Whether it is Koreans or people in our country, they are very concerned about other people's affairs. The list of words heard on holidays, the questions asked at the first meeting, and the greeting words are all about other people's homes. Among them, the most heard are "university", "employment", "marriage", "children's program" and so on.
Kim So-ro and Kim Won-hee are both "Dink"
The questions that adults used to ask often have become a matter of course. However, there are many family forms in today's society, and the way of life has become diverse, so some families, especially those who have entered the age of marriage and marriage, have a very weak view of marriage and children, and have entered the era of cocoa. Couples who do not have children are called "Dinks", many celebrity couples also have many "Dinks", as the news of marriage spreads, people around them and fans will ask about the children's plan, there are many stars who directly answer the question of the children's plan, and some "Dink" star couples answer the reasons for not having children.
<h1>Li Xiaoli is still in distress</h1>
IU Q: Do the two of you not have children planned yet?
Li Xiaoli is 41 years old this year (real age), and has passed the best age to have a child. Although Li Xiaoli and the "ugly man" Li Shangshun and his wife have never said that they will not have children, they are also worried about whether to continue to maintain the "Dink" life. Mr. and Mrs. Lee Hyo-Lee Sang-soon had a very simple wedding in Jeju Island in 2013 and became a real couple. I've been married for 6 years this year, so I have a lot of questions about my children, but I'm still enjoying the world of 2 people.
Although the couple did not officially announce Dink, in the past in the variety show "Xiaoli Family Homestay" slightly revealed the idea of "Dink tribe". IU, who was playing part-time students at the time, asked Li Xiaoli and his wife: "Do the two have no children plan now?" Li Xiaoli replied, "We are still worried about whether we want children or not." In addition, the variety show "Please Give a Meal Show" said: "I don't have the idea of having children, but once I see someone else's cute child, I want to have children." But when I think of how tired my parenting mothers look, I always hesitate. "
<h1>Kim Won-hee, the 15th anniversary of her marriage this year</h1>
Kim Won-hee reveals the reasons related to Dink
Kim Won-hee (48), a famous Korean actress and host, continues to be active on tv screens and has consolidated her position on major television stations. Kim Won-hee married photographer Sun Hyuk-cheon in 2005. After marriage, so far there are no children, enjoying a happy world of two. It's the 15th anniversary of their marriage this year, and many people on TV stations are curious about Kim Won-hee and his wife's problem of not having children. After all, it is a female star, so there are many kinds of outrageous rumors so far.
Kim Won-hee: Enough having a nephew
Kim Won-hee revealed the reasons for not having children in a variety show, saying in the show: "I was born in a family of 1 man and 4 women, and I never used my own separate room once, so I often live a very crowded life with my family, so I don't have a particularly impatient and earnest mood for having children." From Jin Yuanxi's answer, it can be felt that she has lacked love since she was a child, so she has little sense of urgency for her children, and she has not yet thought about the idea of having children. Probably because I am often asked about children, I directly state the reasons for being Dink in the variety show.
<h1>Jin Xiulu, for the sake of acting career</h1>
Actor Kim So-ro (50 years old) is active in many aspects of the Korean showbiz circle, has a high popularity and prestige in the circle, and continues to live a "Dink" life. In 2009, he married actor Lee Kyung-hwa and has enjoyed a sweet world of two so far. The two of them got married after a 13-year relationship, so people must be curious about the reasons why the couple didn't have children. During the period, of course, there were rumors such as "husband and wife stalemate" and "infertility talk" around them.
After the end of their long-term love, the marriage age has also been 10 years, and it is still very sweet. Jin Xiulu has always shown love for his wife in different programs. The reason why Jin Xiulu and his wife do not have children is to concentrate on active in the acting career, and this is a matter that began to be agreed upon a long time ago, and it is not easy to work and raise children in parallel, so the two finally reached a consensus for the sake of the acting career.
<h1>Jin Minjiao, our life has to be chosen by ourselves</h1>
Some celebrities don't have children for special reasons. Actor Kim Min-joo married composer Lee So-young in 2009, and then Kim Min-joo starred in the variety show "Video Star" and said that he first proposed "Dink" to his wife and said: "The decision not to have children is not for himself, but for children." "
Jin Minjiao said: "People around me always say that they are not born to have children, but to have children for themselves." But he felt that he should think in the shoes of a child, because he was not financially well-off. In MBC TV's "Record of the World", Jin Minjiao also said: "We got married when we were not financially rich enough, and we are a little breathless at the beginning, and if we have children at this time, we are very sorry for our children." Kim's mother-in-law and father-in-law also respect their advice that "we have to choose our own lives."
<h1>Kim Ina, the new marriage began to reach a consensus</h1>
Kim Yina, a famous Korean lyricist known as the "beauty lyricist", has participated in many song productions in the circle, and often appears in variety shows, and her popularity has increased a lot. Kim Ina, who married music producer Cho Young-chul in 2009, has been married for 12 years but has no children this year. In this regard, Jin Yina said the reason for "no children's plan" in a variety show, which attracted the attention of many people.
Park Won-soon Seoul Mayor (center), Kim In-na (right)
In the variety show "Radio Star", Kim In-na starred with the mayor of Seoul, Park Won-soon, and talked about the birth rate. Kimina said: "I can't have children for the sake of contributing to the country's birth rate. From the very beginning of the marriage, it was natural to reach a Dink agreement with her husband. He continued: "Couples like us can't experience the joy of having children, but for 12 years we enjoyed a happy married life without children." In this way, Kimina happily admitted to the "Dinks". Kim Ina also said: "I hope to develop into a society that does not ask why we do not have children. "
South Korea has the lowest birth rate (0.88) in the world
South Korea is currently updating its data on the birth rate, and many media reports mention the quarterly reduction in the birth rate. But today's society is no longer the era when having children must be regarded as a necessary process after marriage, and it will not simply be born for the sake of old age loneliness or inheriting one's own bloodline. In recent years, young people have been considering whether they can raise their children in a wealthy environment and carefully considering the necessity of having children. It is not simply to give birth to a child, but whether it can bring a happier life to your children.
South Korea's court cases can also be felt to have changed a lot in recent years. Recently, more emphasis has been placed on the "right to self-determination" and on the "right to pursue happiness" and other focuses on everyone's right to a happy life. Whether to have children or not depends on the decision of the couple and will respect the choice of the couple. Even if having children was taken for granted in the past, over time this will inevitably change and lifestyles will become diverse. In general, don't always ask people, "Why don't you have children?" ", but to respect each other's way of life.