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To say that after the broadcast of "Brother with Thorns and Thorns", the brothers who have absorbed the most fans must mention Lee Seung-hyun.
Many netizens first knew Lee Seung-hyun because of his identity as Qi Wei's husband.
However, after the lee seung-hyun stage broadcast this time, many people commented that they finally felt Qi Wei's happiness.
After Qi Wei saw this comment, she also openly showed her love and replied to the netizens: "My happiness, not only this." ”
However, in the envy of netizens, there are some different voices -
"Didn't they get together after a two-way infidelity?"
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Such a statement has actually been circulating on the Internet for a long time. Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei met because in 2012, they collaborated on a TV series "The Other Me in the World".
Because both of them had objects at the time, the news slowly came out later.
Qi Wei's gossip object at that time was called Lin Zijun, and she was a girl. Lin Zijun and Qi Wei often interact on social platforms, and even her license plate number is 7V.
Later, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun had a scandal, and Lin Zijun once published a sentimental dynamic on social platforms.
And Lee Seung-hyun's girlfriend at the time was Ahn Yi-hyun, and the two of them also had an affair because of the drama.
It is said that when collaborating on "Marriage Rhapsody", Ahn Yi-hyun once fell ill, and it was Lee Seung-hyun who took good care of her and cooked her porridge to nourish her stomach.
In this way, the relationship between the two slowly warmed up from colleagues to lovers.
Although An Yixuan has not publicly acknowledged the relationship between the two, from the various paparazzi photos, the two are indeed boyfriend and girlfriend.
However, in April 2013, taiwan media exposed the news that Lee Seung-hyun and Ahn Yixuan had broken up. And the rumors about Lee Seung-hyun splitting his legs and falling in love with Qi Wei have also intensified.
He also had to come out and clarify the matter.
In the long article, Lee Seung-hyun admitted to having a two-year relationship with Ahn Yi-hyun, but the two broke up on November 14 because of personality incompatibility.
Judging from An Yixuan's dynamics on social platforms, she did not start publishing various content with lost love since November.
And the first public interaction between Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei, which is somewhat ambiguous, was at least what happened in December.
At that time, Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei cooperated in an MV, the scale is relatively large, Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei hugged, his single shot replaced by the head of the social platform.
In January 2013, he forwarded Qi Wei's MV on his social platform, and the content was indeed a bit ambiguous.
In July of the same year, another media exposed photos of Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei holding hands in Thailand.
Judging from the status of the two people's social platforms and Qi Wei's long-sleeved clothing, the actual shooting time of this photo should indeed be in March and April.
From the information they revealed when they were on the show, it can also be roughly introduced when they officially established the relationship.
For example, when they were on a variety show together, the program group introduced the two to 8 months of marriage and love for one and a half years.
The show was recorded in April 2015, eight months backwards, just when Lee Seung-hyun proposed in August 2014.
From this time, and a year and a half back, it can be basically speculated that the relationship between the two may be in February 2013.
At that time, almost three months had passed since Lee Seung-hyun and Ahn Yi-hyun broke up.
Therefore, there has been no actual evidence that Lee Seung-hyun has cheated in this relationship.
It can only be said that the speed at which he walked out of the relationship was indeed much faster than An Yixuan.
But this is also a common human feeling.
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The reason why An Yixuan is difficult to get out of the relationship is also because he has obviously invested a lot in this relationship with Lee Seung-hyun.
At that time, Lee Seung-hyun was actually even less famous than now. But An Yixuan is different, she has already become a first-line actress at that time with works such as "The Legend of the Paladin Sword" and "Fighting Fish".
In the two years that the two were in love, Ahn Yixuan has been working hard to milk Lee Seung-hyun and feed him resources.
She only brought Lee Seung-hyun into her company, Huayi, and shared an agent with him.
Ahn Yi-hyun acted in a TV series, Lee Seung-hyun is the second man, and even his sister can sing the ending song with Shan Guang.
There have also been rumors that Ahn Yi-hyun did not hesitate to reduce his salary to negotiate in order to let Lee Seung-hyun win the male second.
The resources are fed so much, and all kinds of canvassing publicity are naturally indispensable. Lee Seung-hyun's sister sent a song, and Lee Seung-hyun forwarded it, and she followed suit.
In November 2012, Lee Seung-hyun released a new song, and Ahn Yi-hyun is still helping to promote it.
At that time, she probably didn't expect that the two would break up after more than ten days.
It may be precisely because the two do not pay equally for this relationship, so their mentality after the breakup is also completely different.
As a party that invests more, and is also suspected of being green, An Yixuan, who has not been in a good mood for a long time, often sends some sentimental words on social platforms, which can be seen to be very hurt.
But Lee Seung-hyun quickly walked out of this haze and threw himself into a new relationship.
As a spectator, it is difficult to evaluate whether such behavior is wrong, but from An Yixuan's point of view, it is indeed a bit chilling.
In particular, Lee Seung-hyun is still a little secretive in the small essay, pushing the pot he was scolded into An Yixuan, accusing her of not involving Qi Wei.
And An Yixuan also came out to respond to this matter - "Once paid, no regrets, now, there is no right or wrong in the feelings, as long as it is worthy of their conscience." ”
In this way, the relationship between the two finally ended in a not-so-good farce.
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Wasn't the same about the relationship between Ma Sichun and Ou Hao. Ma Sichun's immersion in this relationship is far greater than that of Ou Hao. At that time, Ma Sichun wrote when he helped Ouhao promote the new movie that July was Ouhao's.
On the one hand, it is to wish Ouhao a number of movies released in July to be able to sell well at the box office, but on the other hand, it is also a confession: he is Ouhao's. In the face of such a warm confession, OuHao's reaction was somewhat cold- "Ouhao is his own, and he is the one who likes me." ”
In this way, the two of them finally parted ways. There are too many facts that prove that only unilateral payment, love that has never been responded to, is still too difficult to get out of a perfect ending.
A large part of the reason why Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei can be together for such a long time is that they are both willing to pay a lot for this relationship.
Even if Qi Wei has repeatedly chosen to deny the relationship, Lee Seung-hyun will show his love on various occasions.
He will wear a couple ring with Qi Wei in the variety show, pose a "7V" gesture on the stage, and mention Qi Wei many times on social platforms.
Now after the two get married and have children, Lee Seung-hyun basically gave up his career and stayed at home to take care of his daughter Lucky.
In his opinion, since Qi Wei sacrificed the golden age of his career and gave birth to this child, he should also let Qi Wei have time to chase her dreams after giving birth.
In the process of being a full-time nursing father, Lee Seung-hyun will also feel that his value is not realized, fall into depression, and even want to go to the doctor for a while.
But he slowly accepted the matter and began to understand the difficulty of staying at home.
And now, the children are gradually growing up, Lee Seung-hyun can also go on some variety shows with the help of Qi Wei, and it is estimated that it is not impossible to come back to filming after that.
Will fire conclusion -
As An Yixuan said, feelings are indeed complex, and it is difficult for us to distinguish between right and wrong.
Of course, it is not wrong to invest too much, so is it not wrong to choose to break up without loving?
The reality is that Lee Seung-hyun is not unable to love people, nor is he unable to give, but Ahn Yixuan is not the person in his mind.
It can only be said that the maintenance of a relationship is really not a simple thing.
No matter how perfect people are, they have weaknesses, and after paying unilaterally for a long time, even in the face of the people you love, they will feel a little hard and tired.
Therefore, the last thing you should do in the face of feelings is to wrongfully aggrieved yourself without return, to sacrifice and pay for others.
This will not make you intimate, but may be a catalyst for opposing each other.
Feelings, really not touching yourself on the line.