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Title: Before I Met You Director: Thea Sharoc Actor: Emilia Clark Sam Clafrin Jenna-Louis Coleman Charis Dans Duration: 110 minutes

The main line of the story is: Will has a traffic accident that paralyzes him from the chest down, the unemployed Clark happens to catch up with his house to recruit a nanny, and then the two people unexpectedly appear in the lives of both sides...

However, we can't see the sad place of the story, the ending of this film must be Will to die, the heroine has a new and most desired for her life under the influence of Will, this is the main line of the story, we should see the director's thinking about life from this film, thinking about how people should live!

The heroine's dress is a highlight, colorful, lively, and bold, as repeatedly emphasized in the lines, with great potential. The beige tights worn by the waiter, with a red apron, a black short skirt with orange flowers, a smile when doing the waiter, a patient, exaggerated expression, and her girlish braids are all indicating that the heroine is a happy person. Her boyfriend is full of sunshine and happy.

Will is a self-respecting person who used to love life, love sports, and be passionate about life, "I will cook tonight!" It shows that Will really loves life, after the car accident, he is a depressed person, immersed in his own successful past, but he has not lost the sense of humor he deserves, indicating that he has begun to slowly accept his life, the mind should think, react, think, judge. All this shows that he still loves his life and just doesn't come out of the past.

When Lu enters Will's castle, Lu looks around like a bunny coming outside for the first time. Will's mother asked a crucial question, "What exactly do you want to achieve in life, your career aspirations, or the ideal job you want to pursue?" Why should I hire you instead of the previous candidate, no, I really can't think of a reason why I hired you!" These words are actually a kind of budding enlightenment of Lu's lifestyle, and have planted seeds on her way to meet Will, waiting for the sun and rain, waiting for the germination! Change from the original living environment and lifestyle.

Will's room is dark, depressed, and Will's music is also very characteristic, giving people a feeling of no spirit, is the kind of music that is very energetic on the surface, but the spirit of the reputation. Will's funny appearance when he meets Lu can confirm Will's liking for Lu, but he has not yet found a suitable way to express his liking to her. Lu's unadorned expression makes people feel good. The reason why Will's affection for Lu is later expressed to Lu with an idiotic look, Will does not dare to express his good feelings to Lu, afraid of Lu's refusal (we can read it from the last letter), because his self-esteem is too strong, and Will therefore uses the reaction of his mind to express his sense of superiority. When Will's ex-girlfriend comes to see Will, Will's helplessness and unwillingness to accept reality express Will's resistance to his fate, but the pain of failure again and again, until he loses his lover, at that time he must still love his ex-girlfriend. Her current situation and her own self-esteem made her give up, when Dew repaired the frame of the photo for Will, Lu scolded Will, and Will did not refute it, and then when Will let her come in to watch the movie together, it showed that Will had begun to accept Dew, Lu scolded Will to show that Lu is not treating Will as a disabled person, but a normal person, this is the warmth that Will has been longing for and did not get, in fact, when Will did not get this respect, his concept of death is, He felt like he was dead now. From Lu and Will's conversation "What do you do?" I didn't do anything, I just sat like that" and died there was no difference. This is a collision of two people's attitudes towards life. And the collision of values when two people watch the movie further enhances the friendship of the two people, after watching the movie, two people walk in the garden, breathe fresh air, one person changes the other, one person is willing to change for the other person. From the movie to understand the living habits of both sides, this is the recognition of the companion, but also into the hearts of both sides of the external performance, and then the girl to cook for him to eat, shave, two people to participate in concerts, watch horse racing, these are a world-weary person for each other to change the positive performance, knowing that the last two people to participate in the ex-girlfriend's wedding, the feelings of the two people have begun to slowly rise from friendship to love, and this is also the real reason for the death of firm Will, "I can't look at your naked body ..." Final explanation at the end. Then Lu wants to make changes to Will through travel, but Lu is changed by Will, and Will is also changed by Will. So Will chose death in the hope that Luy could have a better future.

This film does not want to express the theme of dying for love, but expresses the improvement of quality of life and the pursuit of a better life, and to live boldly, to live meaningfully, rather than slowly waiting for death.