Once, Fang Wenshan wrote a word that he was very satisfied with, and happily handed it to Jay Chou to let him quickly compose the music. However, I didn't expect Jay Chou to be very unhappy when he saw it, and said that he was unwilling to compose anything!
As a golden partner, this is the first and only time Jay Chou has rejected Fang Wenshan after the two partners cooperated.
What's going on here?
It turned out that the song written by Fang Wenshan was called "Throw My Horse and Slap My Horse".
"I don't think it's good, if it's published, it's really not fair to girls." Jay said.
Counting the entertainment industry, there are also many men who respect women.
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Even if you have a high position, you will still speak up for the weak
At that time, at the press conference of "Police Storm", the atmosphere was originally very good, and the main creative team was promoting the TV series, but suddenly Sun Honglei, who was the starring actor, became angry.
Everyone on the spot was confused and didn't know what was going on?
Later, I learned that he was speaking out for a supporting role that had nothing to do with him and was not famous.
And this person is the "sister-in-law" Gao Ye.
Actress Gao Ye who became popular with the role of sister-in-law in "Crazy". At that time, there was no fire, and it was still a 10,000-year supporting role without fame.
But as an actor, Gao Ye has no small role in his eyes.
Every time I received the script, I carefully studied it and tried to create the best character.
In the film, she plays a girl who is about to be tied up by a killer and buckled to the wall. His face was covered in plastic wrap and he struggled in despair.
In order to express emotions more realistically and present the best effect of the work, she was almost suffocated! At that time, I was too involved, I was already in shock, but fortunately I was discovered in time to escape.
But such desperation, but did not exchange the name on the poster and the invitation to the press conference.
In order to promote his juniors and make excellent actors seen by everyone, Sun Honglei publicly spoke up and supported Gao Ye, who was not famous, but worked hard and worked hard for his career.
In Sun Honglei's view, there is no essential difference between male and female actors, only the difference in gender. As long as they are serious about acting, they should be respected.
As a senior in the industry, he took the initiative to speak out in front of the media, so that more people knew Gao Ye, and Gao Ye's heart was warm, and he was more determined to be a good actor.
In addition to Sun Honglei, there is also Leslie Cheung, who has passed away, so is it.
At that time, he already had power and resources in his hands, but he did not use this as a bargaining chip to promote his juniors.
When working with Shu Qi, Shu Qi had just arrived in Hong Kong as a new talent, and he could not speak Cantonese well and often needed to be remade.
Shu Qi felt guilty, because of her own reasons, she needed everyone to accompany her to re-enact over and over again.
However, Leslie Cheung was not impatient.
But on the set, he patiently accompanied newcomer Shu Qi through the scene. also said good things for Shu Qi in front of the staff, hoping that they would give newcomers a little more chance.
In order to allow Shu Qi to quickly gain a foothold in Hong Kong, Leslie Cheung even specially created a topic for her, inviting her to be a guest and sit on his lap at the concert.
Topical, but not pornographic, successfully helped Shu Qi open up the Hong Kong market.
He is already a superstar, Shu Qi is still a newcomer, but he respects women, does not look down on and bully women, puts women on the same footing as himself, and is a true gentleman.
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As men, although it is not their duty to protect women. But many men instinctively protect women, which is really handsome and too capable!
Once, Di Li Gerba was recording a show when an avid fan suddenly rushed to the stage and knelt down to propose.
Scared everyone silly.
Wang Han next to him was quick-eyed, held the hand of the male fan, stabilized his emotions, prevented him from taking further actions, and arranged for the staff to quickly pull the man off the stage.
Zhang Wei and Liu Yuning, who were on the same stage, also took the initiative to block in front of Reba to avoid Reba being harmed.
In another show, Yu Shuxin wears a short skirt and is about to enter a dancing session.
Afraid of dancing and walking away, when he wanted to tidy up his clothes, Wang Hedi, who was sitting next to him, turned sideways to block the camera.
People who truly know how to respect women exude a glamorous light.
Speaking of which, I have to mention Wang Jiaer.
In the recording of the running man, the female guest Song Yuqi sat on a chair in a short skirt, facing the camera. That angle is easy to walk away.
The camera turned again and found that she had an extra bag in her hand.
Although the camera did not explain, the bag was obviously handed over by Wang Jiaer. Because it has Wang Jiaer's name written on it.
In South Korea, when co-hosting the show with Bae Zhuyun, Wang Jiaer is also a presence that makes people feel more secure.
Pei Zhuyan and a male rapper were sitting together in front of the camera, and suddenly the other party came in front of him and put his arm on his shoulder.
Wang Jiaer saw it and made a decisive move.
He walked quickly onto the stage, stretched out the microphone in his hand between the two, physically separated the male rapper and Pei Zhuyan, and skillfully helped Pei Zhuyun get out of the embarrassing situation.
Another time, fans came from thousands of miles to fence the road tightly, just wanting to be closer to the idol Wang Jiaer.
Wang Jiaer found that some male fans pushed female fans hard by virtue of their gender advantages. His eyes crossed with a hint of displeasure. Then he immediately told male fans not to push female fans and to protect everyone's safety.
For female peers and fans, they are so intimate, such Wang Jiaer really loves ~
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However, in the entertainment industry, there are also some male stars, who clearly have problems with themselves, but use the gender difference to suppress female stars.
Actor Qiao Xin is one meter and seven meters tall, although his face is fleshy, he weighs only 94 pounds, which can be said to be very thin.
Even so, when filming the drama "My Girlfriend I Can't Fall in Love with", she was disgusted by the male protagonist Xu Weizhou of the same crew: she is too fat!
It turned out that there was such a scene in the play that Xu Weizhou needed to pick up Princess Qiao Xin.
However, Xu Weizhou couldn't hold Qiao Xin, who was only 94 pounds! Not only did he not find the reason from himself, but he looked disgusted at Qiao Xin, who fell to the ground, "You are too fat." ”
He also immediately complained to the surrounding staff, "I blame her for her big head." ”
Until later in an interview, when talking about this topic, Xu Weizhou did not realize that it was the reason for his poor physical strength.
He also smiled and said that the princess couldn't hug Qiao Xin, she was not embarrassed, and it was the other party who should be embarrassed. She should reflect on why she let herself fail, her strength is still very strong.
In addition to Qiao Xin, another actress, Di Li Gerba, also had self-doubt because she was going to be hugged by the princess in the play.
Reba was originally very thin, but he was repeatedly said by the actor he cooperated with that he was too heavy to hold.
And what is even more frightening is that he is clearly a victim of weight discrimination. On the contrary, because of the other party's blow, I really mistook myself for the truth.
Therefore, once when cooperating with Zhou Yumin, he also needed the princess to hug, and he was particularly afraid that the other party could not hold him, and she was very anxious, "Everyone said they could pick me up, but everyone held me for less than 15 seconds." ”
However, one day, her anxiety was cured by the young actor Wu Lei!
During the shooting, Wu Lei didn't say anything about her weight and easily picked her up.
This is a first for Di Li Gerba. She was excited, it turned out that she could also be easily picked up by the other party.
For Wu Lei, this is not a difficult thing.
In another drama "Star Han Splendid", Wu Lei not only easily picked up actress Zhao Lusi, but also very easily when holding it with one hand!
When interviewed on this topic, Wu Lei said: "I just have the normal strength of an adult man. ”
That's what a normal male should say!
Wu Lei is very young, but his words and easy action of holding up cured the weight anxiety of female stars.
Do not suppress the actresses who cooperate, do not belittle each other, to show their sense of strength.
This kind of action really makes people marvel: the child star in the past has really grown up and grown into a mature man!
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Respect for women is also reflected in seeing women's contributions, and being willing to thank women for their contributions, rather than just accepting them comfortably.
After South Korean actor Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei got married, they welcomed their daughter.
Considering that women's career cycles are relatively short, he made a decisive decision to temporarily give up his career and return to his family to take care of his children.
Lee Seung-hyun is Korean, similar to China, and believes in male protagonists and female protagonists.
But he saw the impact of his wife Qi Wei's pregnancy and childbirth on his career, and his wife's concessions to the family.
He is grateful to his wife for her dedication to the family and wants to support her in pursuing her career and dreams.
He said to his wife, "Honey, go and fight for your career with peace of mind, and leave everything in the family to me."
Stay-at-home dads are not good.
"The scariest thing is that it takes a lot of time and energy every day, and it looks like nothing is being done."
For 7 years, he took good care of his daughter, and more importantly, he was willing to pay for the small family.
Then he was called a "soft rice man" because he had little contact with the outside world. It even developed into depression for a while.
And all this Qi Wei also looked at the eyes, she was also considerate of Li Chengxuan, and accompanied him through this difficult period.
At the same time, the experience of Lee Seung-hyun's full-time milkman also shows everyone a different model of family division of labor. Whether it is a man or a woman, making money or bringing a baby, the contribution to the family is the same.
Coincidentally, after actor Yuan Hong and his wife Zhang Xinyi got married and had children, as a husband, when his wife gave birth, he took the initiative to put down the work at hand, and took the responsibility of taking care of the children with his wife, breastfeeding, burping, and was not rusty at all.
The child is shared by both husband and wife.
The actor abandons the worldly vision and takes on the responsibility of raising offspring with his wife, although he is not a leap forward in his career, but I have to say that the father who participates in the growth of his children with his heart is also very powerful!
They are not so much respecting their wife's femininity as respecting her rights as a human being.
Men who know how to respect women are basically very happy, such as Jay Chou, Yuan Hong, etc., they are all reaping the success of their careers while also reaping happy families.
Finally, I especially hope that there can be more such men in domestic entertainment and even in the whole society! What we seek is not absolute equality between men and women, but the freedom of everyone as human beings!
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Text | Pang Pang Pang Pang
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