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«——[·Preface·] ——»
Some time ago, some netizens met Lejia by chance in the United States. Le Jia was dressed casually, still with his iconic bald head, and I saw him pushing a shopping cart and just purchasing it from the supermarket.
The trunk and shopping cart are full of things, Fiji mineral water is also bought in a full box, many netizens sigh that after leaving domestic entertainment for so many years, Lejia's consumption power is still resistant.
Some people even say that he makes money at home and spends abroad, and mixes in foreign countries. Lejia, who became popular from "Do Not Disturb", has rarely appeared in the public's attention in recent years.
From the peak of his career to his disappearance in the entertainment industry, what did Le Jia do?
First, "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere" made him
At the beginning, Jiangsu Satellite TV's blind date program "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere", with a novel theme, once broadcast, it was popular all over the country, and at the same time, there was also an emotional expert, Lejia.
His vicious comments on the show hit the nail on the head, and his cooperation with host Meng Fei brought a lot of interesting pictures to everyone, and he was also known as the gold medal mentor.
In fact, long before appearing on the stage of "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere", Le Jia founded the China Character Color Research Center and is a leader in the field of personality analysis.
Not only that, he is also very good at speeches, and has been speaking on stage since he was 21 years old, and has given thousands of large-scale speeches.
Even the media said of him:
A genius speaker who coexists with thought and expression, a magician who deciphers character.
From which point of view, Lejia is very successful, so what made him choose the stage of "Do Not Disturb"?
The 35-year-old Le Jia has been doing it for a long time in his field, and he is already very skilled in stage and speech, and at this time, under the introduction of a friend, he came into contact with the producer of the "Do Not Disturb" program.
For a producer to create a brand new show, he needs someone who doesn't appear on TV much, who can speak well and understand a little bit of psychology. The above points happen to be in line with the above points.
But crossing the line to do unfamiliar areas is very risky, and Le Jia has such worries.
I don't have much exposure to TV, and I have had TV experience before, but most of them are frustrated.
But this also does not have the confidence of Percussion, and he wants to try again, to hone his ability to perform on TV, and at the same time see if he has the explosiveness and potential in this area.
In this way, in 2010, Le Jia appeared on the stage of "Do Not Disturb".
But the recording was not successful at the beginning, and Le Jia felt like he was being treated as a vase-like decoration, and there was no way to speak in the middle, and he could only speak his point of view when he made a comment at the end.
After making some adjustments, Le Jia was able to speak freely and become an emotional expert to analyze and answer the doubts of the guests at the scene.
The host Meng Fei talked about the style, and Le Jia commented sharply, but he did not expect that the effect brought to the audience was surprisingly good, and the response was enthusiastic.
The "bald head combination" broke everyone's inherent impression of the traditional program host, not only the "Do Not Disturb" program was popular, but the two people also became a highlight of the program and won the audience's attention.
This show raised Lejia's identity by more than one level, and also made him begin to move towards a sad ending.
Lejia's comments were sharp, and at first it was liked by many people. But as the show continued to expose, this character began to be unpopular, and even everyone began to hate it.
I don't know if it is famous, Lejia's personality in the show is becoming more and more prominent, often doing some strange things to attract attention, speaking more and more out of proportion, and often stealing the limelight of the guests of the show.
Many times because of the lack of words, the guests were dissatisfied, and even Meng Fei could not stop it. The former "golden partner" also seems to have a gap. On the show, the two also had a dispute in person.
On the show, in front of all the audience, Le Jia questioned Meng Fei's ability to host, always imposed his opinion on others, and did what to host.
Meng Fei immediately shot back:
"When it comes to imposing one's opinion on others, you are better than me."
The stage is full of gunpowder, and the scene is very embarrassing.
Since 2011, it has been reported many times that the two people have conflicts, and after being absent from the show for a period of time, Le Jia officially announced his withdrawal after recording the last episode of "Do Not Disturb" in January 2013, and the two have never shared the stage again.
Second, let go of yourself
Lejia, who left "Do Not Disturb", did not return to his offline speech, but continued to stay in this circle.
At first, his career was not greatly affected, because the previous popularity brought him a lot of traffic and topics. So he later served as the host of "Chief Night Talk" and "Night Question".
In these shows, Lejia completely became himself, showing no scruples, and the controversy over him is increasing.
After that, his career gradually declined, and the reason was that he was too crazy and unscrupulous.
As a mentor in "Super Speaker", he spoke ill of the host Hua Shao, saying that he was a hypocritical person and directly detonated the audience. Not only that, but he hugged and kissed female trainees on the show many times.
Coincidentally, on the show "Mr. Super", Le Jia and Jing quarreled because of their disagreement.
Lejia, who couldn't quarrel with the other party, was out of control, and loudly reprimanded Jingjing: "You have to listen to me." ”
Serenity is also a fiery temper, and the scene is very intense, and the recording of the program was stopped for a while.
In the end, Xie Na came forward to resolve this farce. But then Lejia's behavior was shocking.
Le Jia once publicly said that he admired Xie Na, on the show, Le Jia walked towards Xie Na, first stroked Xie Na's hair with his hand, and then hugged Xie Na into his arms, and suspected of wanting to kiss Xie Na, Xie Na was very reluctant and cleverly used her body to hide.
But Lega also feels good about himself, saying publicly:
"Since I met Xie Na, I regret that I got married so early."
His demeanor and language are frivolous, which makes his popularity worse and worse.
What made him completely collapse was once "drunk madness" on the show.
In 2015, on the show, Lejia drank liquor on the spot for his students, and a bottle went down, completely exposing his nature.
His own trainee Cui Wanzhi was eliminated by Venus because of his poor performance, and the drunken Lejia lost control of his emotions and began to speak wildly and play drunken madness.
When Lu Yu dissuaded, he was also scolded by him. Even Jin Xing and Dou Wentao were scolded to leave the scene angrily, and the staff came forward to persuade to no avail.
After this program, Le Jia was criticized by "Liberation Daily", and his own wind reviews also dropped rapidly, and even no program dared to invite him, and Le Jia rarely appeared in the public eye since the second year, insulated from the entertainment industry.
Because of his arrogance left the screen, for the sake of life, he picked up his own speech industry and received business speeches everywhere.
But at this time, everyone's evaluation of him is unable to control emotions, his personality is irritable, and the previous emotional experts and life mentors no longer exist. Let his later oratory career also take a hit.
At the same time as the failure of his career, the marriage suffered a setback, his wife divorced him, and he became a single father.
From the explosion of TV shows to no one's attention, in just 5 years, Le Jia fell from the peak to the bottom, and no one else is to blame for this, it was all caused by himself.
Third, character defects
Lejia's current failure is inseparable from his upbringing.
Lejia's family conditions are average, and it is common for parents to quarrel over money, which makes Lejia withdrawn and rebellious in such a family environment.
After graduating from secondary school, under the arrangement of his parents, Lejia entered a bank to work. But the stubborn Le Jia did not like boring work at all, he quit his job and decided to break into the outside world.
In 1993, only 18 years old, Le Jia started working in sales, and with his excellent eloquence, he not only had a good income but also was appreciated by the leadership.
After having money, Le Jia began to pursue new life goals. In 1995, Le Jia began to give speeches with the contacts and eloquence accumulated in sales for two years, and quickly became popular.
Since then, he has also begun the highlight of his life, giving speeches and publishing books, and even appearing on the stage of "Do Not Disturb If You Are Insincere".
From sales at the beginning to his presentation career to emotional mentoring, the first half of Lejia's life can not be described as inspirational.
But he doesn't know how to cherish it, if he wasn't so arrogant and humble back then, he wouldn't have mixed up to the point he is today with his popularity on the show and his talents.
The flaws of character are a fatal blow to him, society is cruel, and no one will tolerate and indulge you all the time.
There were many opportunities for him to regret and apologize before, but he was blinded by success and did not know how to self-reflect. In the end, he paid a terrible price for his actions.
From the news that netizens have previously reported, Le Jia has moved to the United States to live. In August last year, he shared a video on social platforms, saying that he was on a blind date, and was disliked by the other party for divorce with children, and was very shocked.
His relationship path has not been smooth, he has been married three times, and I think he should look for problems in himself.
Running to settle in the United States, many netizens sighed that they had already earned enough money and spent it abroad.
Because Lejia received speeches everywhere in the back, the venue that used to be disdainful of less than 10,000 people did not go, and now the performance in the small county town will go even if only 3,000 people will go. Everyone thought that he was down, but they did not expect that the skinny camel was bigger than the horse.
If he hadn't gotten carried away, maybe we could still see him, no matter what, I hope he can correct his mentality and restrain himself in the future.
Fourth, behind the failure is thought-provoking
Everyone comes from different backgrounds, which does not represent and decide anything, and take every step steadily on the road of life in the future. Don't get carried away and be arrogant because of temporary victories.
Only by remaining calm and humble can you avoid making mistakes.
But Le Jia does not understand this, he does not know to converge his character, has no scruples in front of the public, does not think about his identity as a public figure to do something out of the ordinary, and is finally eliminated by everyone.
I don't know if Le Jia has regretted some of his original actions.
People can have their own unique views, the host's comments are sharp is also a style, what we can't accept is the arrogant Lejia who can't control his emotions.
We must have a sense of crisis, put our own mentality right, and grasp the direction of our life!
V. Conclusion
From the top emotional mentor in China to the marginal figure in the entertainment industry that is almost unpopular today, Lejia's downhill has already been created, and he should be blamed most on himself when he falls from the altar.
Even if you are gifted and talented, character is the hole card that will not fall!
As a public figure, you should establish a correct image, rather than arbitrarily and arrogantly.
Those who hope to reach the top should not forget the road they came from, and if their original intention does not change, they can go a long way.