Stickiness has always been a hot topic on the stage of "Do Not Disturb". In this Saturday (August 28) evening show, a female guest said: The stickiness between lovers is an expression of love for the other half. The three teachers believe that different lovers may have different definitions of clinginess and different degrees of acceptance, and it is best to find a scale to take care of each other's needs and feelings after careful communication. In addition, a beautiful state of love must be independent and coexist, and only by learning to be alone can two people get along better.
"Sticky people are expressions of love, and likes must be together all the time"
The male guest, Fang Cunbao, is a bully from Peking University, full of curiosity, loves to learn, has no procrastination, and does things decisively, and has many admirable advantages in him. Although he has excellent grades in school, he still needs to continue to learn in terms of feelings, "I often think that if it were as simple as an exam to fall in love, it would be better." I only know how to give with my heart, and I am willing to do what she likes for the person she likes. For example, my ex likes to eat hot pot, and I don't eat spicy much, but I still accompany her to eat every time. I just think it's okay to just have a girlfriend happy. ”
Female guest Wang Liuxuan said: "I like male guests very much, but I don't know if you dislike girls who are particularly clingy. If I like someone, I have to be with you all the time, I have to follow you wherever you go, maybe you go to the bathroom will crouch in the doorway and chat with you, especially clingy. If you don't reply to my message, I'll keep calling you. Every relationship I have is like this, even if the other person can't stand to leave, I will hold my thigh and let him not go. Because I think clingy is an expression of a person's love, like to be together all the time, if you don't like it, I won't care so much about him. For this type of girl, Fang Cunbao is even more overwhelmed. Immediately after, Wang Liuxuan made another request, "Male guest, if your girlfriend wants to see your mobile phone, will you let her see it?" Which girl she wants to delete can be deleted? Anyway, I think all girls can't come and go, and I can delete all the opposite sex when I fall in love. Fang Cunbao couldn't help but respond: "I think there must be a reasonable degree, if I delete all the friends of the opposite sex, I may not be able to do it." ”
Good love is independent and coexisting, and learning to be alone can better coexist
For the sticky topic, Meng Fei said: there is no right or wrong between sticky people and non-sticky people, different lovers may have different definitions of sticky people, you like to stick to people every day, just go to find the person who loves to stick to you every day. The acceptance of sticky people also varies from person to person, some people like seven points sweet, and some people love the sweet kind. Therefore, it is best for two people to be able to seriously communicate their own needs and feelings, whether clingy or not, if each other can understand and adapt well, each other feel very happy and comfortable, then this way of getting along is suitable for you.
Huang Lan believes that a beautiful state of love should be independent and coexist, without sticking to people and appearing intimacy, 24-hour dependence will make people stressed. Two people together, both to accompany each other and give each other space, only learn to be alone with two people can get along better, "love a person must grasp the degree, like the female guest Wang Liuxuan, you may think that sticky people are the expression of love, you want each other to feel that you care about and pay attention to him, but all the time together or even delete all of each other's friends of the opposite sex, this way brings pressure and even fear to others." Chen Ming also suggested: both boys and girls must have their own life goals, have their own things to do, can not rely too much on each other, and can not take the other half as the only center of their own world, "Love is a part of life, not all." For other parts of life, we should also be very interested and make a difference, such as your career, your hobbies, and more windows to realize the value of your life. Two people in love are standing side by side, and they should always keep their own sight and space in order to operate a benign emotional relationship. ”
Wang Liuxuan insisted on leaving the lamp for the male guests to the end, listening to the suggestions of the three teachers, will her concept of love change? Can two people successfully hold hands?
Watch tip: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged at 20:30 pm this Saturday (August 28th) at night!