It is said that netizens knocked CP to play flowers, but this time it still broke through her sister's cognition.
Open the latest season of "Wife's Romantic Trip", how did everyone knock on the CP of Liu Yun and Zhang Yunlong?
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Search for "Yunyun sentient beings" on the Internet, and a whole video with a decent number of views and comments will immediately pop up on the page. Randomly click on a comment area to reap a kind of happiness that "ignores Zheng Jun's life and death".
"Zheng Jun quickly went to the monk to knock on the wooden fish"
"The first time I want a couple to divorce"
"After watching the show, I know that Liu Yun deserves better"
"The monk who should become a monk, the one who should remarry"
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Looking around, I really couldn't help but ask: Zheng Jun and Liu Yun, are they really so inappropriate? Is the "great custom rule of Wenqing" that everyone talked about back then reliable?
Zheng Jun should knock on the wooden fish
The reason why "Yunyun sentient beings" can make a large number of netizens "give up morality" and shout "scream" has to start with this variety show.
The first stop of the journey, Shangri-La, is also the first stop for "Yunyun Sentient Beings" to win countless CP fans. At the beginning of the trip, Zhang Yunlong got into the car of Liu Yun, who called himself a "road killer".
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
This kind of "sacrificial spirit" that only wants her sister to be happy regardless of her own safety, who doesn't say a good word when she sees it?
In the following issues, as the time spent together increased, there were more and more famous scenes between the two people who were called first, and the audience's mentality gradually changed from "a small mouthful" to "having to snort".
"I don't want to snort either, but he told her a little girl picking blueberries!"
"I don't want to snort, but he walked around the bookstore and bought the books she said she had read!"
"I don't want to laugh either, but she can always laugh around him!"
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After a few episodes of the program, netizens decided to let Zheng Jun knock on Muyu, anyway, he also liked to meditate.
Let Zheng Jun knock on the wooden fish, this matter is really not wrong. The performance of Zheng Jun and Liu Yun when they get along in the show is difficult not to make people look down.
At the beginning of the show, Bao Lei and Lu Yi were still joking: "No, it won't be!" Husband and wife quarrel and dare to come to this show? "Just these few days, I have to hold back."
As a result, when the camera turned, there were really people who couldn't hold back.
In the car next door, Liu Yun asked Zheng Jun with teary eyes, "Do you think we are suitable?" ”
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And Zheng Jun looked like he didn't even understand Liu Yun's question, with three points of calmness, three points of doubt, and four points of nonsense in his eyes: "I don't know why you're not happy." ”
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After some quarrels between bullheads and horses' mouths, Zheng Jun uttered his first famous phrase in the season of the show, "No one can make you unpleasant, except yourself".
The quarrel ended here, and the car was still running to its destination without stopping.
Early the next morning, Liu Yun was afraid that the audience would think they were too sloppy, and called Zheng Jun to clean up the room together.
Zheng Jun felt that this matter was not important, he should light fragrant incense, should make tea and tea, and did not mean to clean up at all, "I am comfortable and important, who I love."
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
It was not until Liu Yun's anger reached its peak that Zheng Jun stood up, casually collected two bags, and shook the quilt twice.
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In Liu Yun's long sigh, the two hurriedly left the room to record.
Zheng Jun seems to never be able to find empathy in Liu Yun, and the emotions gushing out of Liu Yun are like waves on the screen of a mobile phone for Zheng Jun, he can't feel it, and he doesn't know why it started.
On the first night of arriving at Shangri-La, Liu Yun revealed in a conversation session that before the recording began, she and Zheng Jun had just ended a cold war for more than 20 days.
In the past month, Zheng Jun did not want to coax Liu Yun at all, and for more than twenty nights, Liu Yun fell asleep accompanied by Ling Na Belle.
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
Not only in these twenty days, in the past ten years, Zheng Jun rarely took the initiative to bow his head, every time he quarreled, he curled his neck and ignored people, and in the end, Liu Yun could only put down his son first to seek peace.
Liu Yun has the heart to let Zheng Jun know that he has been trying to tolerate him for so many years, and hopes that he can understand himself more.
In the after-dinner chat session, Liu Yun brought up this topic and repeatedly reminded other guests to ask Zheng Jun, who apologized more in the past relationship, and who should coax people if the husband and wife have conflicts?
As a result, as soon as Zheng Jun spoke, the smile that Liu Yun was trying to maintain could not hang up.
It turned out that in Zheng Jun's heart, Liu Yun often took the initiative to apologize in the previous ten years, and many quarrels were originally because Liu Yun was too ignorant and vexatious.
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
And what is the vexatious thing in his mouth?
It was many years ago that the two of them had dinner with Zheng Jun's two good friends, and the two people at the dinner table completely ignored Liu Yun's presence, and talked about Zheng Jun's ex-girlfriend the whole time.
After getting into the car, the two people quarreled because Liu Yun should not be angry, and after the quarrel, Liu Yun felt that she really couldn't communicate with Zheng Jun, and asked Zheng Jun to let her get out of the car.
Most people can hear that Liu Yun is just coquettish, and wants Zheng Jun to coax her, and Zheng Jun can also hear it, but he doesn't give Liu Yun a smooth hair.
At four o'clock in the morning, he really left Liu Yun alone on the Jingtong Expressway and went home by himself.
Zheng Jun used this incident as an example to illustrate that Liu Yun was young and more promising, "jumping down directly by pulling the car door when she was slightly unhappy", the fire was arched by her, and she just didn't want to follow the other party in everything.
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
After listening to him, Liu Yun choked: she didn't expect that for so many years, Zheng Jun had never gotten the point of her anger, she only felt that it was inexplicable for her to be angry, and apologizing was a matter of course.
In the end, Liu Yun closed her mouth with tears in her eyes and did not continue to argue.
It's hard to imagine that in the sixteenth year of love, Liu Yun and Zheng Jun still seem to be unable to enter anyone's spiritual world.
All attempts to break the border are finally treated as invasions, today you occupy a little of my territory, tomorrow I occupy a little of yours.
After a long time, it seems that there is also a bit of you have me and I have you, and if you look closely, the boundary line has become tortuous, in fact, who should be or whom, they have never blended with each other.
As an audience, seeing such a couple, it is difficult for her sister not to wonder how they came together.
The group of netizens who surfed fifteen years ago were also curious, but the wind direction of public opinion at that time was different from now, and everyone's question at that time was: How did Zheng Jun take a fancy to Liu Yun?
"Great custom rule of wen qing"
The first time Liu Yun met Zheng Jun was in a KTV, friend Pu Shu and his wife Wu Xiaomin grouped the bureau.
At that time, Liu Yun felt very general about Zheng Jun, long hair, wearing a hat, the hat was white, and it was stained with hot pot oil.
Zheng Jun also had no impression of Liu Yun, a beautiful girl dressed in black, with a big temper, and kept scolding with a phone in and out.
Obviously, this side of the relationship did not allow the two people to meet the spark.
The second meeting was in the cinema, originally a large group of friends made an appointment to watch a movie, I don't know if it was deliberate or fate, by the opening time the other friends released pigeons, leaving only Liu Yun and Zheng Jun.
After the movie ended, the two exchanged contact information, began to play together often, and slowly saw the right eye.
After announcing the relationship, there were many voices on the Internet questioning that Liu Yun was a junior, in order to dispel these rumors, Zheng Jun wrote "Liu Yun is not a mistress, is an angel" on his blog to correct Liu Yun's name.
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In this blog post, Zheng Jun said that Liu Yun was a child and lovingly called her a "problem child" like himself.
She said that she was "cheerful and short-tempered, the sun was scorching, and the four seasons were like summer, which made sadness overwhelmed".
In fact, Zheng Jun himself often couldn't resist Liu Yun.
Liu Yun is a Hunan girl with a hot personality, and she does not show weakness when she encounters such a rocking role as Zheng Jun, who is full of personality, and can chase Zheng Jun all the way when she quarrels.
Once in a hurry, Zheng Jun pushed the door and left, and Liu Yun stopped him from leaving, because the clothes on Zheng Jun's body were all bought by her, and if you want to leave, you have to "take them off for me".
Zheng Jun didn't want to be soft, so he could only take off his shirt with a hard head, carry his bag bare-chested, and wait in the garage for his assistant to send him a T-shirt to cover his body.
For such a quarrel, Zheng Jun is both difficult to deal with, but also willing to eat.
When it comes to two people arguing so that they can't communicate and can only drop things to express their anger, they also have to boast that the chair Liu Yun bought is strong and can't be broken.
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In Zheng Jun's heart, Liu Yun is a teacher in his life, and he confessed in many conversations that it was Liu Yun who made him realize what a bad person he was.
It was also Liu Yun who taught him the ability to love and be loved, so that he learned to manage himself and take care of others, and he sincerely regarded Liu Yun as a cultivation in life.
In 2013, when their son Jagger was two years old, Liu Yun and Zheng Jun held a make-up wedding on Shangri-La Island in the Maldives.
The wedding link is very simple, only about half an hour long, and the original intention of the ceremony is to fulfill Liu Yun's father's wish to wear a suit at his daughter's wedding.
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
Despite this, the wedding shocked netizens, and some of Zheng Jun's friends felt that this matter was "not rock at all" and thought that he should not have a wedding at all.
Screenwriter Liao Yimei directly questioned Zheng Jun in an in-depth interview: "How to learn this kind of stardom style, what kind of wedding?" ”
She didn't believe that this was something that Zheng Jun did out of his heart, so she felt that he was not sincere.
However, Zheng Jun and Liu Yun don't care so much about others, they should still quarrel and quarrel, and they should be happy and happy.
Outsiders are surprised and surprised, and they can't interfere with other people's marriages, so they can only sigh with emotion.
Maybe Zheng Jun has been swinging for more than twenty years, waiting for Liu Yun who can subdue him? Surprised thousands of times, in the end silently blessed.
Sisyphus in the family
In this way, Liu Yun and Zheng Jun's mode of getting along seems to have not changed, today is noisy tomorrow, and after the quarrel is over.
But noisy or noisy, noisy or noisy, how did the attitude of netizens quietly change from "respect and blessing" to "Sister Yun divorce"? I have to start with "Wife's Romantic Trip" again.
In the show, Chen Qiaoen once acted as an audience substitute, and after listening to the quarrel between the two, she once asked Liu Yun with a question mark on her face: "Why did you fall in love with him in the first place?" ”。
Liu Yun said that it was due to her personality, and she was the kind of character who was willing to endure pain for love.
"Since you are eighty percent my ideal type, then the remaining twenty percent of my personality that I can't digest, I am willing to tolerate out of love, I change myself to carry you."
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Liu Yun softened Zheng Jun for fifteen years with this tolerance, only to make him change from the way he was when he was when he was just in love to what he is now.
Very outrageous, in the eyes of most audiences, the current Zheng Jun is already intolerable and difficult for ordinary people, but when he was just in love, he was more self-centered than now.
At that time, Liu Yun was sick, Zheng Jun did not know how to accompany her to the hospital, he felt that even if he accompanied her, he could not change anything, the pain could not be transferred to him, and he could not take medicine and infusion for Liu Yun, so this matter was not necessary at all.
Source: The sixth season of "Wife's Romantic Trip"
Liu Yun told him like a child that he needed to take care of him when he was sick, and he wanted to take himself to the hospital, and register, and give drips, and Zheng Jun did what Liu Yun said.
After reading this paragraph, her sister was directly stunned, I said what is going on in this plot, I thought that the two people were noisy and happy, but how is it the story of this mother-like wife transforming a middle-aged rebellious partner who "is a teenager to death"!
It is also when I see this that I understand why we are so angry every time we see Zheng Jun ignoring Liu Yunai's answer
- Because we're really fed up with this marriage model.
Fed up, Liu Yun took over the big things in Zheng Jun's life, and the small things were complained about and managed too much.
Fed up, Zheng Jun comfortably enjoyed all the care that Liu Yun provided him, and complained about not being free enough.
Fed up, Zheng Jun can never see his own problems, and only feels that Liu Yun is "not sensible enough".
Even in this relationship with a huge age difference, Liu Yun is the much younger one, and she still takes on the responsibility of taking care of the entire family.
In the first appearance of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", Liu Yun proudly introduced what she accomplished in a year:
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In addition to filming, she also installed two houses, took care of her son, and helped Zheng Jun prepare for the concert, which is really "up to the hall and down to the kitchen".
The following year, Zheng Jun went to participate in "The Brother Who Broke Through Thorns", which helped Liu Yun stabilize the image of "Gu family expert".
Packing up before departure, Liu Yun helped Zheng Jun match his daily clothes, indicate the date into the box, and clean up the messy box.
And Zheng Jun, who really wants to go out, only needs to return to the room after practicing a set of yoga, and then he can close the box and go.
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What a familiar scene, when the entertainment news floating in the sky falls into the real life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, we find that Liu Yun and Zheng Jun are the same as many middle-aged couples we see in our lives.
In these families, housework is naturally divided between the wife, and it does not matter whether she has her own career or her own hobbies, because taking care of the family's affairs is her first priority.
The mother cooks and the father eats; The mother does the laundry, the father dresses; The mother makes the bed, the father lies in bed...
In as many ordinary families as these things happen day after day, as many women become Sisyphus in the family:
Clean up the dirty things, clean things are dirty again, and the cycle continues, there is no end, these trivial household chores are the boulders they hold up all day long.
What's even more frightening is that these boulders are sometimes almost transparent, and few people know how much energy they put into them, and few people cherish and appreciate the fruits of their labor.
People who don't know why even have to envy the sentence: "You do the housework every day, it's so easy!" ”
Corresponding to this "ease" is the hard work of the husband to support the family outside the home, so everything becomes more reasonable.
It is reasonable for men to sit on the sofa and brush short videos as soon as they get home, it is reasonable to not be able to distinguish between sugar and salt, it is reasonable not to use a mop, it is reasonable to not find their own clothes, after all, they are "already so tired outside, they should go home and rest".
So women also go to work, can they get rid of such a life? Of course not.
Even if both people work outside the home, housework is still the default responsibility of women in most families, and it is the first duty.
No matter how important it is, keeping the home clean and tidy is something a good wife and mother must do, so everything makes sense again.
It makes sense for women to go home to cook between busy work, it makes sense to clean the entire house after work, it makes sense to apologize for not coming home on time to cook, and who makes them "put the cart before the horse and can't do even the most basic things."
The reason why netizens were so angry and advised Liu Yun to divorce was because we understood that all this was neither reasonable nor reasonable.
We know that motherhood and nanny wife are not the misfortunes that any woman should suffer in a relationship.
Happily, from envy of the prodigal son to rejection of such a marriage, now we have finally seen through the trap.