As everyone knows! As girls get older, they will also have their first menstruation, which is a very mysterious and somewhat frightening thing for girls. However, due to the busy work of many parents, they may not be able to guide their children to understand this knowledge in time, which requires us to pay more attention to the education and guidance of our children. So many children will feel scared and even do not know how to solve this situation.
Qiao Ling is 11 years old this year, still a cute little girl, not long ago when she jumped rope in the community, she was suddenly ridiculed by her friends, only to find that there was red blood on her pants, at this time Qiao Ling was simply frightened, she didn't know what was wrong with her. For an 11-year-old girl, it is indeed very scary to encounter this kind of thing, and everyone should be able to understand Qiaoling's feelings.
Qiao Ling was nervous and overwhelmed for a while, with the laughter of the little boys she had to run home to hide, and Qiao Ling's parents are office workers, parents are not at home, Qiao Ling had to start changing her pants, where will the children have any emergency measures, they have to wipe it clean with toilet paper. After wiping, she changed a pair of pants, but after a while she found that the pants were red again, so she changed 5 pairs of pants in a row, still did not solve the problem, Qiao Ling was so frightened that she thought she was sick and about to die, hiding in the corner of the room and crying all the time. When I picked up the phone, I called my grandmother and told her that my lower body had been bleeding non-stop and that I felt like I was going to die. Grandma cried in fright after hearing this, but because Grandma was in the country, she had to call her daughter-in-law and son to go home quickly to see that something had happened to the child.
When Qiaoling's parents heard the news, they immediately put aside their work and rushed home, and when they came back, they found that the child was crying a lot, and his pants were full of blood, and the toilet was also stained red with toilet paper after cleaning. Dad cried after reading it, after all, it is his intimate little padded jacket, in fact, Dad and Mom knew for the first time that their daughter was menstruating, and she didn't know.
Qiaoling's mother quickly brought hot water to her daughter, and the father held his daughter and comforted him, don't be afraid, dad protects you. After speaking, he took a piece of paper and pen and drew it for his daughter. The father told his daughter, "Look, there is a tree in my mother's belly, and there are some apples on the tree, and these apples grow slowly, and because they are too heavy, they will eventually fall off the branches, and if they fall to the ground, they will fall into pieces, and the red apple skin will look very conspicuous." Then the mother goes out to jump rope and exercise, and these red apple peels will flow out like drainage, which is actually menstruation. And you and your mother are the same, you are all girls, so you also have a small apple tree in your belly, and it will be like your mother, and apple trees sometimes get sick, so as long as you feel that the apple tree in your stomach is sick, you must tell your parents as soon as possible, we will help you, but this is a little secret, don't tell the little boys Oh, because they don't have an apple tree in their stomach, they will be curious! “
Qiao Ling suddenly opened her mouth after listening to her father's words, it turned out to be like this, it scared me to death, I thought I was about to die. Qiao Ling became active all of a sudden, regained her previous cheerfulness, and suddenly stopped being afraid. After listening to it, my mother also gave her husband a big praise! Therefore, in the view of Tangyuan's mother, parents are the best teachers for children, if your family has a daughter, you can also be like Qiaoling's father, through drawing to guide children to improve cognition.
So, in the face of a girl's first menstruation, what should we do as parents? Tangyuan mother will teach everyone to deal with it correctly in 4 aspects.
First, parents need to provide enough information for girls. Let girls understand what menstruation is, why it comes, and how to deal with it. This information should include the physiological and psychological changes of menstruation, how to choose the right hygiene products, how to maintain hygiene, and what to look out for during menstruation. This information can be obtained through books, online, or by consulting a doctor.
Second, parents need to give girls enough time and space to adapt to the new changes. When girls first have their period, they may feel shy, uneasy or embarrassed. Parents need to understand how girls feel and not talk about the topic in public so as not to make girls feel uncomfortable. At the same time, parents also need to provide enough time and space for girls to adapt to the new changes and slowly adapt to the physical and emotional changes brought about by menstruation.
Third, parents need to be open and supportive. Girls may experience many things that do not go well during menstruation, such as pain, discomfort, mood swings, and so on. Parents need to give girls enough attention and support to provide help and comfort when they need it. At the same time, parents need to be open to letting girls know that they can always talk to them and ask for help.
Finally, parents need to set up the right mindset for girls. Menstruation is a normal physiological phenomenon for women and should not be seen as a shame or unseemly thing. Parents need to let girls know that their bodies are worthy of respect and value, and that hygiene products and health care measures needed during menstruation are normal and necessary.
In fact, in daily life, I believe you have also seen this situation, some girls unknowingly menstruate, but they don't know, so it will be very embarrassing on the street. Once I encountered this situation on a show, a 20-year-old boy met a passing girl who came to menstruate and dyed his pants, immediately took off his coat to wrap the girl's pants, and also helped the girl buy sanitary napkins, which seemed very warm. Although some people come to help, there are also people who snicker at girls when they pass by, so this also reflects a serious problem from the side, if the girl comes to menstruation without knowing it and walks on the street, it's good to meet kind people, if you meet bad people then the consequences are unimaginable, so as parents we should tell our children about the relevant physiological knowledge in advance, so as to help them smoothly through every stage of growth.
In short, a girl's first menstruation is a very important time, and parents need to give enough attention and support to help girls get through this stage. Parents need to provide enough information to give girls time and space to adapt to new changes, stay open and supportive, and set the right attitudes. In this way, girls can go through puberty more confidently and healthily. Practices like Qiaoling's father are very good, and even Tangyuan's mother can't help but like him in her heart! This is a very smart and heartwarming good dad!