"Selling feelings" every year, rumors over the years, Leslie Cheung died for 21 years, how is Tang Hede's current situation?

In 1984, Leslie Cheung told on a show about his experience of breaking up with Tang Hede.

Crying while driving home

When he got home, he closed the door and continued to cry, and when he broke up this time, he smashed everything in the house except Tang Hede. At this time, Leslie Cheung did not know that this was not a real difference, and 21 years later, the two were forever separated, and Leslie Cheung would no longer know how much Tang Hede loved him.

The elegy sent by Tang Hede to Leslie Cheung reads: "The night is quiet, who resonates, Ah Zai, the sky is long and the time ends, and this love lasts forever."

In the 21 years since Leslie Cheung's death, Tang Hede has been repeatedly rumored to be a "new love", I don't know if this relationship can be maintained?

01 years of young first met, adult renewal

Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede both come from wealthy merchant families, and as playmates, they are just bamboo horses who play and play with each other, and before they can form a solid friendship, they go their separate ways as they grow.

Leslie Cheung hour

Leslie Cheung went to England to study, while Tang stayed in Hong Kong, the former studying textiles, the latter to prepare for a future job in banking.

The lives of the two slowly turned into disjoint parallel lines.

However, Leslie Cheung's life suddenly took a turn, and an accident brought him back to Hong Kong.

When he was a freshman, his family informed Leslie Cheung that his father had suffered a stroke due to excessive drinking. Without thinking, he chose to give up his studies in England and return home to take care of his father.

At the age of 20, under the persuasion of a friend, he participated in a singing contest held by Li TV Station, but he did not expect to achieve a good result in second place. Leslie Cheung signed a contract with the TV station and entered the entertainment industry by mistake.

At this time, Tang Hede became an executive of the bank according to the original life plan, and his business was excellent and well-known in Hong Kong.

There was a party at the Regent Hong Kong in 1982, hosted by Hong Kong celebrity Cheung Yuk-lin, Leslie Cheung participated as the godson of Mrs. Cheung, and Tang Hede, also a godson, also appeared at the hotel.

After many years, the two once immature children have now become excellent young people.

Leslie Cheung has a handsome face and a prominent temperament, while Tang Hede is also Sven elegant and personable. This reunion can be described as a "golden wind and jade dew meeting", and a great good feeling has developed between the two.

After the party, Tang Hede's speech and behavior lingered in Leslie Cheung's mind, so he held a party by himself and took the initiative to approach Tang Hede for renewal, and a passionate love began.

02 Bravely hold hands, strong love

At the beginning of their relationship, Leslie Cheung was not the bright star who sat on flowers and applause. He has not yet emerged in the entertainment industry, and his career has suffered setbacks. And Tang Hede's love can be said to be "charcoal in the snow".

Once Leslie Cheung urgently needed a sum of money, which in his eyes was "the most difficult period of his life". Without saying a word, Tang Hede gave him his salary for several months. Later, Leslie Cheung learned from others that after Tang Hede gave all the money to himself, it was difficult to even buy food for several months.

This sincere friendship deeply touched Leslie Cheung, and when he was asked in an interview why he liked Tang Hede, he only replied: "Because he is good." ”

However, this relationship faced a crisis in 1984, Tang Hede's family was very repulsive to this unworldly relationship, and Tang Hede was unable to resist the pressure of the Tang family for a while. And Leslie Cheung hoped that he could separate from the family with him, so he became very dissatisfied with him and took the initiative to break up.

In an interview, Leslie Cheung vaguely mentioned his state of mind at that time.

"I once tried that others liked me, so I devoted myself wholeheartedly to that love, even if I left the family, but unfortunately I hit the nails, others did not have my sincerity, I felt very unfair, but in fact, the so-called unfairness was caused by my childhood environment, I am not right, not wrong, but everyone's origin, the environment is different."

When they broke up this time, Leslie Cheung broke everything in the entire house except Tang Hede, listened to "Old Dreams Don't Need to Be Remembered" along the way, tears flowed, returned home and closed the door, continued to cry a mess, his mother cared about him, knocked on his door, comforted for a long time before calming down.

However, this relationship did not fade after the breakup. Once the host asked Leslie Cheung what characteristics a man should have in order to be favored by the opposite sex, Leslie Cheung replied: "I think the opposite sex prefers male Sven and is polite." "The adjective revolves around the characteristics of Tang Hede.

This breakup did not last long, the two had already got back together, and after this separation, the relationship between the two had a qualitative leap.

After getting back together, Leslie Cheung released an album called "Love for You", and when shooting the cover, he offered to use close-ups, specifically requesting to photograph the Cartier tricolor ring on his ring finger, which was actually a token of love given to him by Tang Hede after the two got back together.

The three golden colors of the ring represent three meanings: friendship, love, and loyalty.

This is exactly how the two define their relationship, and this album cover photo is Leslie Cheung's firm silent declaration of romance.

Since then, Leslie Cheung has often hinted at the existence of his lover Tang Hede in interviews, and once revealed that he would go to Canada for the New Year because he had a friend's family who immigrated to Canada.

Leslie Cheung talks about celebrating New Year in Canada with "friends"

This "friend" is none other than Tang Hede. His family immigrated to Canada, while he himself stayed in Hong Kong with Leslie Cheung, whose family had since accepted Leslie Cheung and got along.

In 1990, after Leslie Cheung's farewell concert to the music scene, the two traveled around the world for a month, taking a group photo in Canada's "Honeymoon Capital of the World", and they were still "honeymooning" after many years of love.

At a concert in 1997, Leslie Cheung proposed in front of an audience of 13,000 that he wanted to give the song "The Moon Represents My Heart" to "beloved friends".

In Hong Kong at that time, "good friend" also means "lover" in Cantonese, which can be said to be a moment to take the initiative to announce the relationship to the public.

In 2001, a paparazzi photographed him holding hands on the street with Tang Hede, and he just didn't look back and walked forward firmly, just like the firmness of this relationship, leaving a classic photo.

Although it does not conform to the mainstream of society, public opinion in Hong Kong has always been friendly to the two, and the beautiful love of two handsome and excellent people has been blessed by most people.

Leslie Cheung once commented on the relationship between the two: "In fact, with a person for more than ten years, whether you get married or not is just a good sound, I think I have married him!" ”

03 died suddenly, separated by yin and yang

April 1, 2003 was a painful day for Tang Hede, as well as for Leslie Cheung's fans.

Leslie Cheung jumped from a tall building in Hong Kong and committed suicide due to depression.

According to Leslie Cheung's sister, he was physically depressed due to acid reflux, not a relationship problem with Tang Hede.

"He and his partner have a good relationship, and he laughs everything else."

Tang Hede endured his grief and single-handedly handled his funeral as a lover, and the family of the Zhang family obituary was the first to clearly write Tang Hede's name, and the identity was: "beloved".

At the funeral, Tang Hede was so emaciated that he seemed to be ten years old, so sad that he needed someone to help him to stand up when he walked, and his gaze never left Leslie Cheung's portrait.

After the ceremony, Tang Hede compared the code gesture between the two to the last photo of his lover, and the code code represented: "I love you".

The two had been using the OK gesture as a code word

Leslie Cheung's niece held the microphone and said to him: "Uncle has always cherished his relationship with you. He said that you had borrowed a few months of salary to get him through the difficulties, and he will never forget that in the past year, not only me, but I believe everyone has also seen, what is true love, you do not abandon your uncle, take care of him day and night, I thank you on behalf of your uncle, your uncle is so happy to have you. ”

04 Scandals are endless

In today's materialistic world, it is too difficult to truly achieve "endless" love as Tang Hede said on the elegy, not to mention that he holds Leslie Cheung's huge inheritance and has quite an intersection with people in the entertainment industry.

Therefore, some media have always questioned whether his feelings for Leslie Cheung have been worn out by time after decades of yin and yang. The media has never stopped digging for Tang Hede's "new love".

Tang Hede's latest scandal is a "little fresh meat". A Shanghai blogger uploaded a photo of himself and Tang Hede, in which the two seemed very close. Someone dug up that this blogger is a rich second generation in Shanghai and is a local "celebrity".

Judging from the photo, the young man has a fair face, delicately groomed eyebrows, and a silver earring on each ear.

However, then Tang Hede implicitly refuted the rumor on his social account, a photo of the bright moon in the sky, with the text: The moon represents my heart.

"The Moon Represents My Heart" was once a song by Leslie Cheung announcing his love to the world, which means that his heart still belongs to his deceased lover.

With such beautiful and romantic memories, he gently countered the news on the Internet about his search for a new love.

In fact, the so-called "new love" photo is a photo left by Tang Hede with passers-by when he watched the Peking opera "Farewell My Concubine" and missed his lover.

Although most of the scandal targets found by the media ended in rumors, they still kept observing the interaction between Tang Hede and the people around him. After all, the aura of "superstar lover" on Tang Hede is too big.

It is said that after the news that Tang Hede was the lover of superstar Leslie Cheung broke, some people wanted to see what the superstar lover was like, and wanted to communicate on the grounds of asking him to do financial work. The threshold amount for Tang Hede's financial management work is 500,000 yuan, and many people are vying to spend this 500,000 to satisfy curiosity.

Tang Hede's aura of "not the dead" makes the media not relax for a moment, and the "new love" objects they find are men and women, old and young.

Hong Kong media once claimed to have taken photos of Tang Hede and his "little boyfriend" going out to play badminton together, and said that the "little boyfriend" looked like Leslie Cheung, described as "tender version of Leslie". The report described the "little boyfriend" as very nervous to help Tang Hede get into the car, and his movements were very careful.

In fact, this "tender version of Leslie" is the son of Leslie Cheung's driver Akang, Leslie Cheung and Akang have known each other for many years and are like relatives, and the son of the driver Akang is equivalent to a godson for Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede.

Leslie Cheung and Akang's son when he was a child

The nervousness and thoughtfulness of the "little boyfriend" in that report is actually just the respect of the younger generation for the elder.

Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung's niece, and Chow Yun-fat's ex-wife, have all been rumored to have had scandals because of the intimacy of the group photo.

Niece of Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung

Tang Hede and Chow Yun-fat's ex-wife

If you observe Tang Hede's relationship with others, you will find that Tang Hede's body movements when communicating with others are themselves more enthusiastic.

If regardless of men, women and children, as long as Tang Hede has some intimacy with his photos, he can become the object of scandal, Tang Hede's scandal objects can be said to be countless.

05 Overcome all difficulties, affectionate and unchanging

The scandals of the "new lovers" are not very credible. Because in fact, from his interactions with Leslie Cheung before his death, you can feel that they are serious and attach importance to each other's feelings.

People who were originally studying money but poured out their money, and the superstars in the entertainment industry, who are most easily affected by public opinion, generously admit homosexuals, and the love of these two people itself is tested across all difficulties.

Leslie Cheung once said, "The only thing I can be sure of in my life is the love of my lover." ”

Once a rare cold war moment between the two, a week without speaking has made Tang Hede unable to bear the initiative to compromise, and now more than twenty years have passed, and how persistent sadness he has to endure when he is separated from his lover. It's hard to fall in love, and it's even harder to stay together.

Tang Hede has never let go of his dead lover, and every important day he will definitely miss the past related to Leslie Cheung on social platforms. It is said that he has always lived in seclusion, and he has never appeared in Hong Kong bars.

In the years since Leslie Cheung left, Tang Hede has kept a low profile and never used his status as his "undead" to consume his lover's fame. How many celebrities in the world have been squeezed out of fame by relatives and friends to make money after death, but Leslie Cheung has achieved true cleanliness and decency after his death.

Leslie Cheung had wanted to announce their sweet love in front of the world so many times before his death, and now, Tang Hede has also conveyed his strong love to the world in another way.

As he said on social platforms: "Death and life are broad, and Zicheng said." Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son. ”

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