Recently, I participated in an elderly group trip, and there were 4 elderly couples who claimed to be husband and wife.
I have already talked about family No. 1 and family No. 2 earlier, and today I will introduce you to two other families.
Their mode of getting along is very similar to that of ordinary families around us, with enviable care and care, as well as unexplained distress and quarrels.
Family No. 3: Aunts and uncles around 60 years old
This one is more popular overall, because the aunt in this couple belongs to the cheerful and bold type.
Love to talk loud and loud, jokes and laughter are very infectious.
Auntie has a generous personality, as long as she sits in the car, she likes to take out snacks and distribute them to everyone, whether she knows them or not, she has the aura of a big sister.
The aunt is also very capable, she also brings the cured fish and curd made at home and puts it on the table for everyone to eat during meals.
One detail is: the aunt always opens the cap of the bottle containing the curd milk, picks a little for the uncle with chopsticks, and puts it on the table for everyone to try her craft.
Everyone used the chopsticks they ate to pick in the bottle, and when everyone got it, the aunt took the bottle and picked it out for her to eat, not minding at all that the chopsticks of so many people in front of them went in and picked it.
When everyone praised her pickled fish and curd milk for their deliciousness, she couldn't keep her mouth shut with a smile.
How can this character not be pleasant?
Auntie They signed up together with 6 people, in addition to the aunt and uncle, there were 4 other women.
The age looks similar, about 60 years old, the personality is similar, crazy to lift the roof of the car, soon live a small circle.
The uncle talks less, but he is not much and unpleasant, and he is like a little follower next to his aunt.
Sometimes looking at them, I really envy them.
The first is complementary personalities, the aunt is cheerful and bold, and the uncle always accompanies the aunt despite not talking much, which is the greatest support and appreciation for the aunt.
That's what we always say: you're making him laugh.
The second is to care and take care of each other, every time the aunt eats the first chopstick dish is always sandwiched to the uncle, and every time she eats a snack, she also grabs a handful for the uncle first.
The uncle also looks very good, every time there is boiling water, he beats the water with his aunt, knowing that his aunt likes to eat chestnuts, and he also bought a bag of 20 yuan freshly fried hot chestnuts for his aunt at the entrance of the scenic area.
Everyone can see that Auntie is a very capable person, but she does not complain about people who do less because of her ability, she enjoys letting others taste the fruits of her labor, and she also enjoys the process of taking care of others.
Of course, when others give back to her, she shows heartfelt happiness, which can be felt from her unconcealed laughter.
I often wonder: What kind of virtue does the uncle have, to meet such a capable and good character as the aunt?
After a day of playing at the attractions, some of them rested in the car, and some chatted below.
I heard the 4 aunts sitting in the back of the car talking about this uncle, saying that the uncle has not joked with them since he was with this aunt, and the person who used to joke with them has now stopped joking, and even said less.
I asked them: Have you all known each other before?
One of the aunts said: "We all live closer, we go to the park near our home every morning to exercise, and we have been playing together for a long time. ”
Then told me that my uncle used to talk and laugh with them, quite a happy person, since being with my aunt, it seems to have changed as a person, and they have become a lot stranger to them, and they no longer joke with their uncle.
I said, "So now it's different, Sha, can you still joke as casually as before?" There has to be a sense of boundaries and proportion.
But these two have really good personalities, quite a good pair. ”
The aunts said: The girls of the two of them have solved it, and the grandson is also older, and the two of them have a better life, they don't have to worry about anything, they are happy and worried.
In addition to envy or envy in the words ...
I hope they will always be happy like this, bless them.
Family No. 4: Aunts and uncles around 60 years old
The deepest impression of this pair is that the aunt chews the uncle all the time, which is what we usually call broken love.
For example: the uncle is not wearing a mask, and he does not pay attention to safety at all.
For example: the uncle did not wipe his hands with alcohol paper before eating, and he did not remember how many times he said it.
Anyway, I always hear her voice, and the uncle seems to be the role of the child being stared at by the parents for education.
Even the other uncle sitting next to them couldn't stand it, and said to the aunt: "You chew a few times, and your mouth doesn't rest for a while, thanks to your husband can stand you, change to how others live, listen to where you are chattering along the way, and don't be tired." ”
Auntie's husband hurriedly said: "It used to be said that she loved to chew it, but it has become more and more serious in recent years, and she has been chewing endlessly in front of people." ”
The aunt said: "Blame me for chewing you, you do things like that, I have to worry about everything." ”
The uncle next to him said: "You can't worry less, he is a big person, Moss doesn't know about things, and you have to teach him, he is not a fool." ”
At lunchtime, we sat down at a table with this aunt.
The aunt scalded and scalded her and her uncle's bowls and chopsticks with boiling water, and then gave the uncle alcohol paper and asked him to quickly wipe his hands.
The dishes were served plate by plate, and the aunt took out disposable chopsticks and put a pair on each dish.
But everyone at this table was in a panic to eat, and no one used the male chopsticks, so they used their own chopsticks to clamp.
When the aunt saw this situation, she quickly grabbed a plate of dishes in front of her that no one had yet moved chopsticks, and rushed to her and her husband's bowl.
After finishing the dishes, the aunt moved the bench back and ate alone with the bowl, probably not touching other dishes.
When she was about to serve food on the table, she hit her hand with chopsticks.
She said: "I have all the dishes for you, you still have something to sandwich, eat what is in your bowl." ”
Hehe, many families around me are like this, it would be strange to say that they are not real couples.
I heard my aunt say that she is the eldest at home and has two younger brothers below.
The mother lives alone, she was sick some time ago, and her aunt was taking care of her alone, but now the situation is much better, and her husband wants to take her out for a trip, saying that she is too tired to take care of her mother during this time, and go out to play and relax.
I said, "Your husband is so nice, I know you worked hard to bring you out to play." ”
The aunt said: "It's not that I worry about everything, he is too sloppy and doesn't pay attention to anything." ”
It was originally a good trip, but near the end, a bad episode occurred.
The aunt and the uncle quarreled in the car and almost started a fight, but fortunately the people next to them pulled them away.
Here's what happened:
On the tourist bus home on the last day of the trip, my aunt received a call from her grandson, chatted a few words, and asked her grandson if she wanted to say a few words to her grandfather...
The phone went to the uncle, and the uncle spoke gently to his grandson.
After the phone call, the aunt sitting in the back joked with her uncle, saying that he called his grandson like a different person.
As soon as the uncle mentioned his grandson, he immediately had spirit, and kept telling the aunt behind him how smart his grandson was.
The two talked all the way from their grandson about the uncle's own glorious achievements and achievements...
When the car arrived at the first stop in Hankou, the aunt asked the uncle to get off the bus, the uncle said that we live in Wuchang, and the second stop of the car will drive to Wuchang, what is the next train in Hankou?
But the aunt didn't seem to want to continue sitting, and had to get off the bus to take the subway home, and the two quarreled.
It seems to listen to what the aunt said about the uncle:
What kind of sand can you have, still blowing blindly outside.
Living for 60 years is not much to say on this day...
The two scolded and scolded and mentioned going to divorce, and then twisted together to start fighting.
The people next to them went to tear the two of them apart, and the aunt got out of the car with her bag on her back and left.
The uncle said: She just saw that I said a few words to others and felt uncomfortable, and we risked saying something abnormal, and did not give me any face when I went out.
Everyone advised the uncle to stop talking and hurry up to chase the aunt.
The uncle said: "How to chase, everything is clear, and it is a suitcase and a backpack, and these snacks and water cups are all packed up." ”
The car continued to the second stop, Wuchang, and the uncle also packed up his things and got out of the car.
When everyone said goodbye to each other, they said goodbye to their uncle.
The uncle said: "I still see a ghost, and in the future, I won't come out to travel, and I still play a ghost." ”
Huh...
Everyone's laughter was not alive, and they all asked the uncle to go back to the tampon point and say a few good words to the aunt.
I also understand why the aunt had to ask the uncle to get off at the first stop in Hankou, because the aunt who has been talking to the uncle got off at the second stop Wuchang.
Alas...
Auntie is sad because she feels that her uncle doesn't care about her feelings, and her uncle is angry because she thinks that she has not talked to other women about improper, why do you scold me.
This is the difference in thinking between men and women, one is love, the other is reason, husband and wife love and kill each other like this, a species that has been arguing all their lives but have not quarreled for a lifetime.
It's not easy to go out, but do it and cherish it.