Zhang Jike's matter has been fermented for several days, and the expected "collapse" contributed several waves of hot searches to April, but I didn't expect that it was the man who was clearly at fault, but in the end, it was the woman who had to suffer and suffer the trouble of public opinion - Jing Tian, who was innocently victimized.
Some felt that she urgently needed a PR response to why she took those photos and videos in order to get out, otherwise she would be nailed to the moral stain of unclean self-respect.
Some strange netizens even laughed at her "love brain", framed her with morality, and worried and ridiculed, "Who else will want her in the future?" ", while conjecturing and seeking the fragrance of photos and videos.
It is quite stunned, in the female dilemma of being entertained, the person who really caused the harm is always hidden, while the female lust is stigmatized.
As long as she is stained with lust, a woman will always be labeled as "bad character", and it seems that only by proving how she is forced, unwilling, and innocent can she be worthy of innocent status.
Like another form of witch hunting, the "chastity" shackles on a woman, which always affects her value as an individual. They are gazed at the body, but also at desire and morality.
Remembering Gillian and Cecilia Cheung, who were deeply trapped in the "leaked nude photos door" 15 years ago, are still ridiculed by netizens until today, but what is wrong with being leaked privacy?
Those who are at fault should be those who really cause harm and have bad intentions, such as those who have been stealthy, extorted money with bad intentions, and men who have circulated photos and videos and leaked them.
There has also been a popular understanding on social networks: those who publish private videos, especially those involving relationships between men and women, can be sentenced to up to life imprisonment.
Intimacy in love is commonplace, and self-certification is probably the last thing women need, but the traditional discipline of decency still makes many women choose to escape, apologize or settle down when faced with difficulties or reproach.
Therefore, I feel that Jing Tian's stubbornness in the Zhang Jike incident is even more rare. How brave she must have been when she was blackmailed and threatened by someone with a private video, and still took countless risks to choose to call the police.
She may have anticipated the day she was exposed, but instead of succumbing to the possible "slut shaming," she genuinely spoke up for herself.
Of course, in this incident, every girl who supported her was brave, unlike 15 years ago, they became smarter, more accepting and calm, and no longer ashamed of their "naked body".
Jing Tian did what she could, the gentle and unthorny girl in the eyes of everyone, finally chose to fight back in front of the trap, she released her sharpness, but this kind of counterattack also requires courage.
Calling the police and going to court means that there are no longer only a few people in the know-how, and she needs to face not only ordinary worldly eyes, but also the risk that her body may be exposed to the public.
She may have been timid, but in any case, Jing Tian, who was "brave", was a confirmation of the female spirit taking a step forward. Compared with the woman who was involved in the dispute 15 years ago, who is obviously innocent but needs to apologize for the development meeting, her boldness is impressive.
Giving girls more courageous voices is a real benefit to women in an environment.
And after observing for so many days, even if there are so many strange sounds on the Internet, the action of girls helping girls that a large number of girls choose to encourage Jing Tian on social media is a moving moment.
After the counterattack, Jing Tian was actually depressed for a while.
When she appeared on "Ace to Ace" in 2021, she talked about the trough of her life, which was the darkest period in 2019.
At that time, she had not filmed for nearly a year and a half, and she had been unable to walk out of the room for several days and nights, afraid to face the camera, and afraid that what she had encountered would be known by others, and the whole person was hollowed out.
The love and pain Jing Tian experienced, it is difficult for a woman not to empathize. She is the kind of person who loves and does not care about herself, and because of this, she loves boldly and hurts deeply.
She took Zhang Jike to meet her parents and prepare a marriage room, treating the other party as someone who wanted to spend the future together, but in the end she got the opposition of someone who was once close.
This may be something that can happen to every girl, but she is one step ahead and bravely takes a step forward.
Later, she reviewed "a certain relationship" on the show, and frankly admitted that she was too sure of her feelings at that time, and she took each other to meet her parents not long after falling in love, and the time spent with each other was short, and she didn't see any big problems.
But she still doesn't feel that it's wrong to be genuinely invested in her feelings, and many words after the breakup can also show that she doesn't want to live with grudges.
Jing Tian once had a nickname called "Rich and Precious Flower", Jing Tian's expectation of love is very pure, she said that she will not have reservations in love, vigorous is the nature.
Jing Tian has taken on big productions since his debut, and he has hardly suffered any setbacks along the way, and the whole person looks happy.
The screenwriter Bonnie Bonnie, who wrote "The Best Life of a Coquettish Woman", once commented that her acting skills were not good because she was too well protected, like a flower living in a glass cover.
But the protection of this vacuum was violently shattered in the love dream with Zhang Jike. Jing Tian, who rarely showed the harm of malicious attacks to her in the past, began to fall into a kind of self-doubt and denial. Can you imagine that even a woman with no shortage of identity, experience, and even resources will still be threatened, blamed, and even used as a tool for profit for no reason because of her identity and love experience.
Among the most commendable things about this terrible experience, she crossed the emotional gully, crossed the fear, and used the law as a weapon to protect herself.
In many interviews, Jing Tian mentioned "courage", in which she said, "If you encounter something that you can't let go, then at least have the courage to come out" and "I have learned to give myself courage."
Jing Tian has thanked the character of "Sito" more than once for inspiring herself, the kind of power that when others want to see her cry, the more she has to fight. The Sito in the play is a leprechaun, and both have similar experiences - being deceived by men with tricks. In the play, after betrayal and emotional hurt, Sito finally differentiated into another self - Bai Ying. Bai Ying is the embodiment of love, and Sito is ruthless.
Jing Tian plays Bai Ying, just like playing herself who is addicted to lies in the past, and when she looks at Bai Ying with the identity of Si Ten, sighing for her, she also uses the identity of a bystander to look at her past self.
Sito is strong, but she does not rely on coolness and revenge to show strength, her charm lies in her inner struggle and growth, she can not rely on anyone's salvation, she can get through the difficulties for herself.
After the drama was finished, Jing Tian sent a long farewell, saying that she didn't know if every girl had to go through such a suffocating period, but no matter what, in the end, the only one who could save herself was herself.
Jing Tian reconciled with herself in the role, and when she began to talk about the past in the show, I think she finally let go of her criticism of herself and learned how to dissolve the harm caused by the outside world.
What she remembers most is that when she talked about the most difficult time in the interview, in fact, the sad thing was not only the lawsuit, but also the parents who had been arguing since childhood finally decided to divorce her at the age of 30. Although sad, she also understood her unhappiness from her mother's point of view. Despite her confusion and sadness, she still believes in love to this day.
She is in love, or happily reveals that she wants to fall in love, longs for marriage and family, wants to give birth to a handsome boy, and takes it out to play in the future, what a thunderbolt.
Being able to choose a beautiful girl after suffering is another synonym for bravery.
She said in "Amazing Sister" that living is that there are many imperfections and mistakes that need to be tolerated, and only after trying to do so will it gradually become a good thing from a bad state.
One of the better things is that he once said that he would get married before the age of 35, but now he feels that although he is getting older, the opportunity to fall in love seems to be less and less, and he seems to know better what kind of partner he wants.
Jing Tian has indeed become more transparent than before. She could see from the gaps in her words that her thinking had become more, and after a great change, she did not fall, and the sweet sister also had the shadow of her sister.
The big heroine who grew up in the "erotic event" remembers Carina Liu.
In 2002, Hong Kong's East Weekly exposed the news of her abduction for three hours, as well as photos taken by the kidnappers. The impact on the cover hurt her greatly.
At that time, she ran away and was angry. But even though she stressed many times that nothing had happened except the money being robbed, everyone was still willing to guess what would happen to her in those 3 hours.
After a lot of silence, she felt that she should not hide, she wanted to let everyone know that "I am stronger than I thought".
She participated in activities organized by the Hong Kong Film Workers Association, and worked with artists to speak out for artists who had been smeared by bad media, and eventually, the magazine was discontinued, and another door in Carina Lau's life was slowly opening.
Years later, I recalled that this woman, who had regained her strength from the trough of her spirit, only talked about the past with a frank and relieved tone, and said freely: "I am very grateful for this now, and I have given me a very vivid lesson, so that I really grew up." ”
The strength of the girl is her boldness and courage. When the female body is used as a tool for profit and revenge, then the more appropriate way to fight back is not to ignore the self, but to stop examining itself.
Self-salvation is the most powerful force for every girl. And these courages will also provide more choice, safety and encouragement for girls in the same situation.