Pregnancy is originally a happy event, why can't I tell others about the first 3 months of pregnancy? Let's take a look at what this is based on. After many expectant mothers become pregnant, they often hear the mother-in-law or the elderly of the grandmother's generation say: "You can't tell others within three months of pregnancy, the baby will be stingy and easy to flow." "Because the third trimester of pregnancy is an unstable period, during this period, the pregnant mother's physiology and psychology have undergone great changes, and if the body and psychology cannot be coordinated accordingly, miscarriage is prone to occur. Therefore, there are many people who are reluctant to tell others in the first 3 months, and when they are stable, they are telling everyone, lest everyone be happy and empty.
Especially in the entertainment industry, this statement is even more obvious, every pregnant actress only announces the news of her pregnancy after three months! In "Kangxi is Coming", Xiao S once said that she had always denied that there was a baby, because the old people said that they could not tell everyone in the first three months of pregnancy, otherwise the baby would be unhappy, the baby would blame the mother, and then left by herself, she said that she was afraid that she would have a miscarriage so she did not tell the media and the audience. Is 3 months pregnant really a "secret that can't be told"?
Why is it easy to miscarry in the third trimester of pregnancy?
In fact, this statement is more popular in Taiwan and Hong Kong, but not many people believe in the mainland. The reason why the first trimester of pregnancy is not said is for several reasons:
1. Fear of upsetting your baby.
2. In the first trimester, the fetus is still unstable, and if it is unfortunately miscarried, it is really troublesome to explain it to many people at that time, and it may make others laugh.
3. Worry that someone is jealous and cursed behind their backs (instantly remembering the palace fighting drama, Yuki has).
4. Don't want too many people to visit, so as not to affect the pregnant mother's rest.
Therefore, it is not difficult to see that there is no scientific basis for this statement. Moreover, after detecting pregnancy, it is still necessary to tell the following 3 types of people.
1. Your boss
After many pregnant mothers are pregnant, they have been struggling with whether to tell the boss about this matter, after all, this situation in China is quite difficult to find a job. If the pregnant mother's fetus is relatively stable, you can tell the boss after the pregnancy is more obvious. If the pregnant mother's fetus is unstable, then tell the boss as soon as possible and let him reduce the workload for you, after all, no matter how expensive the work is, there is no child expensive, and it is too late to have an accident. If your leader is more tolerant of you, that's great, and if your boss is more harsh on you, then you have to think for yourself about the trade-off between children and work.
2. Own family
Children are the crystallization of love between husband and wife. After many women become pregnant, the first person they want to share is their husband. After all, he is the father of the child, and this good news should be shared with him as soon as possible. Then will tell their family, after all, pregnancy is a happy thing, should let the elders in the family know, and if you are pregnant for the first time, many expectant mothers are inexperienced, there are many precautions in life, and they do not particularly understand. If you tell the family, the family can not only take care of the mother-to-be's daily life, but also give some guidance to the elders in the family for some things that need to be paid attention to during pregnancy.
3. Doctors
After the pregnant mother detects her pregnancy through pregnancy tests and other means, the first thing is to go to the hospital for diagnosis, and then need to go to the hospital for fetal heart rate testing at 60 days of pregnancy to confirm whether she has embryo arrest and other phenomena. Since then, he has to go to the hospital for several prenatal examinations every month, and it can be said that the doctor grasps the physiological health of the pregnant mother and fetus, and also uses various medical methods to protect the pregnant mother and fetus.
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