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The birth of a new life is often accompanied by loud cries, the mother in the delivery room hears the crying and sheds tears excitedly, and the family outside the delivery room hears the child crying, and a stone in the heart falls to the ground.
Before, most people only heard the sound of newborns crying, and rarely saw the baby's expression and state at that time, as mobile phone cameras became more and more popular, let us see the most real appearance of newborns more clearly.
<h1>After the baby was born, he "cried in a fancy way", with a look of grievance and dissatisfaction</h1>
Adults think that the newborn baby does not understand things and cannot express emotions, but the newborn he recently saw wrote all his emotions on his face and staged "fancy crying" in the delivery room.
When the doctor's aunt sucked the amniotic fluid on him with a hose, the baby grabbed the tube and cried loudly, closing his eyes tightly, and seemed to be very dissatisfied with his "throat and eyes" being "smothered" by the tube.
When the aunt put diapers on the baby to care for the umbilical cord, the baby raised his hand and held his head and cried.
When people were busy cleaning his body, he picked up the small quilt next to him and cried even more sadly. Even if he finally stopped crying, he still pouted his mouth and looked unhappy, which could not help but make people wonder how sad and dissatisfied he was.
Some netizens said: "This baby may not accept the fact that he was born, reluctant to be separated from his mother, not satisfied with being around by the doctor, and will use crying to express dissatisfaction." However, the doctor is not afraid of the baby crying, the louder the cry, the better.
<h1>The louder the newborn's cry, the happier people are</h1>
The method of crying or not hugging babies has long been rejected, and usually everyone will go to coax immediately after seeing the baby crying, but the louder the newborn cries, the happier the doctors and parents are.
The crying of a newborn is a way for him to report peace, and he receives oxygen through his mother's umbilical cord when he is in his mother's belly, and he has to change his breathing pattern in the instant after birth. Crying proves that he can breathe smoothly, and crying loudly means that his lungs are developing well.
Therefore, when we see newborns crying, there is no feeling of anxiety and heartache, but more joy and expectation.
<h1>A baby who surprises his family has a lot of abilities</h1>
Seeing the baby just born, I have to sigh the magic of life, from the moment the baby has a heartbeat in our stomach and will move, to the moment when the baby is born to really meet with himself, the whole process is a wonderful experience. After the birth of the baby, he brought us a lot of surprises, and although he was born, he was small but had many abilities.
▼ After birth, I will look for my mother
Can you believe it? Newborns will also look for their mothers. He may not even have his eyes open and he doesn't know what his mother smells like, but he can tell which is his mother's voice through adult speech.
Because during the long pregnancy, the fetal treasure is to listen to the mother's voice, singing and the sound of various emotions to grow up, and only after birth is the most familiar with the mother's voice.
▼ Breastfeeding at birth
I have really seen some mothers think that babies need to be taught by adults, in fact, small babies have the ability to suck after birth, when his mouth is close to the mother's chest, he will naturally open his mouth and start sucking, don't look at other people's small suckling strength.
▼ After birth, I cling to things
The little baby we mentioned at the beginning of the article, he dragged the hose with his hand and then pulled the small quilt, from the picture you can see that he grasped very tightly, this skill may have been exercised by grasping the umbilical cord when he was still a fetus.
This is the grasping reflex ability of a small baby at birth, and when his small hand touches an object, it will subconsciously cling to it and not let go.
I have seen an experiment in which the newborn's hands hold a pole and lift the pole, and the newborn's grip force can be enough to support him not to fall off the pole, but this action is more dangerous, parents do not imitate.
▼ Emotions can be perceived after birth
Although the newborn can't understand what the adult means, he can roughly feel whether his parents are gentle or angry, and he will react differently to the different attitudes of his parents when they speak.
When the mother whispered softly and hugged herself to sleep, the little baby also acted very enjoyable and happy. When Mom and Dad wanted to be impatient, or even yell at the baby, he cried even harder. Don't think that the baby doesn't know anything, just release his negative emotions in front of him, which will cause great harm to his young mind.
<h1>Build an intimate relationship with your little baby as early as possible</h1>
If you want to enhance the relationship between yourself and your baby, you don't have to wait until he knows how to talk before acting, and the best time to establish a close parent-child relationship is the first few months of the baby's birth.
Don't talk when taking care of the baby, although the baby will not respond to what we say, he will listen carefully. Observe how our mouths move. In this process, not only the feelings between him and his parents are getting deeper and deeper, but he can also learn to speak earlier under the influence of his parents' repetitive machine language.