From pregnancy to childbirth, to the care of the baby after birth, this period is extremely hard for mothers. The discomfort of pregnancy, the pain of childbirth, the crying of your baby... Every stage tests the patience and perseverance of mothers. But when you see your baby, his little hands and feet, and his immature face, all the exhaustion disappears. You'll feel that it's all worth it. The advent of this little life makes you feel happy and satisfied, and makes you understand the greatness and selflessness of maternal love. Although the road to parenting is full of challenges and trials, we don't have to be afraid because we have love and courage.
Personal experience from Tangyuan Mama fans:
After getting married, my husband and I welcomed our baby very quickly. The whole family was happy, and my husband quit my job because of this little baby. Although it made me uncomfortable, I managed to quit anyway.
After that, my husband and I went to the antenatal check-up together, and each time it went smoothly until we reached the fifth month. At that time, the doctor told us that our baby was more than a week younger than the rest of the normal cycle, prescribed more than 2,000 nutraceuticals, and asked me to go home and eat on time. And after my mother-in-law also knew about this situation, she also turned into a pattern to cook something for me to eat every day.
When I got to the due date, I went to the prenatal examination, and the doctor told me that I saw red or broke the water again, and I should do more activities recently and don't go out. However, when we passed our due date, I still did not respond, so I was very anxious. But every time I went to the hospital, I would just tell us to go home and wait.
After a long time, I really began to be anxious, strongly requested to be hospitalized for delivery, and then when the doctor gave us a booster oxytocin, I finally reacted, entered the delivery room, and gave birth to my baby after nine deaths. However, immediately after the baby was born, I noticed something was wrong.
I noticed that my baby was bruised and not in good spirits, unlike other children I had known. I quickly called the doctor, but the doctor told me that obstetrics and gynecology are separate from pediatrics, and they only care about delivering babies for you, and they don't care what happens to you.
I didn't want to talk to them and transferred the child directly to the pediatrics. After entering the pediatrics, the doctor asked him to do a series of examinations, saying that the baby had inhaled cloudy amniotic fluid, the situation was quite complicated, and he lived in an incubator first. My mother-in-law panicked when she heard this, and sat on the ground crying sadly.
After that, I spent three days in the hospital, was discharged, and finally went to the pediatric department to take care of my little baby. Every time the doctor came to the ward rounds, there was talk and laughter, but I kept wanting to cry. However, every time the doctor saw the baby, he said to observe again. In the end, my family and I endured for almost a month, and when we returned to normal, we were finally discharged from the hospital.
This experience has strengthened my faith because we face endless pressures and difficulties, and we can rely on our faith and strong will to overcome these problems. If we have these, then we can naturally become stronger and more powerful.
Finally, Tangyuan's mother wants to say that as a pregnant mother or the first child, she is inexperienced and must be calm when encountering problems, so today Tangyuan's mother wants to share with you some matters about pregnant mothers giving birth during pregnancy, please read it carefully!
First of all, I want to emphasize that pregnant mothers should maintain a good attitude. Mood swings during pregnancy are very normal, but we need to learn to control our emotions and avoid excessive anxiety and depression. This is not only good for the physical health of the pregnant mother, but also conducive to the healthy development of the fetus.
Second, pregnant mothers should carefully follow the doctor's advice. Doctors are professional and they know more about the pregnant woman and fetus. If the doctor advises pregnant mothers to be more active, they should walk more and do more appropriate exercise; If the doctor recommends that pregnant mothers eat more nutrients, they should take them on time and in the right amount.
In addition, pregnant mothers should also be fully prepared before giving birth. You can take some courses for pregnant mothers to learn some prenatal knowledge, such as the process of childbirth, how to breathe, and so on. This allows pregnant mothers to face the process of childbirth more calmly.
Finally, I would like to remind that not everything ends perfectly. After the birth of a child, more meticulous care is required. For example, pay attention to the baby's sleeping position and do not let the baby sleep face down; The baby's bath should also pay attention to the water temperature and the choice of toiletries.
In short, pregnancy and the postpartum period are difficult times that require the joint efforts of the pregnant mother and the whole family. Let's work together for the health of the baby! I am Tangyuan mother, if you like my article, please like it at the end of the article!