It is not difficult to find that the original intention of many female stars to enter the entertainment industry is to marry into a wealthy family, thinking that they can easily rewrite their lives.
Jia Jingwen, once the "goddess of purity" in everyone's mind, has had such an experience in her life.
After the two people were entangled for many years, they broke up unhappily and lost their reputation.
Many people say that Sun Zhihao is too careful, and Jia Jingwen married the wrong person, but when Sun Zhihao met the little model Lin Ruoya, he accepted his heart and was good to her wholeheartedly.
Why is that? After reading their emotional experiences, you may have some insights.
01 She was pregnant with a child, just to marry into a wealthy family
Sun Zhihao was born in a wealthy family, since he was sensible, he was much more naughty than his brother, often ran into trouble everywhere, and when he was growing up, his parents had a headache when they saw him and kept cleaning up the mess for him.
Sun Zhihao's most skinny time was when he was in high school, because he almost killed himself in drag racing, his father was frightened when he saw this, in order to make him more restrained, he got a green card and sent him to the United States, but he still caused trouble in the United States, and his parents had to take him back.
But what his parents didn't expect was that Sun Zhihao returned to China, put all his thoughts on chasing women, and when he met his favorite female star, he didn't blink his eyes when he smashed the money.
In his eyes, anyway, the family has money, not earned by himself, it is not painful to spend at all, and he regards money as a magic weapon to get a woman, and he spends it with a sense of accomplishment.
However, although Sun Zhihao is rich, he looks very average, so there are also women he can't get it, such as when he chased Lin Xinru, he was disliked by Lin Xinru is not rich and handsome, and when chasing "Little Swallow", it doesn't work to send a luxury car.
Later, Sun Zhihao went to chase He Meidian, but He Meidian knew very well how flowery his heart was, and did not take him to heart at all, and it was useless to refuse a few times, she saw him stalking, a posture of not giving up if he did not achieve his goal, and it was not good to offend in the open, so she introduced her good sister Jia Jingwen to him.
At that time, Jia Jingwen was 21 years old, which was at the peak of her appearance. When Sun Zhihao saw her for the first time, his eyes lit up, thinking that this was his favorite dish, and immediately launched a fierce pursuit.
Jia Jingwen didn't know Sun Zhihao before, seeing that he was the object of a friend's introduction, he thought that he must be a more reliable man, plus his family was very rich, and when he chased her, he threw money all kinds of money, so he moved his heart and soon became with him.
For Jia Jingwen at that time, marrying a rich man with good character was actually a very good choice.
Because her father's business failed and her family owed a lot of foreign debts, the reason why she entered the entertainment industry early was also to help her family reduce the burden. And Sun Zhihao's appearance is undoubtedly because she feels that marrying a rich man can help her family get out of trouble earlier.
I think that in real life, if many girls encounter a family situation like Jia Jingwen, they will also choose Sun Zhihao.
I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman wanting to live a better life without hurting others.
However, where did Jia Jingwen know that the man introduced by her friend was not a good person at all, and she regarded conquering different women as a skill from the beginning.
Although Sun Zhihao was just having fun, Jia Jingwen was obsessed with him and wanted to marry him, at that time, Sun Zhihao showed a caring look, which made Jia Jingwen think that she had met the right person.
In fact, Jia Jingwen's thoughts are very similar to those girls who long for love in reality, they always say: "I hope he will give me happiness, give me care, give me a stable life, and give me a warm home." ”
Such an idea, it was outrageously wrong at the beginning, and whether the life later is good or not, it really depends on luck.
02 She married into a wealthy family as she wished, but her heart was broken
Jia Jingwen's luck is not very good, because Sun Zhihao's hunting heart has no intention of stopping at this time.
In Sun Zhihao's eyes, Jia Jingwen was just one that happened to be caught when she cast her net.
Later, Jia Jingwen became pregnant, but Sun Zhihao did not think so, and there was no joy at all that he would become a father, let alone marry her into the door.
Originally, Jia Jingwen thought that if she had a child, she would be able to enter the wealthy family steadily. It wasn't until she was pregnant that she found that Sun Zhihao was still drinking and women outside, that she realized that her previous thoughts were too naïve.
But the wood has become a boat, Jia Jingwen does not want to turn back at this time, since the soft one does not work, then come to the hard one. Therefore, she directly announced her pregnancy, wanting to use the pressure of public opinion to force Sun Zhihao to be responsible for the child in her womb.
Who knows, this behavior did not make Sun Zhihao pay attention, but recruited the future mother-in-law and grandmother. The grandmother asked her out and treated her coldly, and said: "This child, you have to do DNA, only if it proves that it is my son's species, I will approve it." ”
With her grandmother's remarks, everyone with discerning eyes knows that she is questioning Jia Jingwen's innocence. At that time, whether Jia Jingwen did DNA or not, others would feel that she was a woman who messed around in the entertainment industry, which can be said to be a great humiliation.
Soon, scandals related to Jia Jingwen followed, many people are rumoring that she had relationships with many people during filming, her original pure and lovely image was no longer in an instant, filming resources began to fall off a cliff, even many directors who recognized her before, but also chose to give up on her because of her and the relationship between her and the wealthy cutter.
At that time, Jia Jingwen looked at the works she had received, and completely changed her role overnight, and sorrow came from it.
What makes her even more desperate is that she has been pregnant for 5 months, and it hurts her body too much, and it is precisely when she needs the company of her lover, but Sun Zhihao is still hugging the hot girls in the nightclub.
For this reason, Jia Jingwen was particularly angry and went directly to Sun Zhihao to make trouble, but after the future mother-in-law found out, she thought that all this was her own fault, and warned her: "You haven't married into the Sun family yet, so be funny." This only made him more disgusted. ”
The in-laws didn't care, Jia Jingwen herself had no choice, she could only bear the bitter fruit alone, and began to become quiet, thinking that by doing so, Sun Zhihao could stop confronting herself and slowly treat herself better.
Sun Zhihao watched that Jia Jingwen no longer made trouble, but became more intense, directly took the hot girl, drove around in a luxury car, and in less than 3 months, he was arrested for drunk driving.
After Sun Zhihao's family learned about it, they bailed him out as soon as possible, and after he came out, he was like a nobody, but Jia Jingwen was miserable, because of this, she was directly angry to give birth prematurely, and after the child was born, Sun Zhihao went over to take a look, and then continued to look for a hot girl night and night song.
At this time, many netizens began to sympathize with Jia Jingwen, and they were posting articles to persuade her not to marry Sun Zhihao, but Jia Jingwen insisted on going her own way and completed the wedding with Sun Zhihao under the arrangement of her mother-in-law.
After marriage, Jia Jingwen has been looking forward to Sun Zhihao's heart, but the days are getting worse and worse day by day, she and her daughter are not loved by her in-laws, and her husband does not pay attention to her.
Only then did Jia Jingwen completely die to Sun Zhihao, knowing that life could not be better depending on him, so she began to continue filming.
Later, she took over a drama, and her partner Huang Lei saw that she was always depressed in the crew, so he took good care of her, maybe usually getting closer, and others even spread the scandal between the two of them.
When Sun Zhihao saw such news come out, he immediately felt that he had been cuckolded, and after returning home, he began to quarrel with her.
Especially when he saw the kiss scene between Jia Jingwen and Huang Lei, Sun Zhihao directly exploded and insisted that Jia Jingwen sit on the sofa by herself and watch it all day before stopping, and warned her: "If you go to film again, we will divorce." ”
Although Sun Zhihao did not allow Jia Jingwen to have an affair with anyone, he was still looking for hot girls outside and throwing a lot of money. But in 2009, Jia Jingwen needed a sum of money, and when she asked Sun Zhihao for it, he didn't give a penny, and said humiliatingly: "Why are you so unsatisfied, I have everything to eat and wear at home, do you want to hollow out my family's bottom before you can give up?" ”
This kind of life is very different from what Jia Jingwen originally wanted, and in a fit of anger, she filed for divorce. But at this time, Sun Zhihao began to deliberately embarrass her and did not go home all day.
But Jia Jingwen made up her mind to leave, and even if he hid in the United States, she still chased him. Sun Zhihao saw that she was so eager to leave, so he said that he would do marital property cutting and asked her to pay 26 million yuan before signing the divorce.
What made Jia Jingwen most painful was that Sun Zhihao knew that she couldn't let go of her daughter, so he dragged the custody of her daughter in his hands, and even called a team of lawyers to grab her.
At this time, Jia Jingwen was confused, and in a hurry, she repeated her old tricks like when she married Sun Zhihao, selling miserable in front of the public account, and once again using public opinion to guide the Sun family, Sun Zhihao was angry and corrupted, and directly broke out the text messages that exposed Jia Jingwen and Huang Lei's mutual concern on weekdays on the grounds of ambiguity.
In the end, their divorce lawsuit went back and forth, which lasted more than a year to stop, although Jia Jingwen finally got the custody of her daughter, but Sun Zhihao also put forward harsh requirements, requiring Jia Jingwen not to leave her daughter for more than 5 days no matter how busy she was.
And Jia Jingwen is a person with a strong family concept, as long as she stays with her daughter, all conditions are fully accepted, and since then, while taking her daughter, filming. And Sun Zhihao, who fooled around with Ono Mo all day long, was not tired of it.
For Jia Jingwen, Sun Zhihao is the wrong person.
Fortunately, after Jia Jingwen gave up Sun Zhihao's feelings, she met a man named Xiu Jiekai, and now she lives a quiet and peaceful life with him, and her life is gradually clearer.
Almost half of her life has been spent on Shao Zhiyong, and if she could understand it earlier, her life would have been many more difficult days.
03. Those who have hurt her have spoiled the current one into a treasure
In the hearts of many people, a man like Sun Zhihao who spends his heart and is playful cannot be entrusted with sincerity.
But what he didn't expect was that after Sun Zhihao left Jia Jingwen for a few years, he really accepted his heart and was wholeheartedly good to Lin Ruoya.
At that time, Sun Zhihao attended a dinner and met Lin Ruoya, and he was moved at the first sight, and began to chase wildly like he usually chased girls.
Although Lin Ruoya is only a small model, she has become a special existence in Sun Zhihao's eyes. He not only held her in his hand and felt distressed, but also took the initiative to take her home to meet her parents.
The most surprising thing is that Sun Zhihao's parents like Lin Ruoya very much, and in the year that Jia Jingwen married Xiu Jiekai, Lin Ruoya also married Sun Zhihao.
After marriage, Lin Ruoya did not become pregnant, but the Sun family never urged her. Since marrying Lin Ruoya, Sun Zhihao suddenly became responsible, and began to care about himself and Jia Jingwen's daughter Wutong Mei, and became a good father in his daughter's heart.
Lin Ruoya also regarded his daughter as his own. On the birthday of the Wutong sister, she will also take the initiative to remind her husband. Once Jia Jingwen was too busy, she first prepared the gift, and then directly took Wutong sister home, and she and her husband did a birthday patty for Wutong sister.
Some good people saw that Lin Ruoya had not had children for many years, so they began to yin and yang strange irony, saying that her own stomach was not contentious, so she regarded her ex-husband's children as her own children.
But Sun Zhihao explained that the couple did not want children for the time being, and Lin Ruoya respected her husband's opinion.
Why did Jia Jingwen obviously give birth to a child and look more beautiful than Lin Ruoya, but she was not accepted?
I think it's because she met the wrong person at the right time. At that time, Sun Zhihao was still a child's heart, only thinking about playing, and when he was playing, suddenly someone wanted to bind himself with a child and put forward various requirements for himself, which was naturally unhappy.
In fact, any man does not like to be controlled too tightly by women, women must not think that after giving birth, they can control everything about each other as a matter of course, which will only make each other feel suffocated, and will quickly distance each other.
However, as time passed, Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao also put aside their past grudges.
In 2019, Wutong Mei graduated, Sun Zhihao and Jia Jingwen went to school to pick up their daughter from school, and Wutong Mei made a request: "Mom and Dad, can we take a picture?" At this time, Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao both smiled, stood beside their daughter, and left a rare group photo.
Many people say that Lin Ruoya's life is very good, just at the age when Sun Zhihao is sensible.
In my opinion, adults will not suddenly get better, and it is difficult to be forced to change, but will only be slowly influenced by people. It was Lin Ruoya who was good at discovering his goodness, tolerant and gentle enough to him, melting the ice in his heart like water, making him want to have a home from the bottom of his heart.
Lin Ruoya's family situation is different from Jia Jingwen, and the way she treats people is completely different, and at the beginning she was with Sun Zhihao, because she appreciated each other and did not have any requirements for him.
At the same time, in life, she knows how to recognize Sun Zhihao, and when she wants her husband to do something, she will never use the way of command, but the way of coquetry, nor will she please her in-laws, and she has her own opinions.
Of course, it is understandable that Jia Jingwen approached Sun Zhihao with a purpose at the beginning, if the man she met really loved her, even if it was money, people would not mind, just as the so-called life that loves you is afraid of not giving you enough, and the life that does not love you is afraid that you will ask too much.
Of course, if Sun Zhihao meets a woman who is still too purposeful like Jia Jingwen used to be, it is estimated that it will be difficult to accept it. The most important thing is that when he meets Lin Ruoya, he really moves his heart, and he will be willing to change himself for her.
I have heard a saying: Love does not always happen at the right time. People live a lifetime, and some people, meet early, meet late, are not as good as encounters. It is really appropriate to describe Sun Zhihao's several relationships.
epilogue
Throughout Sun Zhihao's life, it is not difficult to find that he did not know how to love people in the past, even if the family disciplined more, he was still wild and difficult to tame, and Jia Jingwen met him like this.
But then his growth also told everyone,
That is to say, when facing your lover, your attitude also determines the attitude of your lover. If you have a tough attitude, the other party will naturally compete with you, and if you want a soft lover, first of all, your own heart must be soft first.