The title of stay-at-home mother is derived from women who quit their jobs to take care of their children and family and stay home full-time with their babies!
In our parents' generation, women are responsible for giving birth to children and taking care of the family, and men are responsible for making money to support the family! Such a social phenomenon is a big stream, which is natural and logical. No one feels wrong!
And now, if a woman gives birth at home, takes children, does not go to work. It will be said that it is lazy, incapable, and raised by men!
Is the times changing, is the public's thinking changed, or the requirements for women have become higher, or do women have requirements for self-realization?
In the stage of 0-3 years old when the baby is 0-3 years old, in fact, many mothers have the willingness to take care of the baby full-time. On the one hand, first-time mothers want to accompany their children all the time; On the one hand, personal ideas and planning are different; There are also people who have to quit their jobs because they have no one to take care of their children!
But do you think the stay-at-home mom is at home playing with her children?
Of course, I still admire those mothers who have given birth to the eldest and come back to the second eldest the most! You guys are amazing! Such a family, mothers must remember a great job!
Members of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC) have proposed to pay close attention to full-time mothers, affirm their social value, and actively publicize a positive image. Let the society see the value of stay-at-home mothers and affirm the fruits of their labor. Give re-starting moms more opportunities!
When we become stay-at-home moms, we lose our financial capacity, we lose our circle of friends, we lose our social time, we lose our time to dress ourselves. Surrounding us are children, housework, husbands.
If your husband can understand you, care about you, and love you, even if you linger in this firewood, rice, oil and salt, it can be regarded as warm! But if your husband thinks that bringing children is your business, it is your responsibility to bring it badly, and if you get old and ugly and fat, I will dislike and dislike you, then it is really a woman's sadness!
Of course, even if we become a full-time mother, we can't give up ourselves, don't be blindly anxious, don't put pressure on your husband, you are anxious, the family atmosphere is not good, you can't blame him for being yin and yang weird, disgusted by him!
We should enrich ourselves and find our own warmth even in this day after day full of fireworks!
We should stop internal friction, put aside external sounds, use trivial time, and don't think about some messy things that are not there! Treat yourself with some delicious food, draw beautiful makeup and take the children on outings and socializing. Use your leisure time to find a part-time job you like, read books, record texts, everything can make our lives full!
Managing life and marriage well is also an art!
Let's be a stay-at-home mom full of positive energy!
Even if you become a full-time mother and have no income, don't become a woman who "tightens clothes and food", and don't feel that you have lost your confidence. Only women who are not confident in themselves will lose the initiative in life; People who do not have enthusiasm for life will be eliminated by society!