My daughter and I often play and play games, if it is my mistake or fault, she will expect me to apologize, as soon as I finish saying "I'm sorry" she immediately blurted out "It's okay", I said "You have already forgiven me and I have to apologize", she said "You don't say sorry first, how can I forgive you", I think it's right. But these children, let me feel that there is a problem with our education, "sorry" and "okay" are mechanically linked, as if making children feel that if others say "sorry" to themselves, they must say "it's okay" to each other, is that really saying sorry, it doesn't matter?
Recently, a teacher in Shandong uploaded a video saying that the little boy in the class laughed at the little girl's clothes that were ugly and dirty, and the little girl was very sad. The teacher teaches the children by crumbling paper balls: praise words can be blurted out, slanderous words should think twice, the damage that has occurred cannot be completely repaired, do not be a person who hurts others. Full of positive energy, this teacher's education method is indeed worthy of praise. Don't be a person who kneads paper balls, even unintentional words can hurt others, although you say sorry, the other party also says it's okay, but the kneaded paper really can't be restored to the original way, can you say "it's okay"? "Bad words hurt people June cold", a bad word can still hurt like this, for those bullying, abuse behavior afterwards said "sorry", can we still say "it's okay"?
I remember the father of a girl who was bullied saying "From the day my daughter was born, I was ready to go to jail at any time". That day, he went to the school office with a kitchen knife in his bag, saying that he only had one request: "Whoever beats my child how he beats my child, let my child beat it back, the demand is not excessive..." However, bullying still occurs frequently, and it is not uncommon for kindergarten teachers to abuse young children.
In the face of repeated incidents of bullying in schools, how can we protect our children?
For those who are bullied, we should encourage them to ask for help, enhance their self-confidence, and learn to find ways to resist. Get in touch with parents to enhance their sense of security. Bullies, on the other hand, may be children who have some problems with their home education methods, and they need attention or a sense of strength. Experts also say, "Education needs us to use the right way." "Indifference, an accomplice to bullying; Connivance is a refuge for the perpetrator. When a student is bullied, if the people around them can help in time, it may rewrite the story.
The reason why things happen is not single, I hope that less and less such things happen around us, improve our psychology, improve our system, improve our environment, and may every child grow up healthy and happy!