#大有学问 #
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Bear children have a pejorative connotation, a term of northern origin that refers to children who are annoying. It is defined by netizens as those children who flip things around, engage in sabotage, unruly, and lawless.
Bear children are divided into two categories, according to the criteria are their parents: First, parents can recognize the child's problems, and also criticize and manage the child, but the results are not great. Second, parents cannot see their children's problems, and if something happens, they will only find the responsibility of other people or society. In short, his children are right, they are all right.
The two situations should be treated separately, the first slowly accepting them and then helping them correct the problem. The second is to stay away from them, do not think that you are saints, and God is not omnipotent. Besides, there is a place in the world called a prison.
In my second year at this school, I met a group of bear children. When I came, I received the second grade of junior high school from someone else, and my grades were poor, but the children's character was good, let me manage. Later, their overall performance improved? So I successfully followed the third year of junior high school.
Every year, the third year of junior high school will be divided into separate classes. When I got the list of classes, I looked, good guys, there are seven students in the second (2nd) class of junior high school in our class, one girl and six boys. Last year, this class was a chaotic class for the whole school. The class teacher was angry, and the shawl was scattered to find the principal to resign, and the subject teacher was angry, often in class, and ran back to the office crying ... The point is that in our class, three are the leaders of the trouble, and one is transferred from the outer school because of the fight. I quickly went to the grade leader and asked, "Can I transfer it?" It's so bunch! The leader shook his head and disagreed. I pondered for a while and wanted to contact two of the "Mixed World Demon Kings" in advance. Okay, I'll take over; No, I quit my homeroom teacher.
In the afternoon before school started, I called the parents of the two children and said, "Ask the two children to come and help, come to the school and help me clean the classroom." "Both children arrived, one home ten miles away from the school, and the other more than 20 miles away from the school. We lined up the tables together, there were not enough tables in the classroom, we went to the carport to pick out the tables, and then moved back, and the three of us were sweating. Sweeping, mopping... Dried for three hours.
We chatted as we worked, knowing that the baby-faced boy's father was an electrician and often beat him with the soles of his shoes and sticks; I also know that the tall, handsome child has the largest supermarket in town at home, and there is no time to care about him every day... I felt that we could have fun and didn't ask the grade leader for anything.
Change does not happen overnight, and the pleasant cooperation at the beginning is a mutual trial. Soon, Teacher Qi, truant class, and gangsters all came. However, fortunately, the parents are reasonable and are on the side of the teacher. So, I divide and conquer.
Two good grades, one girl, communicate more, woo; A boy, bad things basically he planned, behind-the-scenes command, basically made a mistake, just put him at the door to stand guard, himself whispered to class, he can't learn knowledge, definitely beg for mercy.
Two medium-grade, good-grade single subjects, diligent encouragement, give opportunities for performance, of course, sometimes have to be slightly suppressed.
Those three students are poor, the third year of junior high school new physics electricity, chemistry, etc. must know, check them more, can not give up.
The boy with good grades was forced by me to teach chemistry problems to students every day, and the two with medium grades became a representative of the physics class, and the other was active in checking dictation, and the other was a sports committee, and no one dared to disobey! Even the worst boy passed the physics test ...
Just like that, it didn't stop them from causing trouble, and one day, Yusan was called out by the leader again. What's going on? They went upstairs to cheer on their second-year classmates. As a result, the classmates of the people beat me very badly, and were sent to my office by the leader, and they also shouted for wrong, and they all promised: they will never cause trouble for me. Later, a parent told me that his bear child said that our head teacher, like my own mother, hoped that we would study well. He also said that once, during self-study, other classes were poor students cleaning the classroom, and our class was the classroom that the class teacher cleaned by himself, so we all hurried to do homework..., and love labor also had an unexpected effect.
Later, only one of those 7 students was a boy, who was not admitted to high school, the others went to high school, and then later, some became soldiers, some became teachers, and some became officers... During the epidemic, one of the students specially drove me 100 masks.