Love melon, marriage melon, cheating melon, breakup melon, reading scripts late at night, doing hair during the day...
Over the years, it has been said that there are many "melons" of male and female stars in the entertainment industry "melon field and plum xia"!
Unexpectedly, more than two months have passed in 2023, and the sports circle is not far behind, and a powerful melon has exploded!
This melon has been hanging on the hot search these days, and it has almost been fried by netizens!
It is the peachy news about the "junior position" between Li Meng, the core forward of the Chinese women's basketball team, and Zhang Long, the former leader!
After a few days of observation, the facts are already clear!
Sister Yu briefly sorted out the overall experience of this sensational sports industry "peach melon" on the whole network!
On March 18, Zhang Long's ex-wife Zhao Lei exposed Li Meng's involvement in her marriage on the Internet, and said that Li Meng was a knower and ruined her family.
Subsequently, she also posted many indecent photos of Li Meng, and continued to beat Li Meng fiercely, so that Li Meng fell into the abyss of public opinion.
On March 20, "Li Pingkang", who claimed to be an Australian journalist, said that Li Meng was not guilty, and that Zhang Long's ex-wife should not expose Li Meng's private photos, and that his behavior had violated the law. Because "whether there was any ambiguity before the divorce, at least for now, Li Meng and Zhang Long are legal husband and wife." ”
On the evening of March 20, Zhao Lei personally admitted that Li Meng and Zhang Long had received their certificates.
As for why she attacked Li Meng on the Internet and posted photos, it was because she felt that her ex-husband was married, and she had not paid maintenance as agreed after the divorce.
Now I heard that Zhang Long is preparing to go abroad for a visa, if he runs abroad and does not return, what will happen to the maintenance of his children?
That's why she didn't hesitate to tear her face, make this matter public, and expose the recourse!
Zhao Lei also shouted Li Meng on the Internet, saying that since they are already husband and wife, is the maintenance fee that Zhang Long violated the agreement and refused to pay also their joint debt?
Zhao Lei asked them to come out to apologize to themselves, and said that they would not explode Li Meng's private photos again, hoping that the matter would soon settle down.
After this sensational melon happened, netizens pointed the finger at Li Meng and Zhao Lei.
Some people feel that as a national athlete, Li Mengzhi is three-way, destroys other people's families, has bad morals, and should not stay on the national team.
Some people also feel that Zhao Lei, as Zhang Long's ex-wife, should solve the affairs between their husband and wife by themselves, and should not spill their anger on Li Meng.
Watching netizens scold Zhao Lei in part and Li Meng in part, Sister Yu was a little puzzled:
Why didn't anyone scold Zhang Long, the initiator of the war between the two women?
Things have been fermenting for two or three days, watching his ex-wife and current being raped online, but this man in the sports industry has not said a word or said a word.
But isn't he the object that everyone should question and criticize the most?
Ex-wife Zhao Lei's sadness
Zhao Lei was originally married to Zhang Long, and the two had two children, but in August 2022, they chose to divorce.
The two children and the property were given to Zhao Lei, and the maintenance fee was one and a half.
But after the divorce, Zhang Long did not pay maintenance to his ex-wife as agreed.
From this point of view, anyone who sees what happened to Zhao Lei will feel sympathy and pity.
As a housewife behind a successful man, she sacrificed her good youth for the family, but eventually lost her marriage because her husband cheated on her.
I have to take care of and raise two children by myself, and I also have to face the pressure of life and the hardships of education.
Zhao Lei's sadness and difficulty, many married women can empathize!
So, she eventually couldn't bear it, asked for help online, and the act of exposing the scandal was understandable.
After all, the husband is the cheating party, after the divorce, regardless of the husband and wife, immediately married the mistress, and refused to fulfill the obligation to pay alimony, this can not be endured by any woman!
But Zhao Lei's approach is not elegant and authentic enough!
She herself also said that her ex-husband and Li Meng are married, and she divorced Zhang Long, the core problem is that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.
Zhang Long's parents have always complained about Zhao Lei, thinking that they were not right in the first place, so in this case, Zhang Long insisted on divorce, and Zhao Lei agreed.
Therefore, no matter how dissatisfied Zhao Lei is with Zhang Long, she should come to her ex-husband, should be sued and prosecuted, and should go through legal procedures.
After all, it was Zhang Long who did not pay the alimony, and it was also Zhang Long who chose to divorce.
Flies don't bite eggs, if Zhang Long insists on choosing Zhao Lei and trying to maintain his marriage and family, what will happen to Li Meng?
Therefore, Sister Yu feels that whether marriage is divided or combined, it is mainly related to the husband and wife, and the mistress is not the main reason.
Many stories in reality have long shown that the feelings are gone, if not this woman, it will be another woman, and it has little to do with who this person is.
The attitude of the man is the original sin and the key!
In addition, although their husband and wife relationship broke down, they had a certain relationship with Li Meng.
But Li Meng is not other ordinary women, in addition to their relationship, she is also an excellent and rare basketball woman.
Now Zhao Lei jumped out to accuse the other party of being a mistress, and also posted indecent photos of the other party, and organized online violence, humiliating and smearing the other party, which is very irrational and has even violated the law.
The authorities are obsessed with bystanders, go through legal procedures without giving alimony, discuss things on a case-by-case basis, implicate other people in a bad mood, and expose each other's private photos and parental scandals, which is really immoral.
Zhao Lei's behavior can be regarded as a wake-up call for many married women who have been betrayed by men!
At all times, one should remain sober and rational, and the legal and moral awareness should still be followed.
Otherwise, sooner or later, you will let yourself change from reasonable to unreasonable, play a good hand into a bad card, and reduce from a sympathizer to an attacker.
The current Li Meng's is not easy
Zhao Lei is not easy, a housewife was divorced, which makes people sympathetic and pitiful!
But is Li Meng easy?
If it is true that as Zhao Lei herself said, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the main reason for divorce, then Li Meng is a little innocent!
Before marrying Zhang Long, Li Meng began to practice at the age of 5 and became the ace player of the Chinese women's basketball team after 23 years of hard training.
Not many people can understand the hardships and ups and downs of being athletes.
Moreover, her training career has not been smooth sailing!
When I was a child, I practiced swimming and suffered from otitis media; When she was 8 years old, her mother was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer; At the age of 16, he suffered a rupture of the cruciate ligament in his right knee, almost ending his basketball career; During the Tokyo Olympics, her father was given critical illness notices three more times...
But Li Meng is in the trials given by these lives, the more frustrated and courageous! How many accolades does she bring to the national team?
She was one of the main contributors to the Chinese team's ability to win the World Cup runner-up and the top scorer of the Chinese team.
She has won the third place in the world junior championship and participated in the Olympic Games twice, and is a well-deserved sister of the Chinese women's basketball team.
Therefore, before being exposed to his second marriage to Zhang Long, Li Meng, who was a World Cup runner-up, league champion and WNBA, had a bright future.
Of course, Sister Yu wrote such a paragraph, not to emphasize Li Meng's importance and achievements to the women's basketball team and recognize her behavior of destroying other people's marriages.
After all, the matter is still inconclusive.
At present, we only know that Zhang Long and Zhao Lei divorced in August 2022, and about Zhao Lei's statement that the two knew each other within marriage and had an ambiguous relationship, it is only the words of Zhao Lei's family.
Li Meng and Zhang Long, the two parties, have not responded for the time being.
Therefore, whether Li Meng is innocent or not, whether he is wronged or not, he cannot make a conclusion at will.
However, some informed netizens left a message under the social account of Zhang Long's ex-wife Zhao Lei saying that when Li Meng and Zhang Long confirmed their relationship, their family and friends were also opposed, and they had strongly advised her not to be impulsive.
But in the matter of love, as long as most girls are serious and devoted, most of their IQ will become zero.
No one listens to them!
Therefore, Li Meng is obsessed with love, is half a victim, and may be used!
In the final analysis, this is still Zhang Long's problem!
Irresponsible Zhang Long
If Zhang Long is a responsible man, he can properly handle his own marriage, divorce first if there is no emotional discord, and then move on to the next relationship.
Worthy of putting down, worthy of the ex-wife, and worthy of the current one.
Then Li Meng will not be involved in this peach-colored melon who "knows three when three", so that the two women are unable to extricate themselves from difficulties and disputes because he was raped and questioned by the Internet!
Therefore, from the perspective of the whole matter, the one who should be commented on and questioned by netizens should be Zhang Long.
To be honest, it may be a fact that Li Meng destroyed other people's families when he was a junior, but it turned out that a divorce agreement had been settled.
The hateful thing is Zhang Long, abandoning the family, not to mention, even the minimum responsibility of raising the pot, and finally pulling Li Meng into the water.
Sister Yu wanted to ask Li Meng, are you relieved to marry such a scumbag?
This world, this society, is still too unfriendly to women!
The former was scolded for having no morality, and the current one was scolded for "knowing three when three", and the man who should bear all this the most, did not say a word, pretending to sleep with his eyes closed.
You say angry people are not angry?
As for Li Meng, as long as she takes the initiative to repent, she should be given a chance to correct her mistakes, it is not easy for the country to cultivate an excellent athlete, and Li Meng's road to success is not easy!
Therefore, Sister Yu really wants to give a word of advice to those irresponsible men like Zhang Long:
It's a man, he will clean up his own mess, and if he doesn't have that diamond diamond, he won't take porcelain work.
Don't drag the woman who loves you into the water and use it as your own shield!
is a man, bravely bear the price of finding a new love, should take care of the children to take care of the children, should give the ex-wife maintenance fees!
Also, for new lovers, don't make the mistake of liking the new and disgusting the old!
Love, please love deeply, if you don't love, just leave!
No one is obliged to pay for someone else's mistakes!
Let a woman shed tears for you, suffer and trouble, and nest her head as an ostrich, this is not what a responsible man should do! Isn't it?
Today's Topic:
1. Do you think it is reasonable for Zhao Lei to let Li Meng and Zhang Long repay the child support together?
2. Should Li Meng be condemned, is she innocent?
3. Do you agree with Zhao Lei's approach?
4. In this matter, who do you think should stand up and take responsibility and be questioned by netizens the most?
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