Short Comments:
I have read a lot of chicken soup texts, the reason is probably not to find the goal of life, three minutes of heat, and can not stand their own inertia of a kind of compensation psychology, hope to find more possibilities from other people's lives, and then stimulate themselves. There is also, the pessimism about the unknown that has dragged me down for a long time. I always feel that there are some roads, someone has to walk through, I dare to go forward, otherwise in case of failure, how can I bear the consequences alone... Human weaknesses such as these.
In so many chicken soup books, Zhu Mo is a "cruel person", she read 8 professional books in 2 weeks for graduate school, read IELTS 5.5 points while working for a month, mentioned 7 points, gave up options at the age of 30 to go abroad to read UCL... I would say that she has great luck in her life, jinhuayi met Wang Zhongjun Wang Zhonglei and Chen Guofu, especially Chen Guofu, a bright light in her career and life, and also a kind of person I am very eager to meet in my future work.
I would also say that these lucks were spelled out by herself, and I might as well look back and think about the "ridiculous things" she did, all of which she deserved. "Fight too much", "survive", "put down", jump back and forth in the TV series and film groups, encounter countless accusations and distrust, and finally become a partner of Kung Fu Pictures...
All of this has opened up a new situation for me, who wanted to give up countless times in adversity, who only wanted to flee in the face of difficulties, and who lacked patience and persistence.
Recommended Index:
4/5 stars, suitable for confused, hesitant people.
Book Excerpts:
1. There is a line in "The Witch Who Wears PRADA": "When you feel that there is a miasma of smoke around you, your opportunity for promotion comes." ”
2. Not many people here know me, and maybe not many people are interested in knowing me. However, I will definitely become famous. Before I became famous, I was going to write this text, which seemed to be a contract, and would watch me coldly all the way.
3. Without a little desperate momentum, there can be no miracle. The most worthless thing is to summarize the reasons after the success of others, regretting how they made a mistake and how they did not gamble on that one.
4. UCL's motto is "Let all come who by merit deserve the most reward," a phrase I want to give to myself. You always have a responsibility to make yourself better and to meet the rewards that life has to offer you.
5. "It is not difficult to criticize, but the person who makes the criticism can personally change the script according to his own criticism, which is not something that ordinary people can do." ”
6. "Sometimes a detour is a good road" - Chen Guofu
7. "No matter how good you are, it is useless to do anything." Don't dwell on what others say about you, but put your time and energy on improving your ability, which is really valuable. I tell you, no good movie is happy in the process of work, whether it is in the early stage or the later stage, it must be tormented, the struggle is continuous, and it is only in this way that a good thing may finally come out. --Chen Guofu
8. "The money that belongs to you in this life has been placed there waiting for you." You just have to practice your skills and wait for them to appear. --Chen Guofu
9. Goals are goals, there is no distinction between high and low. Vanity makes people progress. Why can't buying a designer bag be a bright goal? We have to feel every need in our hearts, and as long as it conforms to basic moral values and does not violate the law, we should face it, accept it, and find ways to achieve it.
10. Instead of hollowing out your mind to manage your connections, it is better to hollow out your mind to run yourself. If you are an unknown person, even if you have the contact information of all the big names in China, you will not get any reply when you call and text the other party. If you are a "useful person", you do not need to have these contact information, and others will take the initiative to come to you. In this real society, you are "useful" to others, and that is your value.
11. The upper position should "bully the hard and fear the soft."
"Bullying" is actually to maintain an independent personality and attitude anytime and anywhere, and not to dare to express your own views because the other party is higher and more powerful than you. Don't worry about the other person being faceless or unhappy for a while, the real big people are very smart, they will understand your value. "Fear of softness" is how to get along with your "subordinates" or juniors.
(1) Pass on to them "what you have learned all your life." Only if your subordinates can help you take on more work, you have the energy to do more things and get more promotions;
(2) Strive for the maximum benefits for everyone. Only a community of ideals and interests is the most stable community;
(3) To protect their team from grievances. When your subordinates are wronged, the first time to stand up and speak up for her, they will feel the real warmth of the team, and the sense of belonging to the group will be stronger;
(4) Glory and commonality, humiliation and self-responsibility.
12. There is a shortcut called self-abuse, it is better to ask others than to seek oneself, and to be cruel enough to oneself is the real shortcut in life.
13. We are faced with choices at every stage of life, and no one can tell you what the right decision is. Perhaps even the word "correct" itself is relative. At this time, the only thing we can rely on is intuition. People always say, no way, I am forced by various pressures to do what I don't like, and when I have money and a house and a car in the future, I must do what I want. But I want to say, life is impermanent, the world changes, who knows what the future will be, why not do it now?
14. Find something you are sure to be interested in and really like, and go to great lengths to persevere and enjoy this process of doing your best, whether there is an additional gain of fame or fortune, at least we will be calm and happy first. Perhaps in the process of persevering, merit and interests will follow.
The last words are also the words I use to encourage myself: We all have a bright future!!!