Since using the "three-step" method of homework, Happy's daily homework time has been directly shortened by half, and it only takes one to two hours to complete the original homework for one night, and the effect is really good!
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When it comes to children's homework, many parents are bitter.
What kind of grinding, writing for half a minute and half an hour to rest, no matter how you supervise, it is uh-huh on the mouth, there is no movement on the hand, originally a little homework, you have to write until eleven or twelve o'clock to reluctantly stop;
What don't worry about it, writing homework is purely coping, whether it is right or wrong, good or bad, messy and confused for a while, sometimes for the multiple problems pointed out, it is only one or a few changes, always ignoring the remaining few;
What is not active, the homework is only written by the teacher, the extracurricular homework is not touched, and the homework assigned by the parents is as reluctant as it is to do.
Wait, wait, it's a few days and nights that can't be finished, so that the parents accompanying them are angry, it's not not that it's not no, it's not a grumpy mom and dad, and they do it directly.
It is said that before the third grade is the golden period for children's good learning habits to cultivate, but in the face of this "oil and salt do not enter", "I go my own way" and "just do not change" children, it really makes many parents helpless.
Before Happy, he was also such a child, plus he had more extracurricular classes every week, and it was already late when he returned home, and it was often eleven or twelve o'clock after finishing his homework. The more anxious and slower he writes, the slower and more anxious he writes, and it is simply entering an endless cycle until Happy Dad sees the "three-step" method of writing homework.
The "three-step" method of writing assignments
The so-called "three-step" method is actually to divide the whole process of children's homework into three parts, classify and manage each part, and provide accurate guidance, and finally achieve the purpose of improving the efficiency of writing homework and shortening the time of homework.
The three steps are: preparation before writing homework→ classification timing→ checking summary.
Happy Dad will describe these three steps in detail below.
The first is to prepare before writing homework.
The preparation here involves many aspects, such as preparing the homework to be written first, preparing the stationery to be used, drinking water and toilet in advance, cleaning up everything on the desk that is not related to homework, etc., and starting to write homework without distractions when everything is ready.
The advantages of this are also obvious, the homework and stationery are prepared, and you don't have to look for books, turn through workbooks, sharpen pencils, and find erasers. The same is true for drinking water toilets in advance, so that children can focus on the homework itself during the time of writing homework, and minimize the influence of the outside world.
For example, after coming home from school, I will first drink water and eat something to pad my stomach, and then sit at the desk and start preparing my homework and study supplies, which is also a process of relieving the excitement of the body after returning home, and gradually turning my mind to homework. When all the preparations are made and the mood has fallen, you can concentrate more on homework.
As for the length of this time, it can be dynamically adjusted according to the child's situation and the physical condition of the day, and it is generally within 10 minutes if you are happy. If it grows longer, the child may be able to play with other things and lose the meaning of preparation.
This is followed by categorical timing.
On the one hand, the homework to be written is classified and listed according to 123. It can be classified according to subjects such as mathematics, language, English, etc., or it can be arranged according to the form of each homework, such as writing and reading for a while, memorizing and copying for a while, or it can be classified according to the difficulty of the homework. The general principle is that children can classify as much as they like or are willing, as long as they can cover all the homework content.
This process, in addition to cultivating children's concept of planning, let them have a roughly controllable step in their minds before doing things, and they will be orderly and have a bottom in their hearts. It can also help children recall the knowledge learned in class during the day, evoke their memory of class content, and repeat the homework content behind the continuous recall of the class content, which is of great help to successfully complete the homework;
On the other hand, it is timing, the above listed work content, according to the amount and difficulty of the allocation of reasonable time, can be completed in this time will have a certain reward, such as a small red flower, accumulate enough 10 small red flowers to get a self-selected reward, etc., and if it is not completed, there will be a certain punishment, such as the need to double the unfinished part and so on.
This step is very important, timing can not only make children have tension, and then unconsciously improve their efficiency, reduce unnecessary friction, but also cultivate children's sense of time, not only in homework, but also in life.
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Finally, there is a summary of the check.
Inspection is to quickly and comprehensively check the homework completed by yourself, to ensure that it is completed in accordance with the teacher's requirements, and to ensure that the content is correctly written and so on.
In fact, many parents do not do this well, they are often children write their own checks, and then point out the wrong places for the children to change. It seems that it is a process of finding errors and then correcting them, but the effect received is very different because the main body is different.
The child checks by himself, not only to find mistakes, but more to rethink the homework itself, whether he did it right, what kind of thinking he did when he did it, whether there is another way to use it, etc., a serious check, the effect is stronger than several aimless corrections.
At the beginning, parents can check with their children to help them find ways to check, such as addition can be checked by subtraction, multiplication can be checked by division, and for example, looking at pictures and writing words can be read out to find errors in writing and sentence formation, etc., and over time, children can complete the work of checking by themselves.
To sum up, it is actually a process of normalizing the job.
For children, homework is essentially a process of deepening knowledge learning, and the process of mastering knowledge points is examined by doing questions. And the summary, is to normalize the homework, normalize the knowledge points, find the content of the homework investigation, find the solution to the problem, find the rules talked about in the textbook, etc., this is to really help children master the knowledge.
There are ways to summarize, there are methods of accumulating wrong questions, methods of repeating notes, and methods of recalling content, and parents can choose different ways according to the child's ability. Either way, it's important to get your child moving on his own and forming habits.
At the beginning of this "three-step" method, it may take a lot of time, more than the child's direct homework, but the effect will gradually show after getting familiar with it. After being happy and familiar with this method, the efficiency of writing homework every day has been improved to varying degrees, and the time for writing homework has also been shortened a lot.
At last
Many parents complain about the various "problems" of children's writing, in fact, many times the child does not know how to complete the homework better and faster, can write the homework in advance to do what he likes, which child will refuse?
So, instead of forcing reprimands or educating children, why not try this three-step method and let it go with the flow to develop good learning habits? #头条创作挑战赛 #