Speaking of yesterday's "one-on-one" ratings report, Li Zhishan revealed that she has been single for nine years, and the news that she chose not to marry because of her family influence has aroused the attention and heated discussion of the majority of netizens. Yesterday, there were media reports that the emotional interview program "One-on-One" hosted by the well-known Hong Kong media person Lai Zhishan has received the attention and hot discussion of many netizens because of its special style and relaxed interview method, and the host Li Zhishan has also recently accepted a rare interview with the Hong Kong media, in which Li Zhishan in addition to generously sharing the original intention of doing the show, but also generously blew herself up for nine years, and because she was influenced by her family since childhood, So I've been an absolute unmarried person since I was young. Speaking of Li Zhishan, I believe that the small partners who pay attention to the Hong Kong circle should not feel strange to her. She has hosted many TVB gold medal programs such as "East Zhang Xi Wang", and she has also appeared in many TVB large-scale evening parties. In addition to being TVB's well-known gold medal emcee, Li Zhishan is also the niece of the gambling king. The love history of the early years can also be described as extremely rich and has had a relationship with many male artists such as Zheng Yijian, Chen Xiaochun, Zhang Dalun and so on, which can be said to be a proper male god harvester. The biggest reason why Li Zhishan did not blossom with them was because of the non-marriage doctrine she upheld. And if you carefully check it, it is not difficult to find that there are not a few unmarried people in the entertainment industry, Cheng Wei, Huang Zixiong, and Zheng Yuling are typical representatives. And Ji Shi, as a professional melon eater, also wants to use the length of a tweet to briefly tell me about my personal self-views and opinions on these unmarried people in the entertainment industry. I also hope that my story can provide a different perspective and dimension to the vast number of readers.
In Ji Shi's view, the reasons and factors for some artists in the entertainment industry to be unmarried are undoubtedly multifaceted. The influence of the self-native family on oneself, the shadow left by previous feelings on the self, the escape and fear of the self for marriage itself, these are the reasons and factors that cause and cause some artists to become unmarried. As the saying goes, the original family of the self is the first classroom of the self's life, and the words and deeds of the parents and the parents are also the first teachers of the self often have a considerable, even absolute, impact on a person. For some artists, the impact of their parents' marital status on themselves is even more indelible. Because I have spent my childhood in the endless quarrels of my parents, I am full of resistance and dissatisfaction with the family from the heart, and because of this, I have an absolute rejection of starting a family from the heart. Because of their parents, they ended up divorcing. So it also made me feel a lot of disgust and even fear in my heart about marriage. The experiences of their original families have always been with them, and the unhappy marriage of their parents has always been deeply retained in their memories, so when they grow up, some artists regard unmarriedism as their attitude towards marriage. They enjoy the sweetness and joy that love brings to them. They are also willing to live with their other half for a lifetime, but they just don't want to get married with their other half, although many times the actual state of the two of them is no different from marriage. But they just don't want to enter into marriage in an orthodox way, because if they do, they will remind them of what they encountered in their original families in childhood. Since it reminds the ego of past pain and unhappiness, the ego shuns it.
In addition to being influenced by one's own family of origin. The reason why some artists become unmarried is also most directly related to the ego's own attitude towards emotional marriage. In the eyes of some artists, the feeling itself is a combination of the two people who are happy together, unhappy to separate, do not need to use any form, or legal rules to bind each other, in their view the feelings should be free, not with any compulsion. Although they don't want to get into marriage, it's hard to see them as irresponsible or evasive. Because they and their significant others have been together for more than a dozen, or even decades, there have been no other scandals during this period, nor have there been any rumors about the change in the relationship between the two people. Maybe they're just looking for a state they like, or maybe the paper is really too heavy for them.
Of course, in addition to the above two, the reason why some artists become unmarried is because they are affected by the previous relationship. Almost everyone has a beautiful vision and plan for love and marriage. Everyone has dreamed of one day entering into marriage with the person they like, but the reality is that many times they often break their dreams in the most cruel way. Some artists originally thought that they would blossom with someone for a lifetime, but in the end, because of various factors and reasons, the two people finally failed to come together, and even after the breakup, the two people also carried out a confrontation and tearing each other, thus making a chicken feather. It is precisely because of this unpleasant emotional experience that some artists have a considerable degree of shadow over the marriage itself. Because in the last relationship that person hurt me, so I have a special vigilance and caution about marriage from now on, because I am afraid of being hurt by the same emotions as in the past again, although you are not that person, but as the saying goes, a good year is bitten by a snake for ten years afraid of the well rope, not to mention the heart of prevention is indispensable, so marriage has become a forbidden area in my heart that can never be touched.
The above is Ji Shi's personal self-view and opinion on the phenomenon that some artists in the entertainment industry are unmarried. In fact, the emergence and emergence of any phenomenon is the result of a variety of factors and causes. And from the phenomenon that some artists in the entertainment industry are unmarried, we see that in addition to the profound influence of their original family on themselves, they also feel a deep memory of the self caused by the previous relationship. They influence the ego's perception of marriage, and they also influence the ego's perception of marriage. In fact, marriage itself is a thing with a strong self-color and personal will, whether it chooses to marry or not to marry in the final analysis depends on the will and attitude of both parties. In any case, as long as two people feel comfortable and happy, it is the best.