As the saying goes: Hope for a son becomes a dragon, and hope for a daughter becomes a phoenix. This is the ardent hope of every parent for their children. Of course, some people may say, I don't want my child to become a famous figure, nor do I want him to make much career and contribution, I just hope that he is safe, healthy, and happy.
It is true that with the advancement of material living conditions, people have long been free of food and clothing, and clothing, food, shelter and transportation have been well guaranteed, especially for those whose family conditions are still good. So what motivates people to fight so hard? There may be only one answer, and that is to fully realize the value and meaning of one's life.
Like ourselves, we want to give more, achieve greater ideals, higher pursuits, and children are the same, they do not want to live under the care and love of their parents all their lives, such a life is passive and has lost its brilliance.
Therefore, in any case, we should fully respect the child, encourage him, and help him to achieve the ideals in his heart. It's all tied to the word "Fu". If children are "blessed", the following "signs" often appear, and one is also remarkable.
First, love to read. Reading is the best way to learn and grow at any time. To read a good book is to make friends with an excellent person, absorb his excellent ideas, draw nutrients from his life experience, and help your own growth. A person who loves to read, the future development must be limitless. Since ancient times, almost all excellent characters have read and studied for pleasure and persevered throughout their lives, just like eating and sleeping every day, as long as you don't interrupt, you are constantly growing.
Second, be kind and generous. When your life has a certain height, you will find that you are not born for yourself, but for others. On the surface, it seems that you are fighting for something, but when you reach a certain point, you will find that being a person is actually for yourself. Only by better serving people and bringing help and benefits to others can we achieve greater achievements.
Therefore, if you want to develop better and better in life, you must be indispensable to the help of the power of good karma, then you need to make good karma and give a lot of altruism. A person who has good intentions and is willing to give charity, no matter where he goes, not only with the help of others, but also with the blessing of "heaven", his life will become more and more complete.
Third, be humble. There is only one trigram in the I Ching, and the six trigrams are all auspicious, that is, the "humble" trigram. No matter what kind of achievements a person has achieved, what height and level he has reached, we must always maintain a humble heart and maintain awe for all things in the world, so as to provide a steady stream of motivation for your progress.
When you think that you are already great, powerful, and invincible, it is also time for you to start to fall and go downhill.