incidents is endless.
This also highly reflects the epitome of helplessness behind female stars in the rice circle, and how terrifying their daily phenomenon of being subjected to "sexual gaze" is.
In fact, whether this kind of despicable thing happens to public figures or ordinary people, we should resolutely resist and allow no one to slander and maliciously harm women, not to mention celebrities are also people!
03
In addition to male coagulation, the definition of female coagulation is not clear.
Nowadays, women no longer want to be tool people, and at the beginning of their birth, they only showed a sense of resistance, and then gradually transformed into women's feelings as the main object of service.
At present, more and more women are eager to show a strong personal attitude, but excessive amplification of personal wishes has become a disguised harassment of the victim.
Wu Qingfeng, the lead singer of Soda Green, publicly posted on New Year's Day that he was troubled by long-term tracking by female fans.
If you just follow as a star, you should be used to it, but what makes him most unbearable is that over the years, female fans have always sent some very inappropriate harassment messages, as well as erotic harassment such as photos and videos. This horrific act caused extreme distress to his work and life.
Recently, in addition to following Wu Qingfeng back and forth from Taipei and Taitung, the female fan from Hong Kong even followed him to his home.
In this regard, Wu Qingfeng said that he was very tired of this behavior, and every time he saw her appear in the performance, he would be very uncomfortable, and he publicly dissuaded the female fan: "Please don't come to the scene again."
Feeling that their privacy and dignity have been violated, some celebrities express their dissatisfaction and opposition by publicly speaking out and safeguarding their personal rights and interests.
It also makes more people aware that this kind of sexual harassment will have a certain negative impact on the mental health of celebrities.
Over the years, since setting off a sexy trend, various film and television programs are well versed in the unspoken rules of online topic discussion and ratings, playing on the sidelines and constantly breaking through large-scale gazes.
Han star Lee Di-hoon made a new drama promotion on the SBS radio program, and was publicly ridiculed by the female host Li Jingshi, which caused a large number of netizens to feel uncomfortable.
Just because the muscles in Li Dixun's new drama "Model Taxi 2" are too handsome and sexy, Li Jingshi actually said nothing about it:
"The water running down the chest and cleavage is mineral water."
"This is a new type of water discharger, Li Dixun brand water dispenser."
It is said that the heart is filthy, and everything you see is indecent.
As a public figure, you must be cautious in what you say and do in all occasions, for whatever purpose. She openly "eats tofu" on public platforms, is it too disrespectful.
Not to mention whether Li Dixun's wishes were ignored, netizens really could not bear this kind of remarks, and they accused Li Jingshi of blatant sexual harassment.
In the end, SBS removed the relevant content under the strong pressure of public opinion in order to calm the matter. Unexpectedly, Li Jingshi was still reported to the police by a more genuine audience on suspicion of violating the crime of "using communication media to commit adultery".
I believe that Li Jingshi has deeply experienced the serious consequences of disaster coming out of his mouth, and he must regret it very much, so he shouldn't be willful in the show.
04
When will these vulgar in the entertainment industry come to an end?
I don't know when this kind of low-level entertainment with filthy words has grown savagely, and is even poisoning our teenagers.
You know, the buzzwords of young people nowadays are even more jaw-dropping.
For example, many female fans see their favorite male stars and shamelessly say bluntly that "handsome legs can't fit" and "handsome enough to leak floods on the spot".
Male fans drooled with excitement when they saw the charming female star, and there were words in their mouths that "can't hold it", "I can play with these legs for a whole year", "Maybe it will evolve to 'good to see fissures' in the future".
Gagging, it's so disgusting, it's really spicy eyes.
Especially girls, who are not married yet, such a surprising language, do your parents know? Stop ruining the three views.
I can't imagine that people nowadays chasing stars are so heavy on taste.
Unfortunately, people do not feel that there is anything bad, adhering to the mentality of "I am not embarrassed, it is someone else who is embarrassed", not ashamed, but also proud.
This is enough to show that the cancer of "sexual gaze" has turned the rice circle into a miasma, and we must strictly resist making it disappear.
In order to eliminate these cancers, it is recommended to start at the following levels:
First of all, attach importance to personal sex education, and enhance the public's awareness of anti-sexual gaze by promoting healthy sexual concepts.
Develop an individual's identification, understanding, and respect for gender roles. It is also necessary to raise awareness of self-protection and let them know the dangers of sexual gaze and the consequences of sexual misconduct.
Parents should face up to the problem of sex education for their children and calmly guide their children to correct sexual concepts.
As public figures, celebrities must play a "head sheep effect" to correctly guide fans and spread positive energy, and those ugly bad interests will gradually disappear.
Second, establish a zero-tolerance policy. Strict rules and laws in the workplace and social settings to punish behaviors such as sexual gaze and sexual harassment.
On the one hand, it is legally restricted. Adopt legislation explicitly prohibiting sexual gaze and establishing appropriate penalties. It can also strengthen the investigation and handling of such cases to protect the legitimate rights and interests of victims.
On the other hand, it is constrained at the social level. All sectors of society can jointly create a social atmosphere that respects gender and opposes sexual gaze, and reports and exposes illegal acts.
[Conclusion]
Everyone should increase awareness of anti-gaze, learn to respect others, and not discriminate or gaze on the basis of gender. If such conduct is discovered, it should be stopped in a timely manner and reported to the police, so as to jointly maintain public order and fairness and justice in society.
I also ask the majority of keyboard warriors to show mercy here.
The Internet is not an illegal place, do not impose personal preferences on the pain of others, otherwise you will be severely punished by the law.
In short, we must form a strong joint force of the whole society to oppose "sexual gaze".
Only in this way can an equal, harmonious and healthy social environment be established.
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