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Hello everyone, I am a @C mother who raised a baby, a former college teacher, and brought two eldest babies with one hand. Follow me, don't be confused on the road to parenting~
To be precise, I joined self-media in February 2019, and although at that time I didn't even know what self-media was and what parenting creators were, I also had to try this path because I had no choice.
Distant marriage forced to become a stay-at-home mother
I graduated with a bachelor's degree, and I successfully applied to a university as a teacher just after graduation, and when I thought I could shine on the three-foot podium I loved, I was stuck in this world and became a full-time mother.
The third aunt and six mothers-in-law all said that my book was read in vain, but my parents understood my choice, because my father-in-law was weak and sick and could not help with the children, and my parents couldn't help if they wanted to, one was too far away, and the other was that the water and soil were not satisfied.
Marrying Shaanxi from Hainan more than 2,000 kilometers away is not only the gap in distance, but also the difference in food culture between the north and the south. Mom and Dad said that if I wanted a career, I could send my children to Hainan, and they would help me take care of them.
Looking at my parents whose sideburns have long turned white, my nose is a little sour, they finally pulled our three brothers and sisters up, they should have enjoyed their old age in peace, how can I let them worry about it again, after all, marrying far away is already my unfilial piety.
Moreover, having grown up with my parents since I was a child, I don't want my children to be left-behind children. If you can take care of your children but you can't take care of your career, if you can take care of your career but you can't take care of your children, you can't have both fish and bear's paw.
Stay-at-home moms can't find suitable jobs
Married for ten years, every day around the children's stove, forgetting how long I haven't been shopping. There are no friends, no socialization, no other talents other than laundry, cooking, and housework, and even their own expertise is rusty.
When Erbao was over 35 years old when she went to kindergarten, I thought I could go back to the workplace and do a good job, only to find that our full-time mother seemed to be forgotten by society, and the resume I put out was all lost.
In this way, I went around the road to 40 years old and still did not find a suitable job, because no company was willing to hire an ancestor. What do you say stay-at-home moms can do if they go out to work?
Let's not pick other things, let's talk about this working time, you definitely can't go to work at 8 o'clock in the morning, because the child goes to school at 8 o'clock, at least he has to go to work at eight thirty at the earliest.
Then it's the end of work, don't say 6 o'clock, even 5 o'clock, because the children leave school at 4:50, you have to leave work at least four-thirty, almost have time to pick up the children.
You can't let the child wait in that pitiful place every day, always the last to go, right? This time is still the most basic requirement, like children after kindergarten especially love to be sick, three days and two heads of leave, which work unit can accept it?
If you are at work, the teacher suddenly calls you that your child vomited at school and had a fever. At this time, no matter what you do, do you have to immediately ask for leave, and then rush over non-stop?
You say that we have so many uncertainties, what job is appropriate? Do you know why most of the people who are scammed by micro-merchants are stay-at-home mothers? And why are most of the leeks cut in the short video also full-time mothers?
No way, because it's just two industries. Therefore, it is really difficult for stay-at-home mothers to raise their children well and earn some pocket money at the same time.
Stay-at-home moms choose to join self-media
Although being a full-time mother is not a wrong thing, facing a mortgage that is thousands of dollars larger every month and 2 young children, I have to take my first step and open my road to self-media.
I am a person who likes to share, since joining the self-media, I have learned how to be a self-media person while taking the baby, and then sharing my parenting experience through the Internet, many mothers have been helped, making me more motivated to learn and share!
Now think about it, I can use my own parenting experience to solve many practical problems of mothers in feeding and parenting, so that more babies can grow up healthily and take fewer detours on the road to growth, which may be my simplest original intention for self-media.
Through the sharing of self-media, I have met many full-time mothers like me, who joined self-media earlier than me and have rich experience, which not only makes my full-time mother road no longer lonely, but also provides a lot of help on my road to self-media.
From 0 fans to hundreds of thousands of fans on the whole platform, from 0 income to monthly income of more than 10,000, do not worry about children not being taken care of, do not have to live a day with the palm of their hands, did not expect that only a mobile phone can achieve the realization of bringing a baby to earn money through self-media!
The harvest of stay-at-home moms joining self-media
Unconsciously doing self-media has gone through 4 spring and autumn, during which there have been countless thoughts of giving up, but in the end they have persevered, I am also glad that I joined self-media, and I am feeling the wonderfulness brought by this wave at the moment.
First of all, it can give me a sense of existence, and by sharing my parenting experience, I can be recognized by many mothers, so that more children can grow up healthier and happier on the road to growth, which makes me feel an indescribable sense of accomplishment.
The affirmation of my mothers is my motivation to move forward, and the accumulation of fans is my greatest pride. After all, people will have a little vanity, and when they are needed by many people, they feel an inexplicable sense of happiness!
Secondly, it is the economic income brought by self-media, which is also an affirmation of my efforts. No need to experience workplace fraud, no need to worry about children not being taken care of, as long as you are diligent enough to create, there is no problem with a monthly income of thousands of thousands.
For me as a full-time mother, it is the Internet that has changed my life, and it is self-media that has allowed me to be affirmed by more people, allowing me to transform from a full-time mother who loves to complain about life to a self-media person!
In the era of self-media, everyone can be a self-media person! Female friends who are still watching, also bravely take your first step, let's witness the growth together, let's cheer together!