Rushing to work, picking up the kids from work, the kids complained about why their mother came to pick me up so late.
During the meal, the company group sent a message informing them that there was an emergency meeting tomorrow morning, and my mother's appetite was gone. But looking at this little face in front of her, my mother knew that the road at night was still long.
Before having children, I never thought that raising children was so difficult. What the experts on the table don't tell you is how they can experience the real pain of mothers when they are struggling with parenting situations, or some have no children at all.
In this day when information is becoming more and more developed, the pace is getting faster and faster, and the wind and clouds are changing, how to provide children with a stable growth environment seems to become very difficult. The requirements and standards of the workplace are becoming more and more stringent, and in a place where everyone talks about performance, you want to slow down, enjoy flowers and tea, and be patient to accompany your children to draw a picture, all of which have become a test of practice and cultivation.
I like the principles of doing things shared by a working mom, and I feel comfortable doing something, just choose that, and then evaluate the weight of other projects. Mom is not Superman, she can't carry it all.
Some mothers do not value money, or do not worry about financial problems, most of these mothers are very loving and gentle, will choose to be volunteers, meet some like-minded friends, live a fulfilling life, can also exchange parenting information, and hope to have some places to play and contribute.
The other kind of mother, who should be the general public, is running in the roller of social animals, hoping that one day we will be able to be rich and free, but I don't know that under the pursuit of mortgages, car loans and childcare expenses, there is no chance to get out. The child complained about why his mother came to pick me up so late, and his mother held his little hand to a nearby restaurant for dinner.
During the meal, the company's group sent a message to inform that there was an emergency meeting to be held at nine o'clock tomorrow morning, remember to prepare materials to do the report, my mother's appetite for eating was gone, but looking at this little face in front of me, my mother knew that the road at night was still very long, and the anxiety and struggle in my heart were going to do something, there was no time to make a report, and the child pestered me again. The mother is thinking about choosing to turn on the computer to make a report, and at the same time turn on the TV to watch cartoons for the child, or to accompany him for five minutes to play and then make a report, or to accompany him to play and wait for him to fall asleep and then make a report. My mother was inextricably linked in her heart, she only finished work in the morning, and she didn't let me go at night, and she felt the urge to quit.
The mother gritted her teeth, while thinking about the report in her mind, while accompanying the child to play a game of peek-a-boo, helping the child take a bath, hugging each other on the bed and falling asleep, the child said to the mother: "Mom, can you always accompany me, from this life to the next life and every life?" Such a question, the mother feels that the child's dependence and love are so real, how much can she give him?
Returning to personal time management, what is important? If you value family life, then don't be too attached to the money thing, and the title rank is also. In fact, people have to retire after all, the title cannot be taken away, life is to accompany you for a lifetime, establish a firewall, so that external things do not affect the stability of parenting quality, but children are not the whole of life, he also has his way to go, we just walk together for a while, tell ourselves that difficulties can be passed.