"Obscenity", be wary of this evil black hand reaching out to the child

5 yuan a photo of a private part, 20 yuan a video involving privacy..., as an adult, seeing such information, no one will be moved by such content except angry.

But what if such information is seen by children?

In many corners that parents do not understand, more and more "air molestation" is happening to primary and secondary school students

Not long ago, a father in Luohe, Henan Province, was saddened to discover that his daughter was induced to send private photos

His daughter is just 12 years old and in the 6th grade of primary school, and the father found that his daughter secretly used her mobile phone to chat with strange netizens, and the content was unbearable

The father said that his daughter first joined the "red envelope group" from the anchor of the short video app, and this group was just grabbing red envelopes, and the anchor knew that there were primary school students in the group, and also emphasized that primary school students could only send red envelopes under 5 yuan

Slowly, someone in the group arranged a "group CP", and this 12-year-old girl actually reached a "love" relationship with multiple netizens at the same time.

Further down, things change.

Some netizens sent a message asking if the girl lacked money, is there anything to buy? And tell the girl that if there is something to buy, tell the "sister" in exchange: "Sister introduce you to a few male friends and go and accompany them." ”‍‍

At first, the girl was reluctant to send photos, but the other party would induce them through chat and transfer.

The girl said that many of her classmates played like this.

When she heard her classmates say more, she also wanted to join, even if she knew it was wrong, she couldn't help the temptation of profit.

On October 28, 2022, the Supreme People's Procuratorate released a report on juvenile procuratorial work, pointing out that crimes against minors have continued to rise in the past five years, among which cases of "indecent assault" against minors have been frequent and frequent.

Since 2018, the Supreme People's Procuratorate has issued guiding cases to establish the principle of prosecution of indecent acts without physical contact as offline crimes. By September 2022, 1,130 people had been prosecuted for using the Internet to "molest" minors.

Different from traditional physical contact, "air molestation" is more concealed and more harmful. It is like a dangerous, invisible evil black hand, taking advantage of the openness and convenience of the Internet to reach out to minors in secret.

They will use chat tools to find target objects, and use children's ignorance and curiosity to achieve their goals. The media reported a case of "air molestation" in Guangzhou, where a 35-year-old man committed the crime by looking for underage girls through QQ, and after passing friends, he would directly ask the other party if he could "chat"

He would also find handsome photos of young boys on the Internet, pretend to be himself, establish an online relationship with girls, and then ask the girls to send him nude photos

Once the girl is fooled and sends photos, if she does not want to continue sending photos, she will be blackmailed. The man threatened the girl that he would discredit her by spreading the photographs. After a girl was threatened, she was very scared and hesitated for 20 days, she plucked up the courage to tell her mother about it, and the girl's mother decisively called the police, and the man was caught

These lewd criminals also use children's vanity to achieve their goals. They also painted gullible girls, and girls who liked Lolita skirts, Hanfu, and JK uniforms were usually their targets. Once girls share photos of themselves wearing these clothes on various social platforms, they can easily receive various "picture" text messages or messages.

In Wuhan, an 11-year-old girl was lured like this. She loves Lolita dresses and often shares photos of herself in uniform on her short video account, and then she receives similar text messages. The girl added WeChat according to the text message, and the other party's avatar was a pink girl with a cat headband, and the girl thought that the picture was received by the "sister" who liked the Lolita skirt as much as herself.

This "sister" is very direct, telling the girl that the "shy picture" is 5 yuan a piece, the "bath video" is 20 yuan a piece, the girl uses 6 photos and 4 videos, of which the video the other party said that it is too pasty, and finally the girl's private photo was only changed for 91 yuan

After the girl's parents found out, they insisted on calling the police. Finally, it was discovered that the so-called "sister" was a 26-year-old man who sold mobile phones in a county town in Guangxi

Many people think that the girl did this because the family situation is not good, in fact, the girl's family situation is not bad, so after the incident, the girl's family resolutely did not compensate, but demanded severe punishment of the criminal

There are also criminals who will use children's favorite games, anime, etc. to lure. Insert all kinds of violent and pornographic information into relevant content, and if children click on it without experience, they will be easily affected.

Once encountered a real case, when the child was playing games, he met a person in the chat room, and the two people added friends to each other, and at the beginning that person was particularly enthusiastic and taught the child to clear the game, which naturally easily won the child's favor.

Slowly, the other party also told the child that he could help him recharge the game, on the condition that the child undress in front of the camera. This behavior was repeated many times, until one day, the child's mother accidentally bumped into it.

Some criminal gangs will also take advantage of children's vanity to lure children to shoot various indecent videos in the name of shooting children's films, looking for child models, and cultivating stars.

Bad guys always tell children that they will take them to realize their dreams in the name of training managers, directors, etc., which is not easy to arouse suspicion, and children are easily deceived. At first, scammers will only ask for basic photos of children, and slowly, they will make "higher" demands, with physical audits, sensitivity tests, compliance tests ... etc. ask the child to take indecent photos or videos.

Even if the child understands that this is not good, the scammer will abduct the child on the grounds of "be brave for the sake of dreams" and "know how to dedicate oneself to art". There are also many children who are fooled for such reasons.

Because the case of "air molestation" has great concealment, criminals cleverly take advantage of the child's fear, and carry out various threats and persecution on them, and the child is violated and does not dare to tell the parents, if the parents are not familiar with the operation of network security, the child is difficult to find out by air molestation. Of the cases of child molestation that have been discovered so far, dozens of children have often been victims in one case. Many children who have been deceived are concentrated in the age of 9-13 years old.

Because of this, parents need to be more vigilant and never ignore the negative impact of the Internet on their children. It should be remembered that even if the offender does not have physical contact with the victim, as long as the Internet is used to force minors under the age of 14 to send photos, videos, nude chats, and even insulting and obscene language, it is a serious violation of children's personal dignity and mental health. Such conduct is the same social harm as the obscene act of actually touching the child's body, and shall be found to constitute the crime of child molestation.

At the same time, as parents, they also need to strengthen the supervision of children's online use and protect the security of children's online use.

First of all, you can't be too relieved, let your children go online, and be sure to check regularly.

In this day and age, it is completely impossible not to let children go online. Our lives are increasingly dependent on the Internet, and for us to survive in our own online lives, children also need to access useful information online. We can't let a child live in a vacuum, and giving him free time online is necessary to grow up.

But letting your kids go online isn't the same as letting it go. Leaving the child alone immersed in the Internet is like leaving the child alone in the bustling crowd, leaving him alone to face the information of the whole world, and in the absence of protection, the chance of the child being badly influenced and deceived will be greatly increased, which is a very dangerous thing.

Therefore, let the child go online under the condition of ensuring safety, agree with the child to use electronic products, timely understand what he is doing online, know his Internet browsing history, know who he chats with on the Internet, and what he chats about.

Secondly, it is necessary to maintain smooth parent-child communication, understand the child's developmental needs, and tell the child how to protect himself.

Children are growing up every day, at every age, children have growth and exploration needs, according to the child's growth and psychological development, timely instilled the right information into them through positive means.

When children know in their hearts what the right thing to do is, they will not be affected by the wrong trend of thought.

To tell him the online safety instructions, let him know that you can not disclose your name, age, address and school class and other private information to others on the Internet, let alone expose your physical privacy online, if someone makes unreasonable requests, you must tell your parents in time.

It is necessary to teach children to use the Internet correctly, and do not be too at ease with children, and check your child's Internet access every once in a while to know his movements. It is also necessary to teach children what to do if they encounter bad people on the Internet, how to retain evidence, and how to deal with things when encountered.

As a parent, let your child know that we welcome him to come to us at any time to discuss any issues that are of interest or influence to him. Regardless of the child's performance, be tolerant, give the child time to digest, but insist on the correct guidance. Let the child know that even if he does something wrong and is afraid, his parents will face it with him, bear it with him, and bear the consequences with him, so that when the child encounters problems, he will tell his parents.

Third, understand the topics he communicates with his friends.

Knowing what is popular in your child's circle of friends will you understand whether the topic your child is communicating about is harmless.

Children love to show off what they have, and in a class, as long as one child understands something new and fun, he can lead the whole class. And in the case of the whole class is popular, if there is a child who does not know anything, that child may become the isolated party, lose his partner, and even he will be laughed at by other friends.

In order to keep children from being abandoned by their friends, and to see safe and harmless content, timely supervision by parents is very important.

We would also like to remind everyone to pay attention to the topic of communication between children, children are at school 8 hours a day, and they communicate with each other far more than we think. (And don't think that such communication began in elementary school, in fact, the communication of children in kindergarten today may be beyond your imagination.) ）

Therefore, it is necessary to understand in time what the topics of communication between children are, so that the correct knowledge can be taught to children in time.

Fourth, communicate with your child as sincerely as a friend.

The child is getting bigger and bigger, the sense of autonomy is getting stronger and stronger, if a serious, especially serious let the child put down the things he likes to talk to him, the child is easy to resist, or choose to avoid talking.

Therefore, parent-child communication should be at the right time, under the appropriate circumstances where the child is willing to communicate, patiently and constantly explain with a scientific attitude, sincerely communicate with the child like a friend, respect the child's feelings, tolerate the child's ignorance, and the child will slowly open the correct information channel.

In the conversation, continue to deepen the content, so that the child gradually understands the correct knowledge, knows the right practice, and makes the child understand that doing so is responsible for his own life.

When a child knows to cherish herself and be responsible for her life, she will make more positive choices.

Children are constantly growing, and parents have different tasks at each stage. Parents must stand firm in their own position, understand their children, and guide their children in a timely and correct manner in order to protect their children from being guided by bad people.