The TV series "Happiness on the Road" is adapted from "A Rape Case Twenty Years Ago", Li Li is gentle, beautiful, intellectual, and is the dream lover of many men. Unfortunately, one night, Li Li was ruined by the bad guys, and her good reputation plummeted. Under the care of her husband Liu Dong, that night and scar twenty years ago gradually smoothed out in her heart.
I thought it was an honor for Li Li to meet the tolerant and kind Liu Dong. After reading the original work, I knew that although Li Li had lost her virginity, the pride in her bones was still so invincible. Twenty years ago, she was ruined by someone, but the person who really suffered was not Li Li, but Liu Dong, who loved her deeply. In her marriage to Liu Dong, she seems innocent, but in fact, she is the most ruthless.
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Li Li is a nurse in the hospital, because of her outstanding appearance, she has become the focus of others' attention everywhere she goes. Her family is well-off, coupled with the advantages of appearance, and she has pride in her bones. Those dedicated men could not get into her eyes. For example, Liu Dong, who has a crush on her, has written love letters to express his love to her many times, and she has read the letter and triumphantly pulled the corners of her mouth, and then returned the letter unchanged.
Li Li likes the feeling of being praised, but liking to be praised and the person who likes to praise her are two different things. Liu Dong liked her, but she never looked at him with a straight eye. Although he is a doctor, he is from the countryside and looks average, so he really has no advantages in getting his hands on it.
Soon, Li Li met her sweetheart Ma Gang. His family is better than hers, people are also handsome and emotional, she thinks that Ma Gang is the most suitable person for herself, marrying him not only brings him out with face, Ma Gang's family background is stronger than hers, and she will eat and drink more in the future.
Li Li and Ma Gang went from acquaintance to love, but it was only a few days of kung fu. If that hadn't happened, there's a good chance they'll be husband and wife.
That night, Ma Gang and Li Li were dating in the woods, but no one expected that three young men suddenly appeared on the side of the road, and they tied Up Ma Gang, pulled Li Li into the woods, and ruined her innocence.
Li Li couldn't accept such a thing, she thought that only Ma Gang knew about that incident, and only Ma Gang could soothe the trauma in her heart, but since that incident, Ma Gang had never appeared again. She took the initiative to find Ma Gang, and with tears in her eyes, she said: Ma Gang, you marry me, I want to marry you, get married now.
In the original work, it is written: Ma Gang grabbed his hair, beat his chest with his feet, his eyes were also moist, he said in a dumb voice: Three people, you let those three people, I think of this, I can't do wow...
Li Li understood everything at this time, she stopped crying, stood up and looked at Ma Gang, and then looked at the hut that had left her warm and beautiful memories, and walked away without looking back.
Li Li's affair was quickly spread, and Liu Dong was the last to know. He felt sorry for Li Li and felt a little joy for himself.
Without this incident, Li Li would not have been able to look at him. But now that something like this has happened, it is a perfect opportunity for him to marry Li Li. So he continued to write love letters to Li Li, each of which was full of affection, as if he could not live without her.
Li Li and her family were impressed by Liu Dong's persistence and agreed to the marriage. Before getting married, Li Li and Liu Dong agreed on three chapters of the law, forbidding him to mention the past, and after getting married, the two went to Work together in Li Li's hometown.
Liu Dong married the goddess in his heart, full of joy, and naturally agreed to all her conditions. After getting married, cooking, washing dishes, mopping the floor, washing clothes, and even washing feet and water at the front of the bed are all done by Liu Dong. Like a nanny, he takes care of Li Li's life meticulously.
Half a year later, Liu Dong was not willing and did not want to do so. He didn't know where Li Li's sense of superiority came from, and she married him as if he had gotten a lot of bargaining, so he decided not to do the tedious housework anymore.
Li Li was annoyed, and she yelled at Liu Dong: Liu Dong, don't think that you are better than me, I am not worse than you at all. If I didn't have that, I could marry you?
In Li Li's view, she married Liu Dong, which was really too wronged. No matter how good Liu Dong was to her, she couldn't look up to him. And Liu Dong gradually became numb in the sacrifice of only paying without return. He really wanted to live with Li Li, but Li Li only chose to marry him in order to get rid of the shadow of being talked about. In her, he couldn't see a hint of his wife's.
In "A Little Zen Monk", a little Shami once asked, "Master, why is it that the better a person is, the less he cares about himself?" ”
The master replied, "The person you trekked through the mountains and waters to meet will not remember you; he will only remember the person you have trekked through the mountains and waters to meet." The deeper the pain of giving, the deeper the degree of cherishing. ”
Liu Dong suddenly understood that Li Li had never loved him, and their marriage was just hers. She didn't love him, and of course turned a blind eye to his efforts.
Liu Dong could not see any love and warmth in Li Li, so he began to find a sense of existence from others. He came out early and returned late every day, giggling with other colleagues, only to return to indifference when he saw Li Li.
I don't understand, since Li Li decided to marry Liu Dong, why didn't she put her mind at ease and run this family well? She ignored Liu Dong's efforts again and again, he is also a human, he will also be disappointed, she is ruthless to him, is not to push him out?
Li Li sensed Liu Dong's change and decided to ease the marital conflict for the child. The child was born, and Li Li's life changed again.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="30" >2. Liu Dong's family makes Li Li hate Liu Dong even more. </h1>
Although Li Li does not look up to Liu Dong, in the eyes of Liu Dong's parents, he is a rare college student in ten miles and eight villages, and it is the glory of the family. After Li Li gave birth to a child, she and her mother-in-law looked down on each other, and in the days when Liu Dong was not at home, the two pointed to Mai Mang every day.
Li Li cried and complained to Liu Dong, and Liu Dong said impatiently: If you think that my mother will not take children, then you let your mother take it!
Li Li thought that marrying Liu Dong was a way to seek perfection, she did not expect that Liu Dong would change soon after marriage, she thought it would be better to have children, she did not expect that Liu Dong chose her mother-in-law between her mother-in-law and her. The more she thought about it, the more aggrieved she became, so she sobbed and cried. As long as she cried, Liu Dong said distraughtly: Do you have an end?
Li Li was very disappointed in Liu Dong. She believes that her marriage to Liu Dong is a next marriage, and Liu Dong, including all the people around her, should be enshrined in her and held as a treasure in the palm of her hand. But she found that Liu Dong was unwilling to look at her more, and even her mother-in-law couldn't look at her.
Li Li packed her bags and returned home, and later her mother-in-law fell while taking the child, Liu Dong could not bear to let her mother suffer again, so he followed Li Li's advice and sent her mother back to her hometown, and by the way, she found a nanny with a child.
After Li Li was laid off, she decided to use her father's connections to start a business and open a building materials company. After the business improved, Li Li rightly threw the passbook in front of Liu Dong and said triumphantly: You see, if you go to work, when will you earn this number?
Liu Dong looked at the 50,000 yuan passbook and stopped talking. Soon, Li Li earned money to buy a house and a car, the house and car wrote Li Li's name, and Li Li moved the furniture of the family to the new house without Liu Dong's knowledge.
Liu Dong had no choice but to move along. In this new home, he was so strange to everything, as if he were a guest himself. Li Li became more and more confident, and she wanted to tell Liu Dong with practical actions that although she was not a virgin when she married him, even if she lost her virginity, she still did not deserve her.
In the original work, it is written that Li Li has returned to the arrogant Li Li in the past, and now when she looks back at Liu Dong, the dissatisfaction in her heart becomes stronger and stronger. She married Liu Dong at her lowest ebb, because only he could bring her comfort.
Since the day of her marriage, she has not been willing for a day, and some are just helpless. What is Liu Dong in her eyes? He is nothing. If there was no such thing, she could find someone stronger than Liu Dong with her eyes closed, and finally marry Liu Dong, but he just took advantage of the void.
From Liu Dong's pursuit of her to marriage, he never occupied an important position in her heart. If it weren't for that, they would be two parallel lines that wouldn't intersect.
Why did Li Li marry Liu Dong? Because when everyone hated her, only Liu Dong was willing to marry her. She is too lonely and needs companionship too much, so she will choose Liu Dong.
Now, with the success of her career, she has once again regained her former self-confidence. It was not twenty years ago now, and few people except Liu Dong knew about her past. However, she no longer takes Liu Dong seriously, if Liu Dong mentions that matter, she will not hesitate to divorce, so that the last thorn in her life will leave her life forever.
Bai Yang said: Married life should be half open eyes and half closed eyes. There are no perfect men and women in the world, and if their eyes are open for too long, or if they are illuminated by the demon mirror for too long, I am afraid that even God can pick out the faults.
Once, I thought that Li Li had encountered such a hurt, and after marrying Liu Dong, she would be touched by Liu Dong's tolerance and care. However, in her opinion, all of Liu Dong's efforts are self-pleading. She didn't care, and she didn't take his efforts. She had never loved him, and even hated him when she saw him.
When Li Li married Liu Dong, she was inferior. But there is pride in inferiority. She is like a white swan, always looking up at people with her neck up, because she is inferior in her heart, so her attitude is even more arrogant. She used the thorns on her body to test Liu Dong's sincerity.
However, in one temptation after another, her stab wounded Liu Dong. Therefore, Liu Dong will restrain his tolerance and not be as tolerant of her as before.
Romain Rolland said: In marriage, everyone has to give and at the same time take back something: this is the law of supply and demand.
Li Li only wants to take, not to give. She was so stingy about her efforts to Liu Dong because she looked down on him and looked down on such a marriage. She felt wronged and felt that she was married.
She gradually understood that she was the victim of that incident, why did she have to pick up her tail and be a person in the end? Is she going to make a sacrifice? She was not willing, she just wanted to be stronger than Liu Dong, before she looked down on him, and after marriage, she did not want to be trampled by him. She just wanted to tell everyone that Liu Dong was not worthy of Li Li, and would never be worthy.
It's just that she has too strong a personality and always asks others to pay, but she doesn't know that marriage is a two-way street. Liu Dong saw disgust and contempt in her eyes, every man has self-esteem, Li Li is so strong, where will Liu Dong be placed? Even if he loves Li Li again, he still has a time to endure to the limit. When the effort is getting more and more unable to see the return, he has no motivation to continue to love Li Li.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="84" >3. Li Li and Ma Gang reunited, and their self-confidence collapsed. </h1>
Li Li became famous and became an object of envy for everyone. She is young and beautiful, has a successful career, where to find such a strong woman? Li Li gradually came out of that sad thing, and she wanted to embrace her new life.
When Li Li saw Ma Gang for work reasons, her heartbeat couldn't help but speed up. Li Li knew that she still loved Ma Gang, and if it weren't for that, she and Ma Gang would be a match made in heaven.
So, for work reasons, Li Li asked Ma to meet in the room. When she heard the news that Ma had just married, divorced and remarried, her heart was very unhappy, and she found that Ma Gang was very satisfied with his life now.
She didn't understand that she was excellent from childhood to adulthood, she was so perfect, except that she could make Ma Gang happy, who could be worthy of Ma Gang? She is not willing, she wants to become Ma Gang's lover, to fill the emotional gap that was once lacking.
But when she approached Ma Gang, Ma Gang covered his face and cried bitterly. He whispered: I'm sorry Li Li, I really can't do anything, I still can't forget that incident twenty years ago.
Li Li's self-confidence collapsed, and she thought that she was a strong woman, which could change her unbearable experience and make Ma Gang approve of her. But no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't make Ma Gang accept her.
Li Li's mood was terrible, and when she returned home, she either looked out the window in a daze or nitpicked at Liu Dong, no matter what he did, she could be angered by Li Li.
Liu Dong finally couldn't bear to break out, he said: This day still let people pass? If your heart is not smooth, don't take my anger out of it, you have the ability to send your anger to the people who hurt you.
Li Li froze, she never thought that Liu Dong would also be angry, he had always been so tolerant of her, he would actually be angry. Li Li roared: Liu Dong, who do you think you are? You're a farmer, and I tell you, I've never liked you from the time I've known you until now.
After Li Li and Liu Dong divorced, they disappeared with the child, and no one knew where she went.
In this relationship, many people sympathize with Li Li, if she had not experienced that incident, her marriage with Ma Gang must have been happy and happy, but unfortunately, the sky is not the way anyone wishes.
But in my opinion, although Li Li was hurt, her pain was far less than Liu Dong's. Ma Gang couldn't accept her experience, how could Liu Dong accept it?
Every time he is with Li Li, he must do a good job of psychological construction for a long time, and he must treat Li Li as a divorced woman to make him feel better.
I knew Li Li was the victim of that incident and she was innocent. Then Liu Dong is not innocent? He knew that Li Li didn't like him, or did he appear when she needed someone to accompany him and comfort the most, and his feelings were sincere and hot, but what about Li Li? She just used Liu Dong as a tool to dispel emptiness and loneliness.
Li Li had never let go of Ma Gang from beginning to end, she didn't hate the three people who hurt her, she didn't hate Ma Gang, she only hated Liu Dong. Because she transferred her hatred for Ma Gang to Liu Dong, it seemed that Liu Dong was the real murderer who broke up her and Ma Gang. She was reluctant to hate Ma Gang, reluctant to blame him for being ruthless and unjust, and abandoned her when she was at her most difficult, so she vented those resentments on Liu Dong.
What's wrong with Liu Dong? His mistake was that he should not fall in love with the indispensable Li Li, she was so arrogant, so blind, they were not on a horizontal line, even if he tried desperately to get close to her, she would only think of escaping.
Li Hong said: In the besieged city of marriage, it is easy for you to envy the scenery outside the city, which is very beautiful; but for you, it may just be a mirage, you can't catch it! Even if Caught, can you guarantee that looking back inside the city, it's not another mirage?
Happy marriage, that is, do not have harsh requirements for the other half of the marriage, everyone has shortcomings, so do not have too high expectations for marriage, marriage is not a vision of love, but for love to live, only know how to converge on the character, know how to cherish each other, marriage can be long-lasting.
Li Li had never loved Liu Dong, but let Liu Dong accompany her for more than twenty years, allowing him to heal himself. Twenty years later, she stepped out of the haze, kicked Liu Dong away, and ran into Ma Gang's arms.
In her eyes, only the horse was just worthy of her. However, Li Li did not know that even if she and Ma Gang were together, they might not be happy. Her eyes are above the top, and she never knows how to cherish the happiness of the people around her.
Li Li's encounter is unfortunate, but when she met Liu Dong, she was lucky, but she was blind and hurt the person who loved her the most, and after she disappeared, she used time to make up for the trauma, and the damage she caused to Liu Dong may not be repaired in a lifetime.