Why are more and more girls now "afraid of pregnancy"?
In addition to physical pain and sequelae, there are many other factors that make girls very worried.
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Physical discomfort accounts for a large part of the reason, morning sickness when pregnant, sometimes even eating and vomiting, no appetite at all. Also, there are various examinations every month during pregnancy, which is exhausting. After being pregnant for a long time, it is very inconvenient to move, you can't tie your own shoes, and you even need help taking a bath. There is always cranky thinking about nothing, and I am always worried about the development of the baby in my belly.
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The pain of childbirth is even more "fearful" of girls, and there are many pains during childbirth, such as: contractions, labor pain, if the normal birth is difficult to labor, lateral incision may be required, and there may be heavy bleeding in difficult labor. After giving birth, the whole person was greatly damaged. If the family does not take care of their emotions in time, the woman may also have postpartum depression after giving birth. In addition to emotional problems, ugly stretch marks, and body shape, this is very difficult for girls who naturally love beauty to accept.
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For most pregnant women with ordinary family conditions, they have to continue to work when they are pregnant, and after childbirth, some ordinary family mothers may not even be satisfied with confinement, so they have to continue to work to earn money to supplement the family. The vitality has not yet been replenished, and it is necessary to devote itself to busy work, and the physical and mental pressure will be overwhelming.
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Postpartum depression will always be said to be "pretentious", but postpartum depression is a point that cannot be ignored, many girls will be more or less postpartum depression after giving birth, there are many reasons, the husband's inattention, the mother-in-law's accusation. There are also various symptoms that occur after childbirth, such as urinary leakage, postpartum laxity, and bulging diseases. These problems make girls really more and more "afraid of marriage and childbirth".
How can "fear of breeding" be eliminated?
Good communication in a timely and effective manner is very important, and a large part of the reason for quarrels and incomprehension between two people is that the two people do not communicate effectively. Three sentences did not finish and quarreled, such communication will make the relationship between the two people worse and worse. After two people encounter problems, they must calmly tell each other their thoughts and face the problem together, rather than two people saying nothing and sulking each other.
Trust your lover and elders and tell them what their needs are. At the same time, adjust your mentality, don't always suffer from gains and losses, excessive anxiety, life is a soldier to block the water to cover the soil, nothing can defeat a mother-to-be, come on, mothers.