Many people know that among female stars, my favorite is Faye Wong.
It's not just her good singing, but more importantly, the rare qualities in her, her people move me more than her songs.
However, every time I post an article about her, the comments in the background are hot and cold, love is true love, hate is real hate.
A few days ago, the photo of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse holding hands rushed to the hot search in minutes, and attracted countless comments.
Some people say that they let me see the beautiful look of love, going around in circles for more than 20 years, and the people I love the most are still each other.
Of course, there are many people who do not like Faye Wong. People who hate her, there are no more than three reasons.
1. Not making do with marriage
Faye Wong has been divorced twice, the first time with Dou Wei.
Although the current Dou Wei looks no different from the Beijing uncle, it was a mess back then, and the woman's relationship was also excellent.
When Faye Wong and Dou Wei first got married, they lived in a bungalow in a hutong in Beijing, and they were once photographed going to the public toilet to pour spittoons, and she must have loved Dou Wei very much at that time.
A pair of musical geniuses who were originally very well matched were separated, and the reason is clear to everyone, so I won't go into details.
Faye Wong's second marriage was with Li Yapeng.
The two also had a lot of sweet years, and although their Weibo was emptied, I vaguely remember the naughty photos Faye Wong had sent, which had a taste of gambling books and pouring tea.
Unfortunately, they were not people all the way after all, and they were separated in the end.
In people's traditional concepts, whether the marriage is good or bad, as long as it can go to the end, it is a good marriage, and how many people are trapped in a makeshift marriage all their lives.
For example, the Aunt Su Min, who has become popular in the past two years, traveled all the way south from Zhengzhou to self-drive and posted the video online, attracting many onlookers.
Behind her departure is nearly thirty years of sexless and loveless marriage.
More than two years later, she is still on the road, has changed into a new RV, and lives more and more dashingly.
In the middle of the autumn last year, she went home, her husband still spoke coldly to her, and the whole Internet was persuading her to leave, but so far she has not divorced.
In real life, how many such couples are together and take into their own lives, is this really complete?
Faye Wong's two marriages, she is very attentive to management, can not go, she will turn neatly, will never be in a loveless marriage.
Shen Yifei of Fudan University said: In the past, we always felt that the most beautiful love was to grow old together, but I accompanied you through a period of love, and then we said goodbye, although there was pain in the middle, but we each grew into a better version of ourselves, and it was also a happy ending.
2. Not responsible for children
Some people say that Faye Wong is too selfish to give her children a complete home and is not a good mother.
I really don't see that.
Her two daughters, Dou Jingtong and Li Yan, are very cheerful, generous and confident, if she is an irresponsible mother, how can her daughter's personality be so sunny?
A few years ago, Faye Wong held a concert, and the chorus between her and her daughter Dou Jingtong, the interaction between mother and daughter was full of love.
And when Faye Wong participated in Mango TV's "City of Phantom Music" program, Dou Jingtong and Mai Zi sang together, so that Faye Wong commented, Faye Wong was just like an excited child at that time, constantly praising Dou Jingtong and her partner, He Jiong couldn't help but remind her to calm down.
Faye Wong said, I am very calm, and I am also very objective.
Netizen message: I really envy such a mother-daughter relationship, and I envy Tong Tong for having such a mother.
Don't look at Dou Jingtong's unruly appearance, but she has a warm and kind heart, and people who have dealt with her all praise her for being sensible.
Many netizens said that Faye Wong was a good tutor.
The youngest daughter, Li Yan, has been generous since she was a child, auctioning paintings at the age of 11 and going to Paris to walk the catwalk.
Many people think that no matter how bad the relationship between husband and wife is, they must endure it for their children, and this idea is not unreasonable, after all, many children of single-parent families have a history of blood and tears.
The "big reunion" in people's minds is that the family is "neatly" together, and it doesn't matter what it looks like inside.
I have a cousin, my mother's distant cousin, who lives in the countryside and has not gone to school for a few days, because the conditions at home are still good, and her parents have found a private teacher for her at that time, but the two are not people in the same world at all, and the relationship is very bad.
Later, the teacher was admitted to the establishment and resolutely filed for divorce.
My cousin didn't agree to live or die, and I sued his leaders at every level, and there was a uproar for a while, and finally, the leaders of the school came forward to mediate, let them endure for the sake of the two children, and the marriage was saved.
However, such a couple lives a life, it is not even a matter of making do, it is to torture each other, quarrels are daily, and hands-on is commonplace.
Both children have depressed personalities and little smile on their faces.
My cousin's daughter-in-law left after more than a year of marriage, saying that she would never marry again.
The son is in his thirties and has no girlfriend, and he does not want to find it, saying that he is tired of seeing his parents arguing for so many years, and it is good to be single.
I remember when my mother was alive, my cousin came to visit my house and said, it was better to leave at that time, it was really not interesting to live a life like this, I thought it was for the children, but the children did not appreciate it at all.
Yes, two people who grit their teeth together, is it really good for children?
Third, only love and do not get married
One of the reasons why Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse have been criticized is that they have been together for so many years and have not married and had children according to secular standards.
Their story began in 2000.
That year, Faye Wong was 31 years old and Nicholas Tse was 20 years old, and the photo of them holding hands for the first time was exposed, and their eyes were shining, which was the unique light of love.
However, the young and frivolous Nicholas Tse did not know how to cherish this relationship, he and Cecilia Cheung were also very close, and soon Nicholas Tse announced to the media that he had broken up with Faye Wong.
Everyone knows what happened later, Faye Wong married Li Yapeng, and Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung were also married. Then, they also had children of their own, and I thought that their relationship would turn over like this.
But unexpectedly, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse divorced one after another, followed by a century of great reunion!
Counting up, it has been almost nine years since they were together for the second time, and the relationship between the two has become confusing, and the news of the breakup will come out every three to five, and then there will be various evidence that the two are fine.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: When two people don't have to get married for the sake of getting married, then the love will be more beautiful.
That's them.
They have been separated, each honed in their own lives, each growing up, and understanding that that piece of paper cannot bind love.
They prefer to live in the moment, cherish the scene in their eyes, the food in the bowl, and the people around them.
Someone once said that Faye Wong just offended your makeshift life. This must be her true love fan.
Of course, there are not many people who black her, and the words of scolding are also very difficult to hear.
However, writing here, I suddenly felt that I was blindly worried, Faye Wong didn't care who hated her, if she paid attention to these, then she was not Faye Wong.